Fantasies are designed to arouse. Some of them may include a partner, while others may include strangers or even sensual objects like food or latex. If you’re wondering what the hell goes on in a woman’s mind, it’s pretty kinky! The erotic trilogy: Fifty Shades of Grey has had a horny effect on many women worldwide. It made submission mainstream. A fantasy does not have to become a reality, but if you can share the fantasy with a partner, you two can enter new realms of ecstasy. Having a fantasy about someone or an object is not infidelity. Most men enjoy the fantasy of watching their woman masturbate or having a hot lesbian fantasy.
According to the Garden of Desires written by Emily Dubberley, more than four hundred women were asked about their fantasies. Here are the top ten:
- Submission: She wants to surrender to domination, so strip her naked, tie up her wrists, open her thighs, and gently tease every one of her erogenous zones with your tongue, lips, and fingers. In this position, you have all the power. You can tell her exactly what you want her to do, and because it’s a role playing game you two are playing, you might just see another side of her.
- The strap-on fantasy: Not every guy is going to be into this fantasy, as it gives a woman power in the bedroom. She can imagine how it feels to screw a tight hole. This popular female fantasy is sound tracked on the latest Jessie J’s tune, Do It Like a Dude. The popular name for strap-on sex is pegging.
- Group sex: Yep, women enjoy the thought of getting naked with another woman. Where to find that ‘third’ person is enlivened in the mind of a woman. Most of the time, women experience a connection with a partner during sex, but the group sex fantasy destroys this. She can have sex without feeling intimacy or love.
- Sex In the Non-Conventional Way: The conventional way to have sex is with a penis, but most women wanted to be stimulated in other ways. These include the feeling of being spanked or engaging in a lesbian orgy.
- Voyeurism: The fantasy or reality of being caught in the act is a turn on for women. They enjoyed the thought of watching two neighbours getting it on, or seeing a guy jerk himself off.
- Non-Human Sex: Trilogies like Twilight have made non-human entities sexy, and these characters have had a huge effect on women. Non-humans include ghosts, vampires, and werewolves, so she could just be thinking about getting it on with a non-human next time you guys are getting naked.
- Food Feeding: Feeding a partner food is sexy. In fact, the fantasy that most women have is the one of a partner feeding them. Sexy foods include those high in zinc like oysters and antioxidant rich foods like dark chocolate.
- Foreplay: Most women want to make a mind-body connection with a partner; therefore, their fantasies include hot foreplay methods like clitoral stimulation and oral sex.
- A-Sexual: Of the four hundred women surveyed, two percent are asexual, which means that they have no sexual attraction to another human. However, this does not mean that they have no fantasies. They fantasise in private.
- Be Different: Fantasies are different for everyone, so if you think that you’ve got an fantasy that is taboo, explore it in your mind. It’s perfectly safe.
In Conclusion
Fantasies hurt no one. Besides the submission fantasy brought to light by the popular Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, other popular fantasies include hot oral sex, group sex, and even food feeding. Don’t be afraid of sharing your fantasies with a partner.
