9. They make you feel insecure or unworthy constantly.
The person you’re dating should be proud of you and always make you remember that. They shouldn’t be tearing you down for the way you like to dress and the things you are interested in. They should also not compare you to other people – ex’s, actors/actresses, etc. If they are telling you that you need to make changes to your appearance or other things just to make them feel “better” about dating you, then you should find someone new to date who is proud of you all of the time.
10. You cry yourself to sleep because you’re unhappy or unsatisfied.
I’ve been here, I’ve done this. The biggest red flag of any red flag in a relationship is when you feel so bad about it, it brings you to tears. Do not ever let a person make you feel bad about yourself, so much so, that you go to bed unhappy and unfulfilled. There are people out there that will never let you go to bed sad. That will make you happy. And, while no relationship will ever be perfect and every relationship has their own problems, do not ever sacrifice your wellbeing and happiness for someone who half-loves you.