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If it Doesn’t Challenge You, it Won’t Change You

Since beginning my blog, I have noticed that all I seem to write about is my previous breakup, being single, moving on, finding myself or losing myself and so forth. Truth is, it is all I seem to be good at writing about right now. I am still in this phase of moving on from my past and looking toward a new future. And I have found myself in a funk lately trying to figure out what it is I truly want out of life and what the next phase may be like. I have been so focused on my past lately that I haven’t made the time to focus on myself.

 

This year so far has completely changed me. It has changed the way I see things, the way I view myself and has helped me realize what I do and don’t want for my future. I’ve lost and gained friends, made multiple mistakes, learned and am still learning from those mistakes, looked stupid on many occasions and yet, have learned to accept that I am only human and there are others out there who have been through the exact same things.

 

Being single isn’t all it’s truly cracked up to be and yet it is just what I needed at this point in my life. I was just speaking to my mom about how surreal life is for me in this moment. A year ago I could of been married and here I am now, single and living in Atlanta with two roommates (who I truly cherish).