True love is all the little things

True love is a lot of things, but the best way to put it is simple, it’s the little things. The little things you see add up to being bigger things. Coming from a girl who has only known toxic relationships, trust me when I say that when you go into a healthy one (relationship) after a handful of toxic ones it is the absolute weirdest feeling. It’s LITERALLY going from one extreme to the next.

It is true though, true love is seriously the little thing’s that mean the most.

True love is, making pancakes at midnight after doing the deed because y’all worked up an appetite, and chocolate chip pancakes sound heavenly. You are literally sitting on the counter in the kitchen looking at this man who is making you pancakes at midnight, he looks over at you and blows you a kiss while your hair is in the messiest bun and you are wearing nothing but booty shorts and his t-shirt (you know you are looking like a hot mess) but he thinks you look absolutely beautiful!

The little things like surprising her with tea when you hear her up in bed coughing because you know she has a cold and you just want to see her get better.

It may be just a small gesture but it truly does mean the world to her.

Planning a day that revolves around spending time together, surprising her with a coffee and taking her out for the two of you to get a Christmas tree together, planning a cute but simple lunch (literally surprising her with a sub), and playing her favorite board game with her because you love it when she gets so competitive. Then ending the day at your guy’s favorite brewery getting drinks.

I promise you, you have no idea how happy this will make her!

The tiniest thing is, going into a gas station and seeing a beautiful single rose and grabbing it because you know it’s her favorite flower and it reminds you of her. things like this make her heart flutter!

You know she’s a hopeless romantic

It’s little things like making her stay awake until midnight so she can open up the presents you got her on her birthday because you can’t wait for her to open it and you know she’s going to absolutely love what you got her!

It’s finding out she has had an absolutely terrible day and just wanting to turn it around and make her smile! So you go and pick up her favorite wine and make her favorite dinner and make her favorite snack for her because you know that never fails to make her smile! Take it from personal experience … She will cry!

Don’t worry though they are tears of joy!

Finally, true love is loving her even when you know the “baggage” she comes with, and you choose to stay and be with her through the good, the bad, and the ugly. It’s taking her in your arms in the middle of the night when she wakes up crying and worrying from the worst dream and letting her know she’s ok and reminding her it’s just a dream and that you love her with all of your heart!

She doesn’t want a grand gesture guys, I promise you it’s the little things you do that make a huge difference and impact on her.

 

4 Essential Rules for Having Sex on the Beach

First off, getting creative like this is a huge bonus in your life with your partner. If you and your partner are this fun and wild, then your relationship is great, and keeping the sex and adventure is in full force.

Sex is fun, but when you spice it up and add new locations into the already adventurous cycle, it is going to be mind-blowing. There is some careful planning that needs to be worked out. You need to make sure you are carrying all the essentials! When it is “go time”, you and your partner can get freaky, and have sex – but also keep from getting caught.

1. Different Types of Beaches

When you get to the desired location, the first thing you and your loved one should do is scout out the location. Beaches are all different. Some of the beaches are going to be a bit rockier, and some might even have a nearby cliff. I used to live on a beach that was sandy, but it also had cliffs nearby that were close enough that if an ambitious couple wanted to have sex, all they had to do was go around the rocks.

Of course, those with binoculars from the condos above the cliff could get the view of a lifetime, but anyone else would not be able to see a thing. From time to time you would see couples come from that area, but no one would flat out ask them if they were having sex over there. Check the little areas that seem slightly private, and you should also check out where most of the people tend to hang out. You can check into beach tents.

You might find a beach tent that is available for rent. The larger beaches always have beach equipment that can be rented by the day or hour.

2. The Time of Day

Obviously, if you and your partner are thinking of a nighttime fuck-a-thon on the beach, then that is almost a no-brainer, but you still should watch for a few things.

This may sound silly, but paying attention to high/low tide is highly recommended. That can not only ruin the mood, but all the items you may have brought to the beach will wash away, not to mention sand in places that sand should never be found.

Once you figure out what time of the day you plan on having your sexy sand date. Planning what to bring is going to be a very important next step.

3. Sand Sex Attire

The fun part of planning this is, really there isn’t a great deal that is going into this process. The most important part of fucking in the sand is making sure sand does NOT go into your partner’s vagina. That will instantly ruin the trip. You should bring a good-sized towel or blanket.

All of the intercourse needs to be on the towel or blanket, otherwise, just think of a very uncomfortable time that might need medical attention if an infection occurs.

As sexy and hot as it sounds with waves and sand all over your partner’s body like the movies portray sex in the sand, the reality is sand will totally fuck up your sexy time. An easy outfit for your woman in the sand for sexy time is a long sun dress. She will be able to wear no panties. All you have to do is hold the dress up.

4. Sexy Sand Positions

Since sand in the vagina is the major no-no you should think of some new positions or ways to please each other. A blow job is the easiest way to have sex on the beach. All that is involved is dropping to knees and sucking. If a male is hoping for some oral fun, then there is a super-naughty way to have fun.

Bend your woman over, give her a tug on her hair, and begin licking from behind. This is very exciting and a turn-on, because you can get a great view of the hole you plan on sticking. You can lick her into bliss, then slip your cock in her vagina or ass. If you are going for a missionary style of sex, then you might consider rolling her ass up off the blanket, because you want to avoid any little bit of sand if possible.

The goal is to keep the vagina away from the sand!

Always watch for people that might be roaming the beach. Most of the time people keep to themselves, but you should always be scanning the area.

Night-time sex on the beach is going to be the easiest, but try to watch out for noise. If your partner is a screamer, you might have to shove something into her mouth to keep her quiet as she is having an orgasm. If the first time doesn’t work, try again. Hot beach sex is a super fantasy and should be tried at least once if possible.

8 Advantages of Dating the Drama-Free Girl

Find yourself a drama-free girl and you’ll have the benefit of a nice, simple relationship. Simple relationships are the best relationships. They’re chill, easygoing and so laid back they’re basically horizontal.

There’s no drama, no bickering, no reading between the lines, and this is what makes them the strongest relationships around.

1. You’re down to be boring.

You don’t always want to go out and party. Some of the best nights you have together are when you stay in, raid Netflix for something mindless and snuggle your goddamn brains out.

That’s not to say there isn’t a time and a place for body shots and beer bongs, but bad movies and makeout sessions win nine times out of ten.

2. You know when to let things slide.

Easygoing relationships are just that: easy. There’s no nagging, no bickering, no one-upmanship and no needless conflict. There’s no need to pick your battles because there are no battles to take part in.

Sure, you might not agree on certain subjects, but you respect that difference and contrasting opinions let you broaden your own horizons.

3. ‘Yes’ is your first response to basically everything.

Rock climbing in the Appalachians? Sure. Impromptu trip to Mexico? Let’s go for it. Sex seminar in a healing retreat? Fuck yeah, let’s learn some knowledge.

Even if it takes you out your comfort zone, it doesn’t faze you. Maybe it’ll tank, maybe you’ll learn you’re just not into some things, but you’re always willing to give it a go as a couple.

4. You always trust each other’s judgment.

You know they’ve got your back and they only look out for your best interests. You’re a team and if you’re both going to win at life, you’re going to win at it together.

So if they suggest something a little out of the ordinary, you go for it regardless, and vice versa, because you know they’ve never steered you wrong and they aren’t going to start now.

5. You can be your silly self.

Everyone has a silly side, but we’re all a little self conscious and embarrassed to admit that we like to crawl upstairs like a majestic Bengal tiger, or our Saturday mornings still consist of sugary cereal and Spongebob Squarepants.

With them, you can show every ridiculous side that you possess; you don’t feel awkward sharing that side of yourself, ‘cos in all honesty they usually just join in with you.

6. You’re not always trying to impress.

Of course you’re always going to big up your achievements, and they’re going to want to share your success with you, but there is no pressure to brag or flaunt. You don’t need to drop how much money you’re making or previous sexual exploits into conversation – they aren’t with you for that. They love you for who you are, not for who you pretend to be.

7. You don’t have to read between the lines.

Passive aggressiveness isn’t an issue in your relationship. You don’t have to interpret what they say or use your friends as translators to analyze a passing comment.

What is said, is said – with no confusion or hidden meaning. This keeps it simple; it keeps it easy but most importantly it keeps it honest.

8. You ask for what you want.

You don’t have to be afraid of being bold. Maybe they won’t go for the idea, but they aren’t going be offended. Your input matters just as much as theirs and any suggestions or requests are welcomed – not attacked.

This means you can riff off each other, play around with ideas, and come to a conclusion together – and that makes your relationship a helluva lot more fun.

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