Your birth month can offer a lot of insight into your personality, but what you might not realize is it can tell you a lot about the guy you should be looking for. You’re a complex being as it is, so when it comes to finding the right guy it can become overwhelming AF. You don’t want to waste your time on guys who are just gonna fall short fulfilling your heart’s needs, but somehow, they keep coming into your life and fucking it up. So instead of jumping head first into your next love, let your birth month guide you in the matters of the heart.
January
You’re a badass at heart and your strong personality carries all your great attributes like a flag. You’re the type of girl who walks into the room and people immediately notice you. Your presence speaks assertiveness and you don’t need to say or do much to be seen. You’re persistent with the things that bring you joy and your stubbornness is your ally because it helps you get shit done. You’re independent and driven so you need to wait for the guy who’s not going to feel intimidated by your independence. He needs to be grounded, driven and patient with your unwavering stubbornness. He has to be able to keep up with your ambitious heart and badass nature. You need a guy who gives you the space to grow and evolve as a person but also love you with the same intensity in which you’ll be able to love him.
February
You’re quite the intellect with a particular sense of humor, which is a very unique combination of traits to have under your belt. You’re free-spirited as in you’re quick to rebel from rules and norms, and pretty much everything that doesn’t fit your unique mold. You’re a deep thinker who likes to be around people who can stimulate your mind. This is why you’re great a leading big projects and making people come together to challenge your thinking. You’re loyal and committed to the person that you’re with as long as this person respects your boundaries and keeps up with your intellect. That’s why you need a guy who’s willing to roll with the punches. A guy who you can have great conversations with and who can also make you laugh, like a lot. He needs to have good comebacks to your quick wit. You’re adventurous and like to try different things in order to keep things fresh in your relationship, so you need a guy who’s willing to be as adventurous and fun loving as you are.
March
You’re a very intuitive person and wear your heart on your sleeve. You’re honest, compassionate, and extremely giving. You’re the type of girl who puts others first because it’s what your big-hearted nature constantly desires. You’re the imaginative type, and tend to fall more under the introverted and quiet spectrum. Your heart craves harmony, so you’re not the type to get involved with drama and you always do your best to avoid confrontations of any type. You’re far from being a pushover, you just handle your personal conflicts through calmly talking things through. Your communication skills are on point, so you have a good handle of your emotions. That’s why you need a guy who has a good head on his shoulders, someone who’s confident and will not take advantage of your good nature. You need a guy who’s going to put you first, just like you put everyone before yourself. The guy for you needs to be level headed and compassionate. And he needs to be very much in touch with his emotions and not be afraid to be vulnerable.
April
You’re a fiery soul who loves change and constantly craves adventure. You give nothing but a 100% to everything your heart desires and allow your passion to fuel your actions. You’re emotional and intense and love being on the spotlight, thriving on attention and affection from others. You have a histrionic heart, so love plays a major role in your life. You’re adventurous nature craves a grounded guy who can give you peace and stability without taking away adventure. That’s why you should wait for the guy who will fall in love with your intensity but won’t allow you to walk all over him. You need someone who can call you out on your bullshit and who’s confident enough to embrace your unique spark. A guy who thrives off of giving you the attention you love getting. Wait for the guy who will shower you in the love you’ve been craving and never leave you questioning if he’s ‘the one.’
May
You’re highly motivated and focused, logical and systematic so you hate coming across people’s irrational bullshit. Your thinking mostly relies on facts, you’re the type who actually likes wasting time delving on hypotheticals. You’re kind of hard to impress, which doesn’t mean that you under appreciate people, you just have high standards. You’re very grounded in your thinking and your logical nature makes you practical about most things. You may come across as stern and a bit of a bitch but that’s so far from who you are. You have a warm heart, you’re just not quick to show it. You take your time giving away your trust and your heart. Everything has to make sense for you to open up and be comfortable sharing your emotions. You need to wait for a guy who’s extremely nurturing and can also be at the same level of intellect as you. Someone who can really tap into your warm heart but still allows you to be your own person and embrace your serious side. You need a guy who also loves to be around people, so he can be at your pace socially. He needs to be supporting and encouraging of your methodical mind because that’s just how you approach love and life.
June
You’re the sensitive and caring type with a whole lot of determination running through your veins. You’re the kind of girl who’s very open with what’s going on in your mind, so you tend to act first and talk later. You’re the shy and soft-spoken type which doesn’t really show how active and creative your mind is. You’re actually kind of an emotional genius, meaning you know how to convey emotions without saying much. What’s interesting though is that your heart needs to be with a guy who’s vocal with his emotions and it’s not afraid to be vulnerable. It’s almost as if your perfect guy needs to mirror the way your mind works. He needs to be intuitive and appreciate your creativity. There’s a very interesting world living your mind and he has to be they type of guy who’s curious about discovering everything about you that makes you so unique.
July
You’re the lighthearted extroverted type. Always confident and happy no matter what’s going on in your life. However, you’re a master at hiding your pain, so it’s really hard to tell when your heart is aching. You don’t like asking for help because for the most part, you’re focused on wanting to make people happy and comfortable around you. You’re extremely selfless, and prefer to keep your true emotions tucked in your heart. You need to find a guy whose sensitivity will break down your guarded heart, someone who can just by a touch, inspire your trust. You need a guy who’s patient and non judgemental. People always seem to gravitate towards your personality, so the guy for you also need to be perfectly okay with you getting attention from others without feeling threatened.
August
You are fearless to the core. You’re not afraid to stand your ground and speak your mind. You’re also a bit of an overthinker because you’re a critical person who evaluates every possible scenario in every situation. You’re assertive and always come up with brilliant solutions to your problems. You’re just great at taking charge and making everyone follow you. You’re bold so you might not always show your sensitive side. You can be extremely selfish or extremely generous at times. You’re the most comfortable when taking charge, so you need a guy who can appreciate that but also show you how it’s okay to be on the passenger seat and still own your independence. The type of guy you need is someone who can bring you joy and unconditional love without you feeling restrained. Someone who’s not afraid take turns in leading the relationship but who will not allow you to walk all over him.
September
You have high expectations for yourself so you tend to be a bit of a perfectionist. However, you’re kind and don’t allow your perfectionism get in the way of seeing the best in people. You’re curious soul, so you’re constantly trying and learning new things. You’re driven and always wanna do and be better so you’re always looking for ways to improve in every aspect of your life. The type of guy that your heart needs is someone who also has high expectations for himself and won’t settle for less. You need a guy who can impress your wits and who can inspire admiration. The guy for you has to wholeheartedly embrace your smarts and curious heart.
October
You’re level headed, sensitive, highly intelligent and fair. You have lots of love to give but you’re not the type be open like a book. For the most part, you’re reserved but extremely alert. Not a thing goes by without you noticing it. You have a very positive outlook in life, so you keep a well balanced lifestyle. You’re fiercely independent but you always have space in your life to welcome people in your life. You’re the type of person that will consider friends family. You’re committed and loyal and crave for stability in your life. You need a guy who appreciates your commitment and feels comfortable cultivating your stability. He should be affectionate and funny, two warm qualities that are the perfect match to your kind heart. He needs to be patient and understand it takes time and effort for the walls around your heart to fall, and he should have absolutely no problem giving you all the time you need.
November
You’re reactive and fearless in your approach to life. You don’t live by anyone’s rules, so you’re headstrong and protect your independence at all costs. You’re enigmatic and adventurous and take life one day at a time. Because you like to savor every moment and experience everything to the max. You’re spontaneous and sassy and love to live life on the edge. So you should wait for a guy who’s capable of seeking the adrenaline rush that you constantly need in your heart to live a joyful life. You need a guy who’s bold and can keep you on your toes, but that can also have a sensitive side, so he can love you with the same passion that you approach life. This guy needs to understand every ounce of you and inspire every creative impulse that you have, because only a guy who can allow you fly free will truly win your heart and make you happy.
December
You’re a super feisty, fun, entertaining person. You just can’t sit still, so you’re always doing something. You’re mindful about the things that you do, you just don’t do things to keep yourself busy, you do things because they genuinely interest you. You’re generous and playful and just full of light. You may seem kind of distracted but you’re not entirely. You just tend to be constantly thinking about a million things at the same time. You have a strong heart and you’re just kind by nature. You need a guy in your life who absolutely adores the silly side of you. Someone who can appreciate your positivity and bright personality. You should wait for the guy who has a great sense of humor and can embrace your playful personality to the fullest. The guy for you is the one who can jump from a serious conversation to a joke in no time.