Did he sincerely choose you? Is he really in it for the long-haul?
You went through the dating stage and it’s been official for a while. Unfortunately, we typically start to question if he’s really in it. Let alone, into us.
Another failed relationship is definitely not on our list.
Some signs can be standing right in front of us. So as cliché as it sounds, actions do speak louder than words.
So remember, keep an open-mind and don’t overanalyze. He’s just a guy also wanting to be accepted. Give him room to breathe and let him be the man he needs to be.
He treats you as what you are to him.
He knows he no longer needs to gain attention from other women. He has female friends but even their conversation is kept to minimum.
If there is anyone he wants to share great news or talk to about anything, it’s you. He’ll never make you fight for his attention and communication. You are his girlfriend.
He introduces you to his family and friends.
He’s already amazed by you and now he’s reached a point where he knows your worth. He values you for who you are and what you represent to him.
So be ready to be introduced! His family and close friends are important, and you are part of that circle now.
He works on making things less stressful for you.
He doesn’t have to, but he does this because he cares for you immensely. He knows that spending time with you equals making good memories.
He’ll fight off the stress and worries with you because he knows you deserve it. He lives for the moment alongside you.
He makes sure you’re comfortable.
He avoids at all costs seeing you distressed, disappointed or vulnerable. He wouldn’t want to be put in that position, so why should You be?
He knows not to hurt someone he truly cares for. He doesn’t want to be the primary cause of ever hurting you. So what he can control, he’ll fulfill.
He prioritizes your happiness.
He knows he holds your heart in his hands. Holding the most fragile thing you can ever give him means he also has to protect it. He understands that you hold his happiness in retrospect.
As your partner, creating a healthy and happy atmosphere to build a stable relationship is essential. So he’ll often enough place your needs before his.
He encourages your ambitions.
He has goals he wants to fulfill but he also doesn’t want to leave you behind. His goals and ambitions are just as important as yours.
Building a relationship takes two. Building a future takes a team. He knows this and encouraging you isn’t hard to do.
He accepts your differences.
He knows you won’t always have something in common and you both are different in many ways.
He accepts you completely because he knows those differences are what make you who you are. But he doesn’t work on changing you. Instead, he helps bring out the best of you.
He holds your emotions into account.
He knows that not every relationship is perfect. Communication isn’t always easy and crystal clear.
When you discuss things or it seems like an argument, he pays attention to your emotions. They’re just as important as his. There is no right or wrong, its finding the equilibrium.
He wants to communicate with you above all else.
He knows there is no one more important than the woman he calls his best friend.
From small details to things that are hard to say, he knows that he can tell you anything and everything. Sometimes it won’t be easy, but you always manage to meet halfway.
He thinks of you as his future.
He talks about things that can lead to a fruitful life with you and this is of no hesitation to him.
At this point, he demonstrates accepting the good, the bad and the uneasy. He knows you’ve accepted him too.
He voices confidence in having a future with you. A future that he knew one day he’d like to share.
So ladies, when he shows attention, care and devotion, reciprocate it all.
A relationship is about giving without keeping tabs and providing your partner the sense of security.
If he does these things for you, you may have found your unicorn.