To each their own. We’re not here to judge, but if you are considering waiting until the big day, you may want to read through these Whisper confessions from people who saved themselves and deeply regretted their decision.
Getting screwed over by your ex can be a really rough time in anyone’s life. Breakups are hard enough as it is, but to break up because you find out the person you’re dating is a huge POS—that’s even harder. After the relationship is said and done and we find out the lies our exes have told us, it makes the breakup even worse. Recently, @SheRatesDogs shared a tweet saying she wanted women to share their “favorite/worst story of an ex lying to you” and she would retweet them and share them throughout her day.
She posted one of her “favorite lies from an ex” that is so outrageous, it makes me literally SMH.
This was my favorite story of an ex blatantly lying so… today we are doing a group activity… please respond with your favorite/worst story of an ex lying to you & I’ll be retweeting them throughout the day pic.twitter.com/mJ6pEHCP6Z
My first boyfriend SWORE he wasn’t cheating on me until I found his furry twitter and his furry online girlfriend but he claimed it didn’t count since only their furry personas were together, so them sexting didn’t count as cheating
My ex went to visit a military friend who was apparently under such strict security they had to take everyone’s phones before entering the housing building.
Another ex: found empty condom wrappers in his overnight bag and he said he was just practicing using them with himself incase we broke up and needed to get used to the sensation again 🥰🥰
One of my ex’s changed a girl’s name on his Snapchat to “Team Snapchat” thinking he was slick & hiding the fact he was getting nudes from her. Until one day I was like “why did you just get like 10 snaps from Team Snapchat in the last 30 min we’ve been sitting here??” Idiot lmfao
He told me that the photos he was being tagged in of him out on dates with his coworker were actually of a body double that she had hired to look like him and duplicated his tattoos in makeup because she was so obsessed with him.
my cheating ex dropped off a bag of my stuff at my house after we broke up and i asked him about all of the women’s panties and workout clothes in the bag and he told me they were his MOMS bitch u live at COLLEGE
my exes excuse to cheating was (and i quote) “we had math together and she would give me handjobs DURING class and i didn’t know how to say no, i promise it was nothing”
Every dad has his own true and tried life advice that he one day passes on to younger generations. Whether it’s about maintaining relationships or his secrets to success at work or even how to get out of a speeding ticket, father’s are notorious for sharing their words of wisdom.
But in my opinion, the best guidance is the kind that seems most ridiculous. Just take it from these people who are sharing the funniest life advice they ever received from their dads.
They stand by you through your darkest days—when you feel trapped inside your own agony and there seems to be no way out. They pick you up through the depths of your lowest points. They remind you to be humble, how to be grounded—show you that there are silver linings in all of life’s immense chaos.
They protect you with all of their soul, trying to shield your essence from any trickle of pain and sorrow. They open up parts of your core that you never knew were there – or the ones you’ve kept tucked away for years, denying their existence.
They are your biggest fans when things fall into place, giving you the satisfaction to know someone values all of your efforts, hard work, perseverance. They bask in your ambition like the sweet, warm rays of sunshine. They bring forth the glow in your eyes you never saw shine.
There are some girls you meet in your life who are once in a lifetime kind of people.
They are strong, they are brave – they are different.
While they provide for you in ways you could have never envisioned someone doing, it showcases the depth of their love and care for you as a person. Their support, their admiration, their pride—comes from a place of deep, deep love.
The once in a lifetime girl is someone who will leave an imprint on your soul for the rest of your life.
And when you meet her, it feels like an 18-wheeler slammed into your stomach at lightning speed—you never see it coming. You get scared, you get worried – you start to imagine life without them, realizing how much of an impact they have had on your life in such a short period of time.
You start to run.
They realize – slowly – the longevity of your fear, the worry behind your eyes, the distance within your movements, the shaking behind your words. They start to realize the permanency of reluctance, the pain of indecision, the hurt of holding back.
The once in a lifetime girl knows her worth. She knows her value and what she brings to the table. She is the four legs that hold it steady, the base that gives it a foundation, the support it needs to withstand the storm.
But, eventually, she will grow tired of your reluctance. She will grow numb to your indecision. She will grow weary of your holding back.
She will start to see all of the gaps within your conversations, the caution within your movements, the hesitancy within your ways.
She will come to the realization that she deserves more.
The once in a lifetime girl loves with every inch of her being – giving herself completely to someone else. In return, she knows, she deserves unconditional love, but it happens so often, their partners fall short of their expectations.
They wise up. They pick up. They leave. They move on.
The once in a lifetime girl is just that—once in a lifetime—and if you are not willing to see her, she will already be the one that got away.
We talk about sexual preferences a lot—things we like, things we don’t like, and just experiences in general. However, one aspect that doesn’t get talked about as much as it should is circumcision.
Some people prefer their partner to be circumcised, while others could care less. Personally, I don’t feel it’s my place to judge someone for something they have no control over. It’s not like they were consulted at infancy as to whether or not they wanted to be one way or the other.
That being said, it’s also okay to have your preferences. Whisper consulted women on their opinions regarding uncircumcised guys and their responses might just surprise you.
Anyone who has ever lived with roommates knows it can be a gamble. Most people have at least one horrible ex-roommate story to tell and if they don’t, it might be because they were the horrible roommate.
Some roommates are messy, some are loud, some are late on rent, and the worst ones aren’t afraid to steal from you. At least, that’s what these people discovered and they’re telling Whisper all about the weirdest things they discovered missing after a roommate left.
1. But why?
2. That’s just messed up.
3. Well, time to treat yo’ self to a trip to Sephora and send them a bill.
It’s not uncommon to grow up with parents who just don’t stay together. Whether you’re a child growing up in a small town or a kid roaming the streets of the big city, you’re not alone when you think your entire world is falling apart because your parents have decided to go their separate ways. One minute you’re sitting at the dinner table with mom and dad discussing their work day, talking about how much they couldn’t wait to come home to each other – and the next, they’re barely speaking over Thanksgiving turkey.
Divorce sucks. It’s hard, long and emotionally draining. It shows children at a young age that love can be dispensable and not every “forever” truly means forever. It gives us the thought process that things are temporary in life and even if you work incredibly hard at something, it doesn’t always stick around. Children who grow up in divorced homes are unique, special and often times, vulnerable. They don’t love like everyone else, they don’t see the world through the same rose-colored lenses most people do and they certainly don’t look on the bright side all of the time.
1. We’re Often Cynical About Love:
When you watch your parents – the two people who brought you into the world – fall apart before your eyes, it’s almost impossible for us to feel optimistic about being in love with someone. When we do approach love, we do it cautiously and with our guards up. We’re scared that if we love too much, get too comfortable, the situation will fall apart before our very eyes – just like mom and dad.
2. We Question Things A lot:
We need answers, sometimes too often. We want to know from the get-go that the relationship is going somewhere – or anywhere at all. We’re scared to waste our time on things that won’t last or have an expiration date. Because of this, we tend to ask more questions than most people can handle. We are the type to love you – and love you hard – but we need some security in knowing you feel the same.
3. We Take Time To Do Things:
People who come from divorced homes aren’t ones to rush things. We may feel like we love you, but you can think again if we’re going to say it first. We wait until we’re sure of everything before we let ourselves be open and vulnerable to being hurt.
4. We Hurt Very Easily:
While we may hesitate on things, we also take things personally. We’re not ones to think lightly about situations and when things go south, we usually blame ourselves. It’s like that classic story where the young kid naively blames himself for his parent’s divorce. We tend to look at things through a very narrow lens, dissecting all the things said and all the things done. Tread lightly with us, we’re a little sensitive.
5. Arguments Are A Sore Spot For Us:
When fights break out, we tend to flinch a bit. We grew up with bad words and bad vibes all around us – it takes us back to a pretty dark and troubling time in our youth. When things get a bit loud and argumentative, we retreat more than we want to combat.
6. We Expect A Lot From Our Significant Other:
We aren’t the kind of people who settle easily, we tend to stay solo until we find that right person. When we do, we expect them to step up to the plate. We know that no one is absolutely perfect – because shit, we have a ton of baggage – but we do expect our partner to deliver. We don’t need someone who we can’t trust, we question or someone who makes us uneasy.
Anyone who has ever been the unsuspecting recipient of a dick pic knows how truly assaulting it can be on the eyes. Not to say the subject of the photo is unattractive, but most of us aren’t excited by the idea of some random genitals showing up in our DM’s without permission. So, why do guys do it?
Well, fortunately, several men decided to answer that exact question on Whisper and their responses might just surprise you…or not at all.
1. It’s all about the rush.
2. It’s an insecurity thing.
3. Sometimes it’s just to liven up a conversation.
Relationships are complicated, but they become infinitely more difficult when one partner is, let’s say, already married. Unfortunately, it’s not uncommon for marriages to fail these days and often times someone else is in the mix.
