We all had some crappy date stories to share, funny ones and good ones, that ended up bad because oh well… something went wrong (don’t worry it’s never you, chances are it just wasn’t the right guy). These experiences however sure molded us to something better and wiser. Here are some dating mistakes, you should definitely do.
Let him have the bill, obviously! He was the one asking you out to a fairly expensive restaurant. Dude, it’s on you.
You don’t owe him, anything. That includes a handjob in public or even a kiss. He’s lucky he can hold your hand.
He can take you home, but you DON’T need to invite him up. Just because you guys went on your first date.
Even if he says “I love you”, still… it’s OK to say “No!”.
Sex on the first date, which he expects (duh he’s a man). If you want it, (but don’t want to date him) go for it, but if you like him – get to know him a little better. You don’t need to have sex on the first date because HE wants it.
Let the crazy out. Definitely. Better he knows from date#1 how crazy you are instead of finding that out in the long run because there’s not hiding once the cat is out of the bag.
Talk about you. Of course, you should. He wants to get to know you better.
Mention your past. It’s OK to show vulnerability. It doesn’t make you look weak (even if he should hold certain things against you in the long run) it makes you look strong instead.
Blowjobs, Backdoor and all the other kinky stuff. Hold off on that. He can be lucky he has sex with you on the first date. No need to spoil it. Instead, have him work for it and make him give you oral instead.
Ask about his past relationships, especially how many serious ones he had and how long they lasted. That way you’ll find out a little bit of what type of guy he is in regards relationships.
