She won’t be putting a gun to your head to commit. In fact, if you’re not looking for a relationship that’s perfectly acceptable as long as you make it clear to her. In that case, she’ll just turn around and walk away. She knows that she deserves better and won’t settle for anything less than what her heart desires.
What she really wants is a guy that’s not afraid to love and it’s ready commit.
The problem is that you’ve played your cards rights from the very beginning and she fell for you quickly. But the truth is, you’ve been leading her own with your charm and false promises. You’ve made her think that she’s an important part of your world; you’ve introduced her to your friends and you’re constantly in contact with her. You make all the right moves to make her feel that she’s your priority. The way you hold her and kiss her in public and how you spend a little extra time when you spend the night with her.
Your sweet actions indicate that you want her, that she’s more than just a casual hook-up and that you want to move the relationship forward.
You’ve made her feel like you’re ready to commit, but Are you, really?
If that’s the case, Why do you keep avoiding the hard questions? Why can’t you give her a definite about being in a committed relationship?
It’s not right to take advantage of her heart. Let her go If you can’t handle being loved and loving her back.
She’s beginning to realize that all you’re doing is leading her on by filling her head with false intentions. It doesn’t make sense to her that you’ve invested all this time and energy on her just to play a game and boost your ego.
Is she suppose to think that all you are is a douche in disguise? How else can she explain your actions?
She doesn’t want to believe that what you have is a fraud, so if you’re not ready to commit be a man and walk away. Stop playing with her mind and stop acting like you’re her boyfriend when deep down you know you can’t handle that title, stop pretending that you’re together when you refuse to give it a label.
If you don’t want to commit is because you want the option to fool around with other girls while having the stability of someone who gives you her all 24/7. You can’t have it both ways, It’s selfish and cowardly to keep her hanging like her love is disposable.
There’s nothing less attractive than a guy who has no interest in being in a relationship but acts like it just to see how far he can get with her.
It takes very little effort to be direct. If you’re not interested in having a relationship, do yourself a favor and stay away from her. You simply don’t deserve her.