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9 Truths of Low-Key People

A low-key person is someone who is chill, easy-going, and simple. There’s no confusion in whether or not someone is low-key; they’re pretty easy to spot once you filter through all the attention-seekers. Here are 9 truths of low-key people:

  1. They’re laid back. They aren’t constantly on the go, finding new ways to “live it up”. The need to constantly be entertained or doing something extreme in order to escape boredom is not a part of their world. They’re happy without taking life at 90 mph.
  2. They’re not into drama. They never come home to bring up the latest drama going on in their life. Even if there is a lot of drama, they don’t even acknowledge it and the last thing they do is bring it up. They have better things to do with their time; like chilling.
  3. They’re not blowing up newsfeeds. They don’t really care whether or not people see every semi-exciting thing they happen to experience. They don’t need people to see a new selfie every day. In fact, they rarely post anything. Their business is not anyone else’s business and they like to keep it that way. They don’t need to be the center of attention in order to be happy. They actually try to avoid extra attention.
  4. Excitement is not a frequent thing. They’re relatively calm in an all-around kind of way. They may be pleased and happy about something, but any kind of extreme emotion usually doesn’t show.
  5. Emotions in general are a little muted. They never blow up when they’re angry, they don’t burst into tears when they’re sad…they don’t make a big deal about things. Expressing their love may be difficult; they just have their own low-key kind of love languange. Be ready for low-key vibes.
  6. They are homebodies. When they like to chill, they’re not into going out, and excitement is not a necessity, home is their favorite place to be. They are perfectly happy to come home after work and stay around the house.
  7. “Ok, whatever” is their motto. And not in a sarcastic way either. Anything goes. They are go-with-the-flow kind of people and don’t have strong feelings on the subject, whatever it may be.
  8. They are really easy to get along with. When they’re not into drama and they just go with the flow in every situation, you realize they’re very easy to get along with. They’re laid back and don’t mind compromising. They don’t get offended or bothered, and they don’t force their opinions on anyone.
  9. They make for great, stress-free relationships. Read all of the above. If you want a stress-free relationship and don’t know what to look for, look for a low-key person. Their chill is bae.

8 Advantages of Dating the Drama-Free Girl

Find yourself a drama-free girl and you’ll have the benefit of a nice, simple relationship. Simple relationships are the best relationships. They’re chill, easygoing and so laid back they’re basically horizontal.

There’s no drama, no bickering, no reading between the lines, and this is what makes them the strongest relationships around.

1. You’re down to be boring.

You don’t always want to go out and party. Some of the best nights you have together are when you stay in, raid Netflix for something mindless and snuggle your goddamn brains out.

That’s not to say there isn’t a time and a place for body shots and beer bongs, but bad movies and makeout sessions win nine times out of ten.

2. You know when to let things slide.

Easygoing relationships are just that: easy. There’s no nagging, no bickering, no one-upmanship and no needless conflict. There’s no need to pick your battles because there are no battles to take part in.

Sure, you might not agree on certain subjects, but you respect that difference and contrasting opinions let you broaden your own horizons.

3. ‘Yes’ is your first response to basically everything.

Rock climbing in the Appalachians? Sure. Impromptu trip to Mexico? Let’s go for it. Sex seminar in a healing retreat? Fuck yeah, let’s learn some knowledge.

Even if it takes you out your comfort zone, it doesn’t faze you. Maybe it’ll tank, maybe you’ll learn you’re just not into some things, but you’re always willing to give it a go as a couple.

4. You always trust each other’s judgment.

You know they’ve got your back and they only look out for your best interests. You’re a team and if you’re both going to win at life, you’re going to win at it together.

So if they suggest something a little out of the ordinary, you go for it regardless, and vice versa, because you know they’ve never steered you wrong and they aren’t going to start now.

5. You can be your silly self.

Everyone has a silly side, but we’re all a little self conscious and embarrassed to admit that we like to crawl upstairs like a majestic Bengal tiger, or our Saturday mornings still consist of sugary cereal and Spongebob Squarepants.

With them, you can show every ridiculous side that you possess; you don’t feel awkward sharing that side of yourself, ‘cos in all honesty they usually just join in with you.

6. You’re not always trying to impress.

Of course you’re always going to big up your achievements, and they’re going to want to share your success with you, but there is no pressure to brag or flaunt. You don’t need to drop how much money you’re making or previous sexual exploits into conversation – they aren’t with you for that. They love you for who you are, not for who you pretend to be.

7. You don’t have to read between the lines.

Passive aggressiveness isn’t an issue in your relationship. You don’t have to interpret what they say or use your friends as translators to analyze a passing comment.

What is said, is said – with no confusion or hidden meaning. This keeps it simple; it keeps it easy but most importantly it keeps it honest.

8. You ask for what you want.

You don’t have to be afraid of being bold. Maybe they won’t go for the idea, but they aren’t going be offended. Your input matters just as much as theirs and any suggestions or requests are welcomed – not attacked.

This means you can riff off each other, play around with ideas, and come to a conclusion together – and that makes your relationship a helluva lot more fun.

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