Instead of thinking of a future, I think of how lucky I am to be having this moment, a moment of pure happiness, a moment that is real.
The actions that follow these moments should not be taken away from the feeling you felt during that time.
Putting yourself out there, with anything, is a scary thing. I have been laughed at and I have been loved, but I have always been myself, something that not many people can say.
What you feel for someone, even a fuck boy, is real, and but that does not mean that anything will come out of it. The little moments show us glimpses, and these vast images should not be taken for granted.
Be happy that you have these moments.
Because these memories that not only make you feel but make you grow as a person.
We put so much focus on the wrong aspects of a person. And we emphasize the bad instead of focusing on the good. We are such a spoiled society that we think we deserve everything instantly. And we are so wrong for that.
Happiness is not a constant emotion, happiness is knowing to appreciate the little moments in life.
Appreciate each individual that has come in and made you feel alive in some way shape or form.
We live in a society that is so consumed by the final product that we forget to pick our the proper ingredients to make our life blossom.
I have no worry that one day, these fuck boys will grow up and become incredible men. Just like I have no worry that all of you lovely ladies will find the one you belong to be with.
But, until then, do not take life and especially fuck boys seriously. See them as fun accessories you get to try on for a night because that is what they are. See them as lessons, as memories and as human beings that have left a mark on you.
So today, give thanks to all those fuck boys who have shown you that happiness is who you are, not who you date.
