Seven Ways To Celebrate Father’s Day When Your Boyfriend Is A Dad.

So you are dating a man that has kids, but those kids are not yours and you are just starting to get to know them. So what should you do, if anything, when Father’s Day arrives? I mean, he’s not your father, and you are not the mother of his kids. But respectfully, you know it is a significant time for him and you want to show support and acknowledge the holiday.

So since I am in this boat myself, here are seven ways to celebrate him on his Father’s Day.

1.) Shower him with love and praise.

This does not cost anything other than some of your compassion and sweetness. Remind him what a good dad he is and how much you love that about him.

2.) Encourage him to invest in his self-care.

It is just as easy for a Dad to get wrapped up in his work and parenting as a Mom and neglect their “them” time. A gift certificate for the local spa, or maybe some man products, will help encourage him to invest in self-care. I opted for this Anti-Fatique Essentials Bundle by Lumin, a great skincare company designed for men.

3.) Show up for him.

No errand is too small. By helping your honey with simple day-to-day errands, you express your love for him and his busy Dad schedule. Maybe send his little one a note of appreciation too with Boxfull.

4.) Invest in his favorite activities.

Maybe he is a Golf guy and could use an indoor Putt-A-Bout golf green. Or he’s really into his at-home gym and could use some more at-home equipment. Maybe a cool pair of joggers will motivate him.

5.) Cook for him.

Sure, you likely do that already. And if you don’t, that is fine too. By making him his favorite meal or taking him out to dinner, you remind him that he is loved and cared for. And that goes a long way for him as he nurtures his offspring as a Father.

6.) Get him Grilled Up

Most men love a good grill and grilling food for the family. The latest in grilling gadgets and gizmos are here! BBQ tools are getting cooler by the year. Here are some fabulous finds to consider to gift a Dad.

Check out these O-Yaki BBQ Grill Gloves that protect hands from flames but are easier to grill with than traditional BBQ mittens. And the O-Yaki Skewer system is perfect for grilling vegetables, meats, and vegan meats too. The perfectly compact skewers and design allow for easy transportation. So don’t forget the smores! And if he is into grilling fish, you can gift him sustainable seafood subscription services and one-time orders through Sitka Salmon Shares.

And if he is into fishing, perhaps gifting him a new rod, or grilling and smoking planks with rubs by Wildwood Grilling along with baking mats by Grand Fusion for those successful fishing trips.

7.) Encourage Philanthropy.

This Father’s Day weekend is also when the Surfrider Foundation celebrates International Surfing Day on Saturday, June 18th. A morning of beach cleans and volunteering on a sandy beach could be just the outing to feel compassionate and good about protecting Mother Earth while celebrating Fatherhood along the surf and sand. Don’t live near the beach? Look for volunteer events in your area this weekend by checking out VolunteerMatch. Bring the kids, and create a new tradition.

Closing Thoughts

Hallmark holidays come and go, and this one can be no different. Unless you choose to make it an extra special time for him. Because a dad leaves a lasting imprint on a child’s life.

So let’s Celebrate all Father’s this weekend, especially if he is your boyfriend.

Happy Fathers Day To The Absent Father Who Made Me Stronger.

For those of us who have an absent father. A dad that is alive but was never really there for use Father’s Day is not an exciting time of year. I actually get a lot of anxiety about this day. It is not my intention to hurt anyone else feelings but the truth is, Father’s Day brings up a lot of painful memories.

As I stand here in Target in the middle of the card isle looking through the cards, I am looking for a very simple Happy Father’s Day. However, as I read through them I start to feel a little sad. One card says, thank you dad for always being there. In my mind I am thinking about all the times that you weren’t there. All the times when I was little and really did not even know who you where.

I am transfixed right there. I see the nights that you were drinking and decided going to a buddy’s house was more important then spending time with me.

Or when you were drinking and you where fighting with everyone in the house. It was so loud that most nights It was hard to go to sleep. Then there were the nights that you would call the house that I was staying at until three or four in the morning because you where drinking. In these moments it was very apparent that your feelings about how life was going meant much more than what was best for me.

When we first started talking again, I thought these where things that I could get past. That I would be able to forgive. I thought that we were going to have a different relationship. I thought that now because I am an adult that I would not need you the way that I did anymore and so things would be different. Then I found myself in need of your help. I came to you like I was always told that I could and you told me you just couldn’t do anything to help me. The literal answer was, well you are an adult now so you should be able to figure this out.

I was heartbroken, yes I figured it out, but in this moment I knew that I was on my own.

I would never be able to just go to my dad and ask for his help. So durning this Father’s day I am looking for a new relationship. One with a lot lower expectations than I have had pervious. I almost feel like I need to have no expectations for the relationship. It is not for lack of hope for a relationship. I just think our relationship will not be the same as a normal father daughter relationship will be.

I will also say that our relationship has taught me some hard life lessons. No, maybe I should not have had to learn them as earl in life or through our relationship. However, one of the biggest things that Have learned is how to be strong and independent. As well as, how I will raise my children. No, I cannot guarantee that the person I choose to be their father will never disappoint them. However, I as their mother will be able to say. I am here and show them that I am here no matter what. I will be gladly do what I can to help them through life.

So, thank you. Thank you for showing me that I do have the strength and the will power to keep going no matter what. That yes, I can figure it out on my own even though I should not have had too. I am strong for the lack of relationship that we have had. I also know that this is not the relationship that I will have with my own children. Instead I will break the cycle!

Father’s Day Gifts For The Man Of The House

“The heart of a father is the masterpiece of nature.”

Father’s Day is around the corner. And we are in the middle of a crazy year. Rest assured, the father of your children and the man of your dreams wants what he already has, his lovely family.

So how can you and your kids show him in a sweet and touching way, how much he means to you?

Here are some gift ideas that will make your man feel extra appreciated this year.

Jewelry

Men DO wear jewelry. And these days, they are extra stylish and masculine. Finding something that is casual enough for everyday and symbolic is a great way to celebrate Father’s Day. You can gift him a bracelet of courage like a Tiger Eye bracelet. A pair of cuff links, or perhaps a bracelet? What about a personalized silver dog tag necklace?Here are some other gift ideas for your husband or boyfriend.

Office Items For Work

When you gift him something for work, like these cool gadgety pens he will think of you and your kids during work hours. If he works with his hands, something like this magnetic wristband will keep his screws, nails, drill bits and more.

Give him something that helps him get his work done efficiently so he can get back home to his family as quick as he can.

Grilling

Get him on a grill making you the best outdoor summer meals with a classic charcoal grill and some extra spice and flavor

Get Him Outside!

Get the family outside with nature by gifting him a mountain bike. You can find good ones for under $200.00.

Give Him Space

Revamp His Boat

For dads who are avid sailors, there’s nothing they love more than their beloved boat (apart from their family, of course). Take this opportunity to give your dad’s old vessel a makeover with a fresh paint job, updated LED boat lights, and new accessories for the interior. He’ll absolutely love the surprise. Before doing the makeover, make sure to consult an expert on boats so you know what you’re doing.

Encourage self care and balance.

A home gym doesn’t take much to achieve. Some free weights, an affordable stationary bike, an exercise mat and some time for him to get his fitness on.

No matter what you choose for him this year, just know that he has everything he needs. He has all of you!

To all of the wonderful Dad’s out there, Happy Father’s Day!

Unique Gift Ideas For Your Father To Convey Your Unconditional Love

The real superheroes always bestowed their unconditional love and support on us but never asked anything in return. Yes. Here we are talking about our dads who always make sure that our lives are filled with joy and happiness. They are not only the reason for our smiles but because of them, we exist in this happy world. Because of their hardships, we are blessed to live such a secure life. Without even making us realize he has been making sacrifices and also without complaining a bit about them. So every child should always remain thankful to their father and always appreciate their big efforts by admiring them. Now it’s your turn to celebrate his pure love and care to bring a big smile to his face.

Particularly you don’t need any reason to celebrate this pure relationship with your father. But we think father’s day and birthday are the perfect occasions to spoil your father with many gifts and surprises. You should never leave a single chance to show him how much you appreciate him. Your father deserves to be treated with great love for his selfless support and care for you. So for you, we have curated gift items from special birthday cake to other thoughtful gift ideas. We have got you covered. Let’s take a look.

Watches

Gifting a watch is one of the best ways to strengthen the bond with your loved ones. As it gives the daily reminder of the person who gifted it. Showing up with an elegant watch will not only make a meaningful gift, but it will enhance your father’s overall look.

Also, when we give a watch to someone, it means we appreciate their valuable presence in our lives. Keep in mind that luxurious watches can be very expensive, so maybe you should think about getting a preowned timepiece. Some of these were not even worn, so it’s not like your father will be getting some old banged-up watch. You can find anything from preowned vintage Rolexes to last year’s Patek Phillipe.

Elegant attires

Every child wants their fathers to stand out from the rest of the other crowd. And the only way to do so is by gifting your cool-looking attires like shirts, suits, shoes, jog sets, etc. so if you have a father who likes to dress up cool in his daily life – he will surely appreciate this thoughtful gift coming from you.

Photo frames

Photo frames are the best way to relive that old moment again. And obviously, everyone around us likes to cherish those happy moments of their life and your father is one of them. If your parents have still preserved some childhood pictures of you and them. Then this is the perfect time to get them in a beautiful frame and surprise your father with this sweet memorial gift. You can also get it personalized by adding a thoughtful message for your lovely father.

Customized cake

Whether it be a birthday or father’s day, these occasions sound incomplete without a delicious and delectable cake. So to make sure to celebrate this special occasion with great pomp and show, you need to customize an extra special cake for your father. Many trendy designer cakes are easily available on online portals like – photo cakes or theme-based cakes, etc. you can also get a cake of your choice through online cake delivery options.

Spiritual plant

If your father is the one who believes in placing spiritual plants inside the house to spread positivity then this one is for him. For such dads plants like lavender, mint, lily would make a great gift. He will love this sweet gesture for sure.

So these were some amazing gift ideas for your amazing father.

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For those who won’t have a father on Father’s Day this year

Father’s Day Memories

Used to be such a happy day. I use to celebrate this day with joy in my heart, thankful for my father and him keeping himself strong everyday. The Father’s Day i spent seeing him when he was sober free we were fishing, out to lunch, or antique shopping. Since you left me dad, since your addiction took a-hold of you i have all this love in my heart with no one to give it to. If your father has passed this day will be a struggle for you. You will watch as others love and praise their fathers while you might feel anger or hurt in your heart towards others because your jealous of what you don’t have anymore.

My dad passed away August 27, 2014.

I have started to lose memory of his voice, every single detail of him. My dad was quite the character, he had sarcastic humor and a heart so rare.

He wanted so badly to love and be their for his family. Sadly addiction took a-hold of my father. My father was a determined person and fought addiction his entire life. He loved to tell stories, and make you laugh from his corny jokes till your stomach hurt. My first fathers day without him i spent the day in tears at his grave screaming and yelling so angry with the world. I couldn’t help but scream to god with anger at him for letting my dads addiction take his life. I hadn’t realized that their was a plan, someday i would.

The plan was for me to educate others on Drug Addiction and the disease. I will spend my life educating others on this disease, and i will help in anyway i can. Along the way i met a friend and she has become one of my best-friends. About halfway through our friendship she lost her father. I felt anger again towards the world for letting God take away her dad.

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To the father who didn’t have to stay

Thank you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for choosing to be my dad. You didn’t have to be and I definitely didn’t make it easy.

I was about five years old when you came into my life. Not really ever having any other father figures besides my uncle and my grandpa. My real father really screwed that one up for me. I never let people around me know how upset it really made me feel not having my dad in my life. I think that is a normal thing to be upset about, but it was always just way easier to shrug it off.

I would go to those daddy swim things with my cousin’s dad and other than that I would just try to put it out of my mind. Being five you don’t think you would really be able to recall how you felt, but it makes sense because you are missing a whole half of what is suppose to be there.

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