It’s never pleasant to experience betrayal in a relationship. Perhaps you’ve caught your girl or guy with a friend or stranger and you’re seething inside. It takes courage for a partner to confess that they are cheating on you. If it’s true love your partner should respect you enough to tell you. On the other hand, having a secret affair is the weaker path. It is justifiable to feel angry and want to get your revenge. You enter a relationship and learn to trust them. When a partner betrays you it can take years to heal and trust again. So here is a fun way to get even on a cheating partner, whether you know about the affair or not. The usual activities may be to pour a drink over a partner’s head, or cut up their clothes, so why not get them back with an explosive session that you know they’ll never forget.
Sure, it’s a crazy idea, but that’s exactly what I did to a crush. I know that my experience worked on him because he wrote me a long erotic story several months later trying to entice me over to a foreign country. As if I would fall for such romantic crap. This was after he had broken my heart by telling me had fallen for a supermodel-esque lady. The memory that you want to create is one of hot sex.
Remember, that this method will only work if you
1) Know about the cheating, but have kept this information secret.
2) Pretend that you’ve ‘forgiven’ the act but really want to get your own back and dump them afterward.
Use Domination to Your Advantage
Domination kits are not too expensive. Visit a sex shop or browse the many stores available online. Kits often include some bondage tape for tying the wrists (and feet), a blindfold, and perhaps a whip too. Once you have your ‘ex’ partner in your sights and they’re happy to get naked (because they have no idea of what you’re up to), lie them down, tie up their wrists, blindfold them, and work on creating an explosion in between their thighs. Use your lips, tongue and fingers to create this. Erogenous areas to excite include the lips, nipples, wrists, fingers, inner thighs, back of the knees, nape of the neck, and the spine. Stimulating these areas will have an effect on your partner’s genitals. This is what you want to do. You want them to beg you for an orgasmic release.
Kissing on the mouth is an intimate act; so if you can continue the pretence that you love and cherish your partner without the urge to bite off their bottom lip, use this to your advantage. However, don’t fall for their charm. Remember, you want to get even on a cheating partner, and the best way to do this is to create a memorable experience. If you have no urge to kiss your soon to be ex, focus your pleasures on other erogenous zones. The key is to create so much arousal in him or her that they beg you to release their pent up sexual tension. Wait until you hear them moaning your name, begging you for release. When you untie them and remove their blindfold they’re desperate to get jump on you and have a sweaty sex session.
This session alone will require strength, but continue to keep up the pretence, as you want to give him or her—hopefully—the best sex of their life. You want to be a sexy memory. You want to have the power over your cheating ex, and this is possible if you can keep up the pretence. Sure, you’ll still be experiencing an emotional connection, especially when your bodies bump and grind together, but remind yourself of the betrayal. You deserve better. Continue to tell yourself this.
Do You Forgive or Forget
If you’re sure that your ‘ex’ has received the ‘best sex’, it’s time to say goodbye. Trust is necessary in a relationship, so if you’ve been betrayed don’t fall for the ‘but if you loved me you’d forgive me’ line. Betrayal is crushing. So what if you hear from a friend that your ex has returned to the girl or guy they originally cheated on you with. You made enough of an impression to ‘steal’ them away from the new partner—even if only for one night. The trick in using sex to get back at a partner is to make him or her pine for you afterward. Your ex may want to give your relationship another go, as they can’t get you out of their head, but this is your decision to face alone. Don’t let an array of compliments sway you from the truth inside your heart.
