25 People Reveal The One Moment That Caused Them To End Their Relationship

Breakups are hard to do, no matter when they happen in a relationship. Saying goodbye to someone you love can be a difficult experience. But, for many, there is no other option. There are many people who reach a point in relationships—a breaking point—that they cannot come back from. It changes theway they view their partner entirely and they can no longer stay in a healthy, loving relationship with that person. Recently, Reddit user u/bejeweledbanana asked users to share the tipping point of their relationship—what made them end it for good—and, some of these stories are insane.

1.

When my now ex-wife was arrested for having a sexual relationship with one of her female students…

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2.

She started telling me how she had to defend me to my friends after I had to miss watching a show with themto go into work. My friends told me that wasn’t true and she spent the entire time shit talking me.

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3.

She wouldn’t stop sleeping with her ex boyfriend and then decided to marry him. She told me this via text.

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4.

He and I had this moment, lying on the bed, listening to some music, in my room, while the sun was setting, the city buzzing away below us, after a long day and I felt this wholesome feeling, like I knew where I belonged. And right then and there, he looks at me and said: “if you ever leave me, I’m gonna make your life a fucking hell.”

Guess I belonged far far away from him.

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5.

I got tired of carrying her to bed after her nightly binge drinking. Also, her complete denial of being an alcoholic and refusing to get help.

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My Boyfriend Is My Best Friend And I’m Not Ashamed To Admit It

I always struggled through life maintaining close friendships. For whatever reason, I was always the “back up friend.” I had a lot of friends who I considered to be sisters—my very best friends in the world. I confided in them, I trusted them, I always thought of them as my confidants. But, whatever the reason may be, I was always 4th, 5th, 6th on their list of friends. I was never anyone’s “best friend.” I was never the girl that someone would call and text first, the one who became someone’s family. I was always kind of on my own, doing my own thing, looking for a “girl gang” to call my own.

 

But, that all changed when I met my boyfriend.

We met randomly; at a bar when I least expected it. I was out with some co-workers and he was out with his friends and our eyes locked on opposite sides of the bar as if we were looking for each other the entire time. It sounded cliché—like a scene out of a movie. But, when we talked, it was if we had known each other all our lives. I always think, maybe we met in a past life. Maybe we were friends in another galaxy. Whatever the reason was—we clicked.

 

8 Bullsh*t Things Girls With Boyfriends Are Sick And Tired Of Hearing

I’m not quite sure why it is,  but, society hates on the girl who has a boyfriend. For some reason, if you have a boyfriend who is not your fiancé or your husband, or, is not ready to make that kind of commitment—he’s not a priority to your life or your plans. Your friends will judge you, your family will judge you and—it’s just a cycle of non-stop complaining and nagging.

Let me say: f*ck that noise, guys.

When you’re in a relationship in which you’re in love, respect, and honesty, f*ck what everyone else thinks. Tell them to take their opinions of your relationship and stick ’em where the sun don’t shine.

1. “You let him control you too much.”

There’s a fine line between controlling and having mutual respect for one another. If my boyfriend is uncomfortable with something I do, say, or wear, we’ll talk about it and come to an understanding and compromise because—it works both ways. If I’m uncomfortable with something he does/says, we can talk it out just the same. Respect is the most important thing in a relationship.

2. “You spend too much time together.”

Don’t tell me how I should spend my time. It is my time. If I want to spend it in bed with my boyfriend binge-watching old episodes of That 70’s Show and ordering nachos—I will.

3. “You’ll get sick of him eventually.”

You know what – everyone’s going to get sick of your bad attitude eventually, too.

4. “I miss who you were before you two started dating.”

Everyone in life grows as human beings—with or without relationships. It’s not fair to tell someone you dislike the person they have become, especially if they are happy and not harming themselves or anyone around them. Stop being bitter.

5. “F*ck him, let’s go get guys to buy us drinks.”

Sure, going to the bar and partying with randoms is fun when you’re single, but, just because you’re single and your friend is in a relationship doesn’t mean she’s going to disrespect her man to please you. Be considerate.

6. “You’re too young to be tied down.”

Excuse me, Linda, last time I checked time was a concept created by idiots. Just because I’m young, doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy my time with someone. And, the younger I fall in love, the more time I have to make memories with that person. Suck on that.

7. “Good thing I don’t need a man to make me happy.”

Neither do I, crazy. But, my boyfriend makes me happy on top of my already self-happiness. I don’t need anyone to make me happy, I have someone who adds to my happiness.

8. “Just wait until the Honeymoon stage is over.”

Just wait until you’re single and miserable for the rest of your life.

What It Means To Love Each Other, Even When You’re Miles Apart

He’s miles away from you, on the other side of the country, or perhaps, halfway across the world. The distance makes your heart pine for him, even as it pushes you apart. But, love always remains, even as times change and the distance between you increases.

Your love transcends the physical. You wish you could hold each other, hug each other, kiss each other. You long to wrap your hands around each other, to feel your hearts beating in synchronicity as your chests caress each other. But, you discover your connection is richer, more emotional. You no longer need to rely on gentle touches and sweet kisses when you know each other’s souls more deeply than each other’s lips.

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