Reconnecting With Your Significant Other After Time Apart

It is a common scenario that plays out with modern relationships: the “taking a break” phase when couples spend time apart to find themselves and work to find appreciation for their partner. This time apart can put a strain on even the most solid and loving of relationships. So you need to make sure that once you two get back together, you both work with one another to get things back to the way they were. Below are the top nine tips on how to make your relationship work again after spending time apart.

Go On A Date

When you’re in a new relationship dates are a key part of your social life, but they soon get forgotten after a few months. If you’ve been apart for some time, then going out on a date or two could really help you to get back together and reconnect with each other. Whatever your budget or tastes, there’s a date night idea out there to suit you, so be creative and host a unique experience you and your partner can enjoy together.

Spice Things Up In The Bedroom

Sex is central to any relationship, so enjoying it again after time apart is crucial to getting things back to the way they were. Try using new positions or incorporating sex toys into your lovemaking to bring you and your partner closer together than ever.

 

Make Time To Relax With Your Partner

Having spent some time apart it can be easy for couples to jump straight back into a hectic social and working routine, so make sure that you both take time to relax and chill out together. This will help you both to reconnect and remember what you love about one another. Try watching a movie together or simply sitting down to have a chat after work.

 

Find A Hobby To Share

Getting back together after some time apart can be tough, so to make the process easier try finding a new hobby that you both can share. This will mean that if you both do have to spend more time apart in the future you will have something to chat about and something to look forward to doing together when you return to one another. There are loads of hobbies for couples who want to get closer together and find an activity that they can enjoy together.

 

Take On A Responsibility Together

Becoming responsible for something can bring two people together, so consider taking on a mutual responsibility with your partner if you want to reconnect with them after being apart. This doesn’t have to be anything as drastic as having a child; you could buy a house together or get a pet. If you’re planning on getting a furry friend to love together then make sure that you choose the right animal and are both completely committing to caring for it throughout its life.

 

Make New Mutual Friends

Your social life may have struggled during your time apart, so consider finding some new friends together so that you can enjoy their company and learn more about one another as well as your new pals. Visit new hangouts, go to parties, or even invite friends to a dinner party to get to know new people and find some friends that you both like to spend time together with.

 

Enjoy New Experiences

Being adventurous together can help you and your partner to find new reasons to enjoy spending time together, so take the time to find a new restaurant to eat at, a new bar to try, or even a new place to explore. Try going as far out of your mutual comfort zone as possible so that you both experience something completely new together and have new memories to share.

 

Take A Vacation

After spending time apart, you and your partner might want to spend as much time at home as possible but going on a vacation and exploring a new place could be equally fun. Find your ideal couples vacation to take your minds off your time apart and set off to make new memories that you can both cherish.

 

Talk It Over

Things may have changed while you and your partner were apart, particularly if you spent a long time away from one another. Make sure that you communicate with your partner once you’re back together and work through any differences. Leaving things unsaid can lead to problems later, so make sure that you are both open and honest with each other, as this will allow you both to reconnect quicker and get on with enjoying your relationship and being happy together.

6 Best Sex Positions You Should Try With Your Partner Tonight 

Not all things that work the same way stay fun. Although you don’t need to worry about something unusual happening it can be dull. Especially when we talk about sex, some of us will buy the best couples sex toys in the world just to have the most satisfying and exciting bedroom pleasures. 

Many of us settle for the usual sex positions. However, there are many more of them that you can try with your partner. Afraid that they may not work for you? That’s fine. You can try all of these sex positions below until you find the most satisfying position that suits the both of you.

Legs on His Shoulders

This is something people shy away from, but it will change your game! This stance does not require crazy versatility, so if your partner supports you, it is helpful. This position is an intense one because it forces your thighs together, tightens, and convulses your vagina around the penis and thumbs. 

The “G-Whiz” is nicknamed this position because it makes it too easy to hit your G-spot. Hopefully, this is top on your list to try tonight. Have your partner get as close to you as they can as a missionary, and then raise your legs and keep them up using their shoulders and chest. Indeed there’s no need to be a gymnast so that you can try this sex position. 

The Famous Doggie Style

According to Dr. Jenni Skyler, Ph.D., a sex therapist, sexologist, and licensed marriage and family therapist for Adam & Eve. One of the best sex positions to try is the dog star or dog style, especially with a full-length mirror in front. 

This position allows couples to oscillate back and forth from carnal energy, sometimes with eyes closed, enjoying the intensity of speed, this position enables intimate energy, with slower thrusting and eye contact in the mirror. 

Oral Sex 

This works for both giving and receiving oral sex. If you’re giving, have your partner lay on their side while you’re facing them. It could be at the bed’s edge or in the middle with you laying on your side as well. This could also entail every middle schooler’s favorite number, the 69 positions! 

If you’re receiving, you could follow the same steps: lay on your side and have your partner come from the side. 

This will look differently depending on your anatomy and the person you’re giving oral sex too, but the main focus here is switching perspectives. Hence, you’re not directly facing each other. We’re trying to change the angle to hit different parts of both the clitoris and penis, so keep that in mind as you’re trying this position. The views are also quite useful in this position, so both of you will be super turned on.

Sex on the Edge of the Bed 

This position means your partner is standing next to the bed as you’re lying at the side. It is a new take on the missionary wherein the legs are at above the shoulders position. You can add here in the place of the legs-above-the-shoulders, or you can have your legs tucked into the chest, kept out in a “V” style, or whatever feels comfortable. 

What’s nice about this position is that your partner is securely rooted in the field, so they can drive harder and more under control, which means quicker or slower, whichever you prefer!

Bridge 

Through this position, you can achieve penetrative or oral sex. We all know what it feels like to have a glute bridge, right? Basically, in the traditional missionary situation, this position calls for holding a glute bridge. The elevation makes it easier for your lover to get deeper and place your pussy in another position. 

This one also provides your mate (or you) with simple access to stimulate the clitoris, either penetrating or going down on you. All wins for everyone involved if you ask me.

Spooning

This is a lovely spot to try in the morning. Whether you’re having intercourse with a man or same-sex, you’ll want to be a tiny spoon, so whether you’re having penetrative finger sex, you might be a large or small spoon. This also makes it easy to get super close to your partner. 

The penis or fingers come from a different angle, so it might feel different and more quickly touch your G-spot, woohoo on that! Also, here’s a tip: lift the top leg here as well if it’s better.

Takeaway

So there you have it! The best sex positions you can try that not only make him or her go crazy but also enhance you and your partner’s sexual pleasure. There’s nothing wrong with making a change to your boring sexual routine in bed. It will also help if you want to involve some exciting sex toys. So go ahead and try these tonight!

About The Author

Belinda is a 42-year-old married mother of three who lives in Naples, Florida. While staying at home to raise her children, she began to write articles and blogs for various outlets. She was raised in a strict, Christian home, but has since found more peace with a more spiritual approach to life and health. A strong believer in natural and alternative medicine, energy healing, and total wellness, she stumbled on the health benefits of orgasm quite by accident. Since then, she has often written pieces that help inform others about the benefits she discovered. Belinda also enjoys taking care of her home and family, and often jokes that she is a bit of a Stepford wife… with a wild side. In her free time, she loves to spend time at the beach with her family, host parties and BBQ’s, and work outside in one of her many flower gardens.
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