Falling for a F$%kBOY

 

A lot of girls feel the need to put down the men who have played them, call them names and make it seem like they did not bring anything good into their lives.

 

Well, I am here to tell you that these fuck boys have done the exact opposite.

 

Every lie you have heard from a guy, every time you have been played, it has lead you closer to where you need to be, it shows you the kind of man you want and the kind of man you want to stay away from.

 

A lot of people may think I am crazy for actually being happy that each of these men has come into my life. From one hit wonders to boyfriends that did not treat me the way I deserved to be treated, each of them has lead me to the point of feeling complete within myself.

 

I used to meet a guy and fantasize about what was going to happen next, will he do a big romantic gesture, will he shout from the rooftops that he has found me, will he be the man I believe he could be, but that is not how life works and.

 

But the truth is, expectations will be your downfall.

You can’t imagine how someone will be, you can’t just envision that a person will fall in love with you and take away all your problems. The only person who can take your problems away is you, stop blaming others for your unhappiness.