“Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else’s opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.” Oscar Wilde
No matter who we are or what we do, we can’t expect to be everyone’s cup of tea. Someone’s opinion of you, good or bad, should not be relevant in the grand scheme of things.
So it’s a real waste if you spend time trying to communicate the negative opinions that you’ve constructed in your mind about me. First, it’s just lazy and shallow to decide that you don’t like me, when you have very little information about me and when you’ve made zero effort to get the facts right.
It’s rude to speculate and if that’s how you like to operate, you’re definitely not worth my attention. What you’re doing is only defining the type of person that you are and quite frankly it’s not desirable.
How can you possibly think that your opinion matters to me? It’s laughable, you give yourself way too much credit. You see, it doesn’t affect me at all if anything it makes me feel sorry for you because you’re definitely missing out on truly knowing me. I’m very confident of myself, enough to be certain that my value doesn’t depend on you or anyone.
Unlike you, I consider the possibility that there’s more to you than meets the eye. I don’t know you well and the little that I know is not enough to make a fair opinion about you. I do think that your lack of judgment is perhaps a reflection of some rooted issue you might be trying to compensate for. I won’t speculate though, I’m not you, I’m far from being like you.
You’ve decided that you don’t like me even after I made myself available to you to find out who I really am. You still didn’t care to know me, so I have little respect for you and all the false negative things you have to say about me. Screw you!
It’s empowering to live your truth regardless of how it makes others feel. I know that if I try to please every single soul on the planet, I’ll live my life feeling empty, never satisfied or happy. Free will dictates that I have the power to pave my own path. It means I have autonomy and independence. It means I don’t give a fuck if you like me or not.
I won’t judge your lack of capacity in getting to know me but please do us all a favor and fuck off. I’ll always do me, so go do you far away from me and those around me. Please get it through your head that your opinion of me doesn’t serve my existence or yours.
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