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7 Reasons The Beach is a Transformative Place

Everybody loves a beach vacation, a quiet retreat or even a simple day trip to the coast. Whether you’re a total water baby or you’re not quite familiar with the beach on an intimate level yet, there is so much to be said for the transformative power of the beach. The beach can be a serene, natural environment just as it can be a lively, social environment — it all depends on where you go and how you approach it. If you’re on the hunt for a deep, transformative experience, the beach could be the right place for you — and anyone you want to spend time with — to go. Here are just a few of the many reasons why the beach is a transformative place.

1. It’s Calming

While this may not be the case for all beaches — especially those with a bit more nightlife and social scenes — most beach environments at least have a few corners of calm. Especially if you find a more secluded beach environment, you can take theopportunity to soak in the calming sounds, the waves and the wind. It’s literally like your own personal meditation playlist, but in person.

2. The Sun Is Healing

Especially if you tend to be used to clouds and darker weather, spending some time in the sun can feel energizing and renewing. Of course, you should always make sure you’re wearing sunscreen and protecting yourself from sun damage, but overall, spending time outdoors where you can soak in the warmth and light of the sun above can reel extremely rejuvenating. Although it can sometimes be tiring to spend long periods of time in the sun, it can be a satisfying kind of tired.

3. You Can Connect With the Earth

The beach is, first and foremost, a place within nature that has been around for centuries, and has been utilized for calming and healing for people of all walks of life. Especially if you find a beach that’s more secluded and less commercialized, you can bask in the beauty of nature and truly appreciate the earth. Connecting with nature in general can be extremely transformative and healing, but the ability to feel your toes in the sand and breathe in the salty air can bring a sense of peace and relaxation that can kickstart so much healing.

4. Water Is Symbolic of Change

Maybe you aren’t looking for a lot of change in your life, but maybe you are. Regardless, water and being around water can be extremely transformative and cleansing for the mind and the spirit. Historically, water in all of its forms has indicated a sense of cleansing or new beginnings in a variety of spiritual and cultural practices, and spending time at the beach listening to the waves can bring that about for you. Even if you aren’t inclined towards one spiritual practice or tradition, the symbolism of water still carries through.

5. You Can Spend Time With Others There

Of course, there are so many transformative and enlightening experiences that happen when you spend time in solitude, but the beach can also be a place where you connect with others, either through intention or through serendipity. One of the best ways to spend time with others at the beach is to spend a beach day with friends or family, giving everyone a sense of freedom with their activities but still engaging in a sense of community. You can use your time at the beach to connect with those you love, while still enjoying everything the nature around you has to offer! Family Friendly villas in Ibiza are the perfect places to travel with your family.”

 

6. It’s a Great Place to Find Stillness

Stillness is something that everybody needs a little more of nowadays. Especially if you can find a more secluded beach with more of a natural feeling than a social feeling, you can likely find the stillness that you’re looking for to fuel your mental and spiritual health. Whether you’re a veteran meditation junkie or you’re looking to get started on your stillness journey with a venture into the waves, the beach is a fantastic place to find stillness.

7. It Lowers Stress

Going to the beach can actually lower your stress levels by lifting your mood and offering natural relaxation. Even on a purely physiological level, being at the beach can reduce stress hormone levels in the body and even lower blood pressure! If you want to relax and do something great for your health, a beach trip could be on the horizon for you!

 

The Beach and Its Transformative Power

Going to the beach can be a fun and carefree experience, but the relaxation you encounter there can be even more powerful than you might expect. From the healing power of the sun to the cleansing energy of the water, you can find a connection to both nature and yourself by heading to the beach and relaxing however you know how. Do you have a favorite beach you love to go to?

 

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About The Author

Ava Roman (she/her) is the Managing Editor of Revivalist, a women’s lifestyle magazine that empowers women to live their most authentic life. When Ava is not writing you’ll find herin a yoga class, advocating for body positivity, whipping up something delicious in the kitchen, or smashing the patriarchy. 

 

4 Essential Rules for Having Sex on the Beach

First off, getting creative like this is a huge bonus in your life with your partner. If you and your partner are this fun and wild, then your relationship is great, and keeping the sex and adventure is in full force.

Sex is fun, but when you spice it up and add new locations into the already adventurous cycle, it is going to be mind-blowing. There is some careful planning that needs to be worked out. You need to make sure you are carrying all the essentials! When it is “go time”, you and your partner can get freaky, and have sex – but also keep from getting caught.

1. Different Types of Beaches

When you get to the desired location, the first thing you and your loved one should do is scout out the location. Beaches are all different. Some of the beaches are going to be a bit rockier, and some might even have a nearby cliff. I used to live on a beach that was sandy, but it also had cliffs nearby that were close enough that if an ambitious couple wanted to have sex, all they had to do was go around the rocks.

Of course, those with binoculars from the condos above the cliff could get the view of a lifetime, but anyone else would not be able to see a thing. From time to time you would see couples come from that area, but no one would flat out ask them if they were having sex over there. Check the little areas that seem slightly private, and you should also check out where most of the people tend to hang out. You can check into beach tents.

You might find a beach tent that is available for rent. The larger beaches always have beach equipment that can be rented by the day or hour.

2. The Time of Day

Obviously, if you and your partner are thinking of a nighttime fuck-a-thon on the beach, then that is almost a no-brainer, but you still should watch for a few things.

This may sound silly, but paying attention to high/low tide is highly recommended. That can not only ruin the mood, but all the items you may have brought to the beach will wash away, not to mention sand in places that sand should never be found.

Once you figure out what time of the day you plan on having your sexy sand date. Planning what to bring is going to be a very important next step.

3. Sand Sex Attire

The fun part of planning this is, really there isn’t a great deal that is going into this process. The most important part of fucking in the sand is making sure sand does NOT go into your partner’s vagina. That will instantly ruin the trip. You should bring a good-sized towel or blanket.

All of the intercourse needs to be on the towel or blanket, otherwise, just think of a very uncomfortable time that might need medical attention if an infection occurs.

As sexy and hot as it sounds with waves and sand all over your partner’s body like the movies portray sex in the sand, the reality is sand will totally fuck up your sexy time. An easy outfit for your woman in the sand for sexy time is a long sun dress. She will be able to wear no panties. All you have to do is hold the dress up.

4. Sexy Sand Positions

Since sand in the vagina is the major no-no you should think of some new positions or ways to please each other. A blow job is the easiest way to have sex on the beach. All that is involved is dropping to knees and sucking. If a male is hoping for some oral fun, then there is a super-naughty way to have fun.

Bend your woman over, give her a tug on her hair, and begin licking from behind. This is very exciting and a turn-on, because you can get a great view of the hole you plan on sticking. You can lick her into bliss, then slip your cock in her vagina or ass. If you are going for a missionary style of sex, then you might consider rolling her ass up off the blanket, because you want to avoid any little bit of sand if possible.

The goal is to keep the vagina away from the sand!

Always watch for people that might be roaming the beach. Most of the time people keep to themselves, but you should always be scanning the area.

Night-time sex on the beach is going to be the easiest, but try to watch out for noise. If your partner is a screamer, you might have to shove something into her mouth to keep her quiet as she is having an orgasm. If the first time doesn’t work, try again. Hot beach sex is a super fantasy and should be tried at least once if possible.

7 Signs You’re Meant to Live Near a Beach

I’ve been spending every summer at the beach since I was 2 years old. Needless to say, I look forward to those warmer months as soon as we start to get that first chilly day in the fall. And don’t even get me started on winter – the holidays are enjoyable for a bit, and then I’m pretty much over it.

This year will actually be the first summer I won’t be living at the beach (what do you mean I have to be a real person with a full-time job?), but of course I plan on heading there every weekend that I possibly can.

Here are a few indications that you’re destined to live near a beach one day:

  1. While some get bothered by sand and the concept of being barefoot 90% of the time, you wouldn’t have it any other way.

You appreciate the notion of being carefree, and the simplicity of life is appealing to you. You also don’t need to live in an extravagant, fast-paced city to be content. Instead, good friends, good weather, and good times are just about all you need.

The ironic thing is when I was a baby I initially refused to go on the beach because I was “scared” of it. My mom was consistently forced to attempt to console me as I threw a public temper tantrum about having to touch the greatly-feared sand. I have no real explanation for this, but obviously had a change of heart.

  1. You have a summer playlist, and you listen to it all year long.

Even in the dead of winter, you find nothing wrong with blasting feel-good, beach jams, and pretending you’re “knee-deep in the water somewhere.” Throwbacks are never left out of the mix, either. “Ocean Avenue” by Yellowcard, anyone? Plus, let’s be real- you just can’t trust anybody who doesn’t enjoy listening to “Feeling This” by Blink 182 from time to time.

  1. To you, there’s no such thing as being too tan.

You’re convinced that you’re as pale as a ghost in the winter when you’re still about 3 shades darker than all of your friends. In the summer, you’re approaching the territory of changing races.

  1. You don’t understand people who take skiing and snowboarding trips.

Wait….people actually enjoy participating in outdoor activities when it’s cold out? But why?

  1. You completely lack an adequate winter wardrobe.

What do you mean it’s not acceptable to wear cropped tops in the middle of January?

  1. Your pre-teen years consisted of meeting boys on the boardwalk and texting all your friends about your “summer romance.”

He took you out on a “date” to the arcade and kissed you on the cheek afterward – I guess you can say things got pretty serious.

Clearly, your future husband will spot you running into the ocean Baywatch-style and confess his undying love for you.

  1. The water is never too cold.

You actually get upset when your friends dip their feet in the ocean for a millisecond and then chicken out. Honestly, it might be necessary to hand them another drink – they won’t be so scared after that. (Just don’t let them drown – there may have been a few close calls during my Senior Week 2010.)

Don’t worry, beach bums – only 83 days until the first day of summer!

7 Legit Reasons to Move to the Beach

As a basic white girl, I adore the fall. I cannot get enough of pumpkin-anything and everything, sweater weather, and the official transition into UGG season. The changing season signifies something bigger though: The imminent arrival of winter. Winter brings freezing temperatures, leaving extra early to clear off the snow from your car (and then sitting in it for 20 minutes while it warms up), and ice. Not to mention suffocating in 4 layers of clothing in an effort to stay remotely warm. As if you even needed them, here are 7 reasons to convince you it’s time to pack your bags and move to the beach:

You’ll be more active.

Sunshine and warmer weather drives people outside. You’ll be way healthier and think of the crazy good shape you’ll be in. Even when temperatures start to drop (read: low to mid-60’s), the sand and ocean will be calling for you.

Sunshine makes you happy.

Seasonal Affective Disorder (appropriately abbreviated as SAD) occurs when your body becomes depressed due to lack of sunshine or a change in the weather. It’s a real thing- as a species we are naturally inclined to soak up the sun. Shacking up in actual paradise will release all those super SAD thoughts.

Your skin will thank you.

Hello Vitamin D! Your skin will literally be GLOWING from all that sunshine.

Bring on the good vibes.

If you’ve ever been to a yoga class or meditated, you’ll know that the music associated with calming the mind and body is often ocean waves. The sound of the ocean universally calms us and brings us peace. Add in the scenic view and the salty fresh air and you’ll be more peaceful than your evening bath and glass of wine.

Salt water basically solves everything.

Salt water is good for healing the body- acne, wounds, and boosts your immune system.  It might even stave off wrinkles. Also, how good does your hair look when you swim in the ocean? That could be your life.

The beach will make you friskier.

There’s something about being at the beach that makes you want to get down and dirty. Maybe it’s the fresh air or maybe the ocean itself is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Regardless, living by the beach basically gives you the guarantee that you’ll be getting some on the reg.

All that eye candy.

Scenic ocean views and half naked hot bods roaming around…does this even require more of an explanation?

Basically if you want to be the version of you that is constantly getting laid, totally relaxed, and in really good shape, you should probably move to the beach.

Why Travelling With The New Boyfriend Can Reveal Your Compatibility.

If I can offer any piece of advice to a new couple, it would be to travel together early on in your relationship.

My reason behind this is simple, you learn who they truly are very fast on a trip. Maybe it is the small little traits and habits that they have. Or behaviors that help you determine who they morally as a person. I recently went on a vacation with my new boyfriend and I can honestly say it was the best thing for our relationship!

It’s really funny actually the little things you pick up on when you are alone together for a long period of time. Like what side he lays on to fall asleep, how they like their coffee, and learning that they absolutely love it when you rub their back in the morning and adore it when you help them pick out an outfit to wear.

If you were to ask me the important part of a relationship is the little things.

If a large portion of the little things don’t match up or go together how are you supposed to piece together the big things in a relationship?

My boyfriend and I went to Florida for a vacation! While we were there we did an array of different things. One of the first things we did was go shopping at the outlet centers in Orlando. Working in retail I saw this to be the perfect time to see what kind of “shopper” he was. Trust me if you work retail you know exactly what I’m talking about! and just as I was expecting he was the best kind of shopper you could hope for. He’s very conscious of sale associates. And he is (of course) one of the most well-mannered man (trust me they are hard to come across!)

Of course, when you are vacationing in Florida you are going to frequent the beach! There are two types of people when it comes to the beach. Those who are not the biggest fan of the beach and those who run to the water and throw themselves into it! I am the one who throws myself into the water! My boyfriend on the other hand… not too much. In his defense he cant because of a medical condition but he so badly wants too, so he gets a free pass on that one!

When on vacation if you are super lucky it wont rain at all, but nine times out of ten that doesn’t happen. We were not that 10 percent. We had a few rainy days where we were stuck in the house. Thankfully we had shopping and Netflix! One day we just stayed inside and found a show we both wanted to see and it became “our show” we cuddled and watched the show all day! It was amazing! We learned how the other liked to be cuddled. This is actually a very important and intimate part of a relationship.

This trip really brought us together.

We learned a lot about each other on this trip. And it could have either made us or broken us and we made it!

How to Get the Perfect Summer Beach Look

 

Summer will be here before you know it. Before you spend endless days at the beach soaking up the sun and surf, you need to be ready with all of the right products, outfits, and accessories. Here are five ways to get the perfect beach look.

Perfect Your Skincare Products

As wonderful as the sun and the ocean breezes feel on your face, they can do a number on your skin. Before you head to the coast, you need to prep your skin for what may lie ahead out in the elements.

 

Start your skincare prep routine the night before your trip to the beach. The sun and the heat can strip away crucial hydration in the skin, making it important that you provide extra layers of moisture to your skin in advance of your outing. Be careful to limit your exposure to retinol or alpha hydroxy acids before going to the beach as these products will only dry out your skin even further. You also need to replenish the moisture that your skin lost as soon as you get out of the sun.

Get Those Beachy Waves

Who does not covet those lovely beachy hair waves? There are numerous products that can help you to leverage the salt and the sand to get the perfect sun-kissed hair. Before you leave to go to the beach, use a quality hair conditioner to serve as a protective agent on your locks.

 

Once at the beach, you can use a volumizing spray to help to create those perfect waves. Do not forget to get your hair wet first so that the saltwater can work its magic. As a cheat, you can braid your wet hair and then let it loose to reveal the work of the saltwater and ocean air.

Gather Your Best Beach Outfits

The star of your beach look should be your outfit. The appropriate attire is casual and comfortable. The base of the outfit will clearly be your swimwear. From there, you can choose the appropriate clothing to complement this piece.

 

If you are spending the day at the beach, you will likely want something to change into when you head for meals or a night out on the boardwalk. The many options of Cable and Gauge deliver affordable and stylish pieces that work for any day out on the sand. Be sure to bring layers in case the temperature dips at night or when you are in the shade.

Do Not Forget the Swim Coverup

No beach look is complete without a swimsuit coverup. Look for breathable fabrics when choosing your coverup. If you are going to be traveling to the beach, it is a good idea to choose a fabric that does not wrinkle easily.

 

Choose a coverup that complements the style and color of your swimwear. You do not want the two pieces to clash. The coverup should flatter your figure without being restrictive. If you are going on a beach vacation, you should pack as many coverups as you pack swimsuits. Keep in mind that the coverup will also likely get wet, making it important that you can rotate other pieces into your wardrobe choices.

Accessorize, Accessorize, Accessorize

Even the most casual outing to the beach deserves the right accessories to complete your look. Start with making sure that you have the proper footwear. You want your footwear to be comfortable and to be able to hold up to walking across the sand. If your toes will be showing, be sure to make sure your toes are ready to go with a pedicure.

 

A sun hat is an invaluable accessory if you will be out in the sun. Not only does a hat look cute, but it will also help to protect your skin from the sun’s harmful UV rays. Other good accessories to pack for your day at the beach include sunglasses, an oversized beach towel, and a large bag for all of your essentials.

 

By following these five tips, you will knock it out of the park at the beach. Be sure to think about your complete look, ranging from your hair all the way down to your perfect beach pedicure.

About The Author

Sheryl Wright is a freelance writer who specializes in digital marketing, inclusive business, and interior design. If she is not at home reading, she is at a farmers market or climbing in the Rockies. She currently lives in Nashville, TN, with her cat, Saturn.
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