Features for the Best Couple-Friendly Mattress

Something that oftentimes gets overlooked when a couple decides to live together is what is the best, most quality mattress for both individuals to get optimal rest. Let’s face it, every couple needs a mattress for the most exciting of bedroom activities (*wink*) and oh yeah some good sleep.

Choosing a mattress for a couple is a different ball game because it must be perfectly suited to the couple and of course ensure they can enjoy their sex life. 

Here are 5 important features you should look for when shopping for a couple-friendly mattress.

1. Firmness

A common dilemma with couples when it comes to choosing the right mattress is the difference in the desired sleep position. One might be a back sleeper, the other a side sleeper. This can result in a need for a different firmness preference.

It is going to be pretty difficult to change how one partner sleeps because they’ve probably slept that way their entire lifetime. Therefore, while trying to purchase a couple-friendly mattress, look out for dual firmness. This way, the mattress will support the body in every sleeping posture.  

Motion isolation

Some people are very sensitive to the slightest movement during their sleep. When a partner shifts in bed at night, they might end up waking the other partner.

The need for a mattress that isolates noise and motion on the bed, or at least keeps it to a minimum, is best for these couples. Also, a mattress with good motion isolation are often the best beds for sex (SleepDelivered.com).

Weight limit

Weight limit of mattresses should be considered in purchasing a couple-friendly mattress because exceeding the weight limit of a mattress can cause damages to the bed; which eventually reduces the overall lifespan of your mattress. In most cases, couples go for mattresses with a weight limit of at least 600 pounds. Also, if the kids will be sleeping with the couple (when they arrive) then, consider going for mattresses with a higher weight limit.

Support

Support is similar to firmness, although a bit different. While firmness indicates how soft or hard a bed is, support indicates the ability of your mattress to maintain a flat and surface which eventually assists sleepers in alleviating pressure from their spines. A mattress that lacks support often leads to the sagging right in the middle of the mattress. This further increases the chances of back pain. So, it is advisable to go for mattresses that provide adequate support.

Durability and ease of movement

In the course of your relationship with your partner, there are chances you might have to move from one house to another- and you obviously can’t leave your mattress behind. With regards to this, you should consider purchasing a mattress which can be easily moved around. Not only should that, couple-friendly mattresses should have the ability to last a long time (they should be durable). Durability takes away the need to buy another mattress in a short while. Good mattresses, if well maintained could last for 8-10 years. This kind of mattresses should be on top of your list.

Don’t forget to do proper research before shopping for a new mattress. The reason is simple: a good mattress means good sleep and good sleep means more energy to have fun with your partner. 

PSA To All The Guys Out There, We Like Oral Too

Picture this, you’re with the most amazing man, he’s handsome, perfect body sculpted by God himself, and he’s got you all hot and bothered. You’re thinking to yourself, this is what I’ve been waiting for, a great guy to give you the big O.

You go down on him, you put all you’ve got, showing him you appreciate all the work he’s done to get to this moment, and he stops to passionately kiss you. And you lay back expecting him to return the favor.

And he doesn’t.

Let’s face it, we’ve all been there.

I don’t care how fantastic the sex is, it’ll never be more than just eh without him going down on you too.

I’m getting really tired of these boys who just expect for me to go down without even a little bit of returning the favor.

Like first off, I just went to town on you. Slobbing on the knob. Getting lock jaw. My neck hurts. And you can’t spend 5 minutes with your face in between my legs?

It’s just frustating. Now I’m over here thinking about those soft lips on my lips (and not the ones on my face) and not even enjoying myself because this is a problem.

I shaved for this. Made myself all baby bottom smooth and this dumb boy is neglecting my nether regions. Ugh.

Nope. Not anymore. I’m going on strike. If you can’t get me off with your mouth, I refuse to participate in oral too.

Let’s see how you like it. Hint, hint you won’t.

To my beautiful ladies, if he’s not going down on you during sex, refuse him the pleasure of you going down on him. Hopefully he’ll get the message and start writing stories with his tongue.

And to my future bae or some other man reading this, give us oral and we’ll never have to hold out on you.

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A Guide to Choosing A Mattress For Couples

Choosing A Mattress Together

There are few things that are more essential to the health and well-being of a couple than sleep. If you have problems sleeping you could find that this translates into problems in your daily life and your relationship. As sleep is important for proper functioning it is important that you have a mattress which is comfortable and sturdy. To ensure that you are getting the right mattress you need to consider certain factors.

 

Things To Consider Before Buying

One of the points to consider before buying is that there is enough space. While this may seem like an obvious point, couples should be sleeping on queen or king-sized beds and not doubles. Most couples will start with a full-size mattress, but this is actually too narrow for 2 people and will result in disturbances during the night. These disturbances from movement can reduce the duration and frequency of deep sleep which is something that you need.

So, If your kiddos and your pets tend to climb into your bed leaving you no room, you may consider buying a mattress that’s larger than a king size. Yes, they do exist!

You and your partner should also have a discussion about what you both need from your new mattress. Your new mattress is one of the most important buys of your new home and both of you will need to be comfortable with it. You should consider how soft or firm the mattress needs to be. It is important that you find a common happiness before you buy the bed.

But before anything else, you need to have a budget in mind. Although crucial for your sleep health and overall well-being, a mattress shouldn’t break the bank. The best you can do is look for an affordable mattress taking into consideration the type of material, firmness, sleeping positions, etc.

If you are unable to agree then you will need to compromise. If you want a soft bed while your partner wants a firm on you will need to look at other options. It is possible to get a mattress that is plush firm, cushion firm or medium firm. There are also some mattresses that offer different firmness on the two sides. Of course, the most economical option would be to get a mattress pad for one side of the bed.

 

7 Simple Moves To Spice Up The Bedroom (Guy’s Edition)

I know nothing about sex, because I was always married.Zsa Zsa Gabour

The only unnatural sex act is that which you cannot perform.Alfred Kinsey

Dear gentlemen,

As you do not weekly partake in gossip group sessions on all things raunchy like your female counterparts, I figured I’d give you a few base tips to get your sexy-time really going because how would you know what to do, if someone didn’t explicitly tell you?

It is my personal belief that one can never have too many sex moves. With that being said, here are seven more for you, and trust me, your lady love will voice her appreciation for these new found moves in just a short while of initiating them…

Happy fornicating!

Kiss the inside of her thighs

This one may not sound like a move at all, but believe me, it is.

It can be easy to bypass the majority of a woman’s flesh in preference for the most-obvious erogenous zones. However, thighs should not be forgotten. They are super sensitive, and kissing them will pave the way for your lady to warm up to you – i.e. smoother entry later on—you know what I’m referring to here. 

This move is much needed in the beginnings of foreplay and duly appreciated, so the next time you’re going downtown—don’t forget to kiss the thighs.

Give her tongue a playful lick.

This move goes so much further beyond cookie cutter kissing. It shows your lady that you are actually thinking about your mouth on hers, and you’re not just going through the motions. Pull back a minute from your full-blown lip lock and playfully give her tongue a little lick. Don’t slobber on her, laying a golden-retriever sized doll-up of slobber on her tongue. Just gently, mindfully give her tongue a little flick. She’ll perk up immediately, and you two can return to your impassioned kissing with renewed vigor.

Whisper directly into her ear

The problem with dirty talk is that it sometimes goes unheard. Nothing is less sexy than repeating a particularly raunchy slur after hearing her incredulous, “What, did you say?”

Do yourself a favor, and get right to the source: whisper directly into her ear.

This is incredibly sexy no matter what you say. Your hot breath inside her ear lobe will be just the caress she needs to feel to sharpen her overall awareness to sexy you.

Grab her feet

Don’t ignore this one! I know you read feet, and were just like—I’m skimming over that one—but refrain!

This move is so easy, but incredible sexy. If your gal is sitting up on a counter top or on the bed while you’re stand in front of her—grab hold of both her feet. Give them a squeeze or a little action rub along the arches, while kissing her deeply.

She will be so turned on by the dual action pressure you’re applying that she will be completely blind-sided and more than a little light-headed. For her, you will instantly be elevated in her mind as one of the most sensual lovers with foreplay she’s ever come across. Go you.

Now on to the main event…

Put the P directly on the V.

There’s no easy way to say this, so I’m just going to dive right in. Take your shaft and rub it up and down on her lady parts. No, no, no—do not try to stick it in. Just gently rub it on top of her lady parts only for a moment or so. After, a couple strokes, and then – only then gentlemen—do you proceed to stick it in.

This will make all the difference in the world.

If I have to explain why you should do this, then there are greater issues at hand here.

Twist the sheets

When your lady gets on top, pull the blankets/sheets around her hips. Grip either side like handles, and pull her back and forth on top of you. This allows you to be in control of the situation and still the dominant one, although she’s on top.

Just this little extra bit of effort will reassure her that you’re still a contributing participant in this endeavor. (No dead fish love-making for you, and yes, guys can be dead, limp fish, too…)

Put a pillow beneath her lower back.

This move has been advertised, documented, and bitchily pushed by the female population for decades, and you know what? It’s still not being used. Why men, why?? Just bring out the damn pillow!

Let’s break it down: I could show you diagrams that explain the female anatomy, but why bother? You and I both know that when her pelvis is lifted just a couple inches higher, it feels way better—for you, for her—it’s a much better sensation all around.

However, as a lady, it can be exhausting to keep your pelvis erect for long periods of time—especially when you’re trying to enjoy yourself. So, take out the extra ab work for her and just lay down a pillow beneath her hips—you know one of those white things you’re drilling her head into? Yea, one of those. Take the initiative, it’ll be that much more sexy when you do.

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