I recall becoming aware of gender when I joined my first hockey team. It just so happened that I loved hockey, I had a true passion for it from the moment I stepped on the ice.
It also just so happened that I was very talented at the sport I loved so much. So when my parents offered me to play both boys and girls hockey, I jumped at the chance.
I was in grade three when I was pulled into an office with the head of the boys league where he told me that my boys’ team would always have to take priority over my girls’ team. He did not care whether my girls’ team was in the finals of a tournament and the boys’ team had a practice, I was to be at the boys’ practice.
My parents had prepared me for this conversation. I was to nod, smile and not worry about what this man was going to say. I did not want to ruin the chance for other girls wishing to play boy’s hockey in the years to come.
Feminism, or more simply, the equality between men and women has been a topic forever. From fighting for the right to vote to fight for the right to your own body, badass women have been paving the way for the ladies after them for a long time.
I’ve long dreamt of being one of those incredible women. A doctor, a lawyer, a CEO, a lady breaking stereotypes wherever she saw them. But as I’ve gotten older, fallen in love and thought long and hard what I want out of this life, I know that being a wife and a mom is an incredible thing this woman wants to do.
Jacq’s shared the secret underwear code she’s become familiar with:
What she really thinks about the stereotype of having “daddy issues.”
But Jacq doesn’t just joke about men, she has a bone to pick with other women who consider themselves feminist, but who don’t include the perspective of actual sex workers when they’re discussing sex work. It seems like in Jacq’s opinion, a lot of women who have never done sex work have too many opinions about it.
But she also makes it clear that everyone has a different perspective on why they get into stripping. Different strokes for different folks:
Though the girls always help each other out. There is such a thing as solidarity, especially around tampon strings:
There’s also some good life hacks, if anyone is taking some very specific liberties with you:
Jacq is turning her job into art, even though it basically already is:
And anyone who reads her book will know exactly how to act the next time they go to the club. Approach the dancers with respect and a fist full of dollar bills.