To The Guy Who Deserted The Girl He Loves

Deserted

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”- Jenny Han

It’s not the thought that counts.

You thought it’s enough to think about it. You thought it’s enough that deep down, you love her.

You thought that being enigmatic was an excuse to stop appreciating her – so you let your past, your pride, your demons, your selfishness, the fact that you’re weak or scared, be a validation for why you stopped fighting for it, making an effort for it.

But this is the girl who you need to appreciate.

Give her your time, all your love, take her on a crazy adventure. Hold her hand, teach her something new. Kiss her face a million times, take her somewhere she’s always wanted to go, dance with her cheek to cheek, spoil her, make her feel special every day.

This is the girl who has changed your life, who has made you a better man. This is the girl who loves all your wrongness, all those parts of you that you hate. The girl who wipes your tears when you speak about your dad, who kisses your edges, who loves all your roughness. Those parts of yourself that you only show to her, she adores them – her love warms them, your imperfections, it changes you.

This is the girl you need to appreciate because you know in your heart you will never give all of you like that to anyone else; no one will love you better. No one will make love to you with as much passion.

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‘The Guy Who’s Rude To Waiters’ And 6 Other Types Of Guys To Avoid Like The Plague

Rude To Waiters? Not Dating Material!

Dating is always going to be a bit of a crapshoot. You never know which person is going to ultimately sweep you off your feet—and you’ll probably be immensely surprised when it happens.

However, there are a few good general rules of thumb to follow if you want to find your best chance at a healthy, happy relationship. With that in mind, here are some basic types of guys to avoid if you want to steer clear of tepid, unfulfilling relationships:

1. The guy who doesn’t like it if you’re funnier/smarter/more successful than he is.

Bottom line: a partner should be proud of your successes and accomplishments, and should encourage you to shine at all times. Only guys who are insecure in their masculinity are threatened by a woman who is their intellectual equal — and that’s a pretty outdated way to go about relationships.

If he tends to bristle when you crack a successful joke in front of his friends, or when you beat him at Trivial Pursuit, then maybe it’s time to turn around and walk away.

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This is Why it Hurts to Keep Believing that He’ll Actually Change

You know you have a heart of gold and when it comes to love, you give your heart completely to the person that you love. There’s nothing wrong with loving passionately and intensely, but it becomes an issue, when your love is not reciprocated and you spend way too much of your heart, trying to change someone who clearly has no intentions to be the best version of themselves. Save your heart to someone capable of giving you theirs.

I know it’s easier said than done because you can’t dictate who your heart chooses to love.

You mean well but love, well, your love cannot fix him. He needs to want to change and be willing to put in the work. It doesn’t matter how much potential you see in him, it doesn’t matter how many times he’s told you that he’s gonna change, but does absolutely nothing to make it happen, it doesn’t really matter that you love him unconditionally regardless of his issues and flaws.

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