Being Patient And Its Benefits
Patience. They say it’s a virtue.
What it really is, though, is a lifeline. Dictionary.com defines patience as “the bearing of provocation, annoyance, misfortune, or pain, without complaint, loss of temper, irritation, or the like.” Because patience allows a person to refrain from extraordinary reactions where they likely aren’t warranted. And patience can provide peace of mind for the person who practices it. Additionally, being patient makes it possible for people around you to experience a similar relief.
If one can handle the pressure of life while maintaining a level of patience, great things can happen. Check them out:
You will experience a more beautiful life.
Without a cloud of frustration fogging your take on the world, you have the potential to appreciate more in your life. And you will learn to slow things down, while weighing the experiences testing your emotions against the consequences of them. Moreover, you will absorb the experiences for what they are – learning ones, trying ones, or wasteful ones.
If you can experience life with a sense of patience, you will be better equipped to sit with the reality of those experiences. And make them positive encounters. That means you will see a traffic jam as a reason to look into other routes before your next commute. And understand that a child’s tantrum is a way for them to learn about boundaries. So rather than letting these be inconveniences that have ruined the course of your day, you soak up the good vibes.
Your relationships will benefit.
When you exhibit patience among your friends and family, you will find that your interactions go more smoothly. And that you can enjoy their company far more. Patience means to accept the way that life is unfolding.
Certainly, when people take advantage of your patience by consistently being late for dinner dates or not putting away their dishes after eating on them, you have a right to be upset.
But patience will aid you in these experiences, however, because you can approach any issue with a sense of calm seriousness, rather than clouded emotion. Try this out and watch your relationships change before your eyes.
You will become better at your job.
Even at workplaces where urgency is critical, patience can make you a more effective employee. Stress can simply pull the mind away from what matters most, instead of zeroing in on priorities. When you practice patience, you will see that stress becomes less of a barrier to success. You will handle coworkers and clients with more tact. And you will not put the same pressures on yourself as you typically might under other circumstances. So you will better be able to evaluate your own output.
A patient person can be a happier person. And happiness at work is currently underrated. Invest in your patience and see your productivity and workplace satisfaction flourish.