Dear society (specifically the male portion of it),

Guess what? I have lots of sex.Yes, I know that can be a very shocking thought for you to process because it seems incredibly “unladylike” for me to not only be having lots of sex, but to also admit that I am out loud and in writing. After that first sentence, I’m sure most of you have begun to judge me and think I’m crude for opening up about what happens behind my bedroom door.

 

For some of you the word “slut” just popped into your head; my question is why?

 

Why is it always acceptable for you,the men of the world, to publicize your sex lives, yet it’s unladylike and “slutty” to publicize mine? How come I must be forced into silence about my life choices for fear of facing judgment at the hands of not only the male population but the female population as well? Go ahead, someone please explain it to me.

 

See when you, the male population, have sex, it seems as if it’s almost your God-given right to tell your friends, roommates, and just about anyone else who’ll listen to what you did behind closed doors. And what do you get in response? A high-five maybe? A “good for you dude”, or maybe even “street cred”? It almost seems as if your announcement about your sexual conquests is but a meekly attempt to gain respect from your male counterparts.