Being Yourself Is Your Superpower:12 Things About My Authentic Gypsy Soul

In a world that often expects us to be something that we’re not, it can be difficult to find our true selves. We are constantly getting messages from the media and society telling us what is acceptable and what is not. In the end, most of us try fitting into a mold that simply does not fit.

Thankfully, more and more women are starting to break free from societal expectations and embrace who they truly are. They are learning to love themselves for who they are, quirks and all. And that is something truly amazing.

For me, I am a gypsy soul. Learning what a gypsy soul is made me realize I’m not crazy or weird but just being my authentic self – doing what comes naturally to me. Don’t make yourself nuts trying to fit into a societal norm. Figure out your own norm. What makes you feel alive, excited, and comfortable? After being conditioned by expectations for so many years, you might go through a trial-and-error period learning what feels authentic, but it’s a self-discovery that profoundly impacts how you live your life and how you experience joy in this world.

Here are the twelve things that feel authentic for me and my gypsy soul:

1. I am an old soul in a modern world. Sometimes it feels like I was born in the wrong time period. 
2. I am self-sufficientunpredictable, and fiercely independent. I work hard to make my own wishes and dreams come true. 
3. I am not scared of life, and life doesn’t scare me. While life can be scary at times, I know that’s when I learn and grow the most. I can be the hero of my own life.
4. I am a collector of moments; material things are not important. I rather have a barrel full of memories than a barrel full of things!
5. I am a passionate person who asks deep questions and thinks about deeper aspects of life. Self-discovery is always on my mind, and I want to know all the things about all the things. Don’t give me small talk; give me a deep, meaningful conversation.
6. love nature and art, being imaginative and creative, and music runs through my veins. Being in nature makes me feel alive. I want rocks covered in moss with a small stream running nearby.  
7. I let my emotions guide me, am empathetic, and trust my intuition. I tend to think and feel things way too much. 
8. believe in magic and miracles. I’m optimistic and know that something good is always around the corner. There is a silver lining in every cloud and magic in every day; sometimes you just have to find it.
9. dance to the beat of my own drum and live an unconventional lifestyle. I’m constantly looking for something new and exciting. I’m creating my own path and finding my own joy. You may not always agree with my choices, but I’m making those choices for me and not you!
10. I am a free-spiritedadventurous wanderer who loves my freedom. I want new places and new faces. I want to experience all there is to experience! It’s not about checking off boxes; it’s about experiencing it all!
11. I am full of energy and want to live life on my own terms, always open to change and embracing chaos. I have fire in my soul. There is beauty in imperfection, no need for rose-colored glasses. An authentic life doesn’t pretend to be perfect. Perfect is an illusion I quit chasing.
12. I am afraid to fall in love, but I love unconditionally. I have a big heart and every time I have loved, I have gotten hurt, but it hasn’t stopped me from trying. I hope to find someone who can match my depth.

We are all unique and amazing in our own way, and there’s no need to apologize for being who we are. So go out and be your beautiful self, unapologetically. Let society try and put us in a box – we’ll always find a way to break out and fly free.

If you’re feeling down because you don’t fit into the “norm,” remember that you are not alone. There are billions of other women out there who are also fighting against societal expectations. And together, we can make a difference.

Check out my book, Discovering My Gypsy Soul, to learn more about me and my journey of self-discovery.

About The Author

Catina Borgmann is a free-spirited, adventurous woman who has discovered and subsequently embraced her authentic gypsy soul. She was born and raised in Nebraska and lived there until 2018, when she followed her dream to live in a tiny house community in North Carolina. 

Catina is a catalyst for self-love, self-discovery, and living an authentic life. Along the way, she has made mistakes, learned lessons, fought battles, won victories, survived traumas, become an author, and started a blog. She’s managed to always find joy within her journeys.

Through her company, GypsyWander, she hopes to inspire and encourage free-spirited women around the world to live authentically and find joy in their own journeys. You can find her at www.GypsyWander.life, on Facebook, and on Pinterest.

90 Books From All Of Your Favorite Genres Published In 2021

The ultimate list of 90 new books that will fit whatever genre you love.

I don’t know about you, but one of my favorite things about winter is curling up with a good book under a fluffy blanket with hot cocoa within reach. No matter what genre you love – romance, bios, sci-fi, etc. – there’s definitely something in this list for you. These books have also been very recently released, which means you’ll be among the first to read them. Here are 90 books that fit your genre, whatever it may be.

Romance:

For the Love of April French – Penny Aimes

Heartbreak for Hire – Sonia Hartl

Incense and Sensibility – Sonali Dev

Neon Gods – Katee Robert

Seven Days in June – Tia Williams

The Girl With Stars in Her Eyes – Xio Axelrod

The Intimacy Experiment – Rosie Danan

Love at First – Kate Clayborn

The Ex Talk – Rachel Lynn Solomon

Shipped – Angie Hockman

Mystery

The Last Thing He Told Me – Laura Dave

The Maidens – Alex Michaelides

The Wife Upstairs – Rachel Hawkins

Local Woman Missing – Mary Kubica

When the Stars Go Dark – Paula McLain

For Your Own Good – Samantha Downing

The Night She Disappeared: A Novel – Lisa Jewell

The Man Who Died Twice – Richard Osman

A Slow Fire Burning: A Novel – Paula Hawkins

Too Good to Be True – Carola Lovering

Sci-Fi/Fantasy

The Nature of Middle Earth – J.R.R. Tolkien

The Body Scout: A Novel – Lincoln Michel

The Last Graduate – Naomi Novik

The Brides of Maracoor – Gregory Maguire

Perhaps the Stars – Ada Palmer

Noor – Nnedi Okorafor

Termination Shock – Neal Stephenson

Alien³: The Unproduced First-Draft Screenplay by William Gibson – Pat Cadigan

Truth of the Divine: A Novel – Lindsay Ellis

The Veiled Throne – Ken Liu

Horror

Later – Stephen King

The Last House on Needless Street – Catriona Ward

The Mary Shelley Club – Goldy Moldavsky

The Final Girl Support Group – Grady Hendrix

The Book of Accidents – Chuck Wendig

My Heart is a Chainsaw – Stephen Graham Jones

Revelator – Daryl Gregory

A Broken Darkness – Premee Mohamed

Whisper Down the Lane – Clay McLeod Chapman

The Drowning Kind – Jennifer McMahon

Poetry

Many Kinds of Love: A Love Story of Life, Death and the NHS – Michael Rosen

A Blood Condition – Kayo Chingonyi

Wicked Enchantment: Selected Poems – Wanda Coleman

Teeth in the Back of My Neck – Monika Radojevic

Rotten Days in Late Summer – Ralf Webb

Poems: 1962-2020 – Louise Glück

Call Us What We Carry: Poems – Amanda Gorman

The Crossing – Manjeet Mann

Sho – Douglas Kearney

Glass Constellation: New and Collected Poems – Arthur Sze

Young Adult

Roman and Jewel – Dana L. Davis

Be Dazzled – Ryan La Sala

Lore – Alexandra Bracken

Happily Ever Afters – Elise Bryant

You Have a Match: A Novel – Emma Lord

The Girls I’ve Been – Tess Sharpe

City of Villains – Estelle Laure

Written in Starlight – Isabel Ibañez

Hot British Boyfriend – Kristy Boyce

These Feathered Flames – Alexandra Overy

Historical Fiction

Band of Sisters: A Novel – Lauren Willig

The Rose Code: A Novel – Kate Quinn

Our Woman in Moscow: A Novel – Beatriz Williams

The Secret Keeper of Jaipur – Alka Joshi

The Forest of Vanishing Stars: A Novel – Kristin Harmel

Three Words for Goodbye: A Novel – Hazel Gaynor and Heather Webb

Harlem Shuffle – Colson Whitehead

Of Women and Salt – Gabriela Garcia

The Social Graces – Renee Rosen

The Personal Librarian – Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray

Non-Fiction

Somebody’s Daughter: A Memoir – Ashley C. Ford

The Unfit Heiress: The Tragic Life and Scandalous Sterilization of Ann Cooper Hewitt – Audrey Clare Farley

My Broken Language: A Memoir – Quiara Alegría Hudes

White Magic – Elissa Washuta

Crying in H Mart – Michelle Zauner

Empire of Pain: The Secret History of the Sackler Dynasty – Patrick Radden Keefe

Cultish: The Language of Fanaticism – Amanda Montell

A Little Devil in America: Notes in Praise of Black Performance – Hanif Abdurraqib

Animal, Vegetable, Junk: A History of Food, From Sustainable to Suicidal – Mark Bittman

Please Don’t Sit on My Bed in Your Outside Clothes – Phoebe Robinson

Biography/Autobiography

The Contrarian: Peter Thiel and Silicon Valley’s Pursuit of Power – Max Chafkin

Philip Roth: The Biography – Blake Bailey

The Storyteller: Tales of Life and Music – Dave Grohl

Goodbye, Guns N’ Roses: The Crime, Beauty, and Amplified Chaos of America’s Most Polarizing Band – Art Tavana

Hollywood Eden: Electric Guitars, Fast Cars, and the Myth of the California Paradise – Joel Selvin

The Triumph of Nancy Reagan – Karen Tumulty

Unfinished: A Memoir – Priyanka Chopra Jonas

The Almost Legendary Morris Sisters: A True Story of Family Fiction – Julie Klam

The Young H. G. Wells: Changing the World – Claire Tomalin

Power Play: Tesla, Elon Musk, and the Bet of the Century – Tim Higgins

Check out some of these reads and see if you can borrow them from the library (old-school style), download them to your electronic devices, or purchase them to keep it all to yourself. Happy reading!

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About the Author

Emmie Pombo is a latte and tattoo-loving Tennessean who specializes in mental health and beauty writing. She holds a degree in Journalism and a certification in Makeup Artistry and Airbrushing. Follow her on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter.

32 Things You Thought While Watching “Gone Girl” For The First Time

SPOILER ALERT: If you haven’t seen or read Gone Girl and don’t want the ending spoiled for you, it’s time to turn back.  Turn back now!

I know I’m not the only person who was disturbed and yet weirdly fascinated by David Fincher’s latest disturbing and weirdly fascinating film.  Late last year, his adaptation of Gillian Flynn’s bestseller, Gone Girl had movie audiences all over the globe silently mouthing “what the fuck” at the totally intriguing drama about a troubled wife going missing and her husband landing himself as the prime suspect.  The story takes the viewer (and main character Nick Dunne) on a rollercoaster ride of suspicion and revelations, culminating in the twist halfway through which reveals that Nick’s wife Amy is totally insane, and she ran away, planning to frame her husband for her murder.

It’s a rare thing when the movie adaptation of a popular book is just as good, if not better than the book itself, but Gone Girl is one of those.

It’s bizarre, unsettling, uncomfortable, and really really interesting.  A first viewing can conjure some very strong reactions.  I bet you thought a lot of these things (or even said them out loud) the first time you saw Gone Girl.

  1. I’m 10 minutes in and I already want to date this Amy chick.
  2. Okay, 20 bucks says Ben Affleck totally killed her.
  3. Has Ben Affleck ever not played a tool in his entire career?
  4. This treasure hunt thing is either the cutest or most annoying idea ever.
  5. If I ever get married, I’m totally going to do a treasure hunt every year.
  6. Holy boobs, Batman!
  7. This Andi chick is the dumbest girl alive.
  8. Wait. Wait. WHAT? SHE’S ALIVE?!

  9. Did I say I wanted to date Amy?  I’ve made a huge mistake.
  10. Um, exactly whose side are we supposed to be on?
  11. If I was running away from my husband, I think I’d at least want to get the hell out of Missouri.
  12. What is Madea doing in this movie?
  13. Carrying all your cash in a fanny pack is just asking for someone to rob you, lady.
  14. Told you.
  15. I can’t decide if this “cool girl” rant is the most feminist or anti-feminist thing I’ve ever heard.
  16. This woman is straight-up ladling pee out of her toilet and into a mason jar.  Nuts.
  17. I have to hand it to her though, Amy thought of everything.
  18. Do you think Nancy Grace declined the opportunity to play herself in this movie?
  19. I’d totally live with that creep Desi in a mansion like that.
  20. Why is his name Desi?  Couldn’t he be Jim or David?
  21. Wait, what is she doing with that wine bottle — oh my lord, this chick is psycho.

  22. Amy, you sly, crafty bitch.
  23. Is that Neil Patrick Harris’ dick?!
  24. Please tell me the cops aren’t going to buy Amy’s story.
  25. Of course, the cops bought Amy’s story.
  26. They just let her leave the hospital covered in blood like that?
  27. Oh my god, this woman is an evil genius!

  28. So wait…who’s going to pay off all that credit card debt she racked up?
  29. Lock the door?  How about run out the door and get the hell away from that crazy woman?
  30. Come on, Ben Affleck.  Just wait for her to have the baby and then run away with it in the middle of the night.
  31. That’s the most unsettling ending I’ve ever seen.
  32. I…I feel like I need a shower.  And five years of therapy.
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