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If You Keep Forgiving Him And He Doesn’t Change, This Is For You

There’s no easy breakup and nobody wants to go through it unless it’s necessary, especially when we’ve been so invested in the relationship.

I tried absolutely everything to never experience the end.

The truth is, there comes a point where enough is enough. You shouldn’t keep fighting for someone who’s not learning from past mistakes and is comfortable being less than what you truly deserve.

You might conjure up every possible rationalization for his lack of effort to continue staying with him, but nothing can change the fact that he’s not going to change.

The relationship won’t change. It’s over and the best thing for you to do is walk away and move on.

Yes, It’s hard to admit that no matter how much you loved this person, it didn’t seem to be enough for him to love you back. He had endless chances to do the right thing, to change his ways and be fair to you and the relationship, but he didn’t.

You even took some of the responsibility because you didn’t want to seem pushy or overly dramatic.

You catered to his needs because you thought that your unconditional love would change him. He was worth trying your hardest to make things work, at least that’s what you thought.

You gave him the benefit of the doubt, you were patient, kind and understanding.

The thing is, the relationship might have been doomed from the beginning.

He is who he is, who he wants to always be and he never had the intention to change. You loved this person so much, you became blind to all the signs that were clearly telling you that he was going to step all over your heart. Unfortunately, he was never going to be the one for you.

You were in love with the idea of him, you were not in love with him.

So, everything that you think you’re missing about him is not real. The truth is, he couldn’t possibly be the man of your dreams if he didn’t measure up to your ideal.

He didn’t appreciate you, so he didn’t treat you with the loyalty and respect that you deserve. So, when you think of him, remember that he was never capable of changing. He was never going to be able to be the person that was going to make you feel whole.

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She’s Not Emotionally Unavailable, She’s Just Guarding Her Heart

“Her heart was a secret garden and her walls were very high”

The guarded girl is basically a girl with a big heart who’s been hurt way too many times. Her beautiful, sweet essence is not gone, it’s just hiding underneath the strong shell that protects her heart. At her core, she’s a sweet, warm-hearted, passionate and an extremely loving individual.

She’s built strong walls around her heart but deep down, she just wants to be understood and loved.

She also wants to give her heart away deeply and intensely. It just takes a real man to see right through her and love her for who she really is.

She might seem emotionally unavailable but she’s far from lacking emotion, if anything, she feels too much. Her true nature craves passion, she wants to love hard and unconditionally, so be patient with her heart.

This type of girl is not going around playing games, she’s unapologetically honest and direct.

She’s not going to put up with any bullshit, so any signs that your intentions might be potentially harmful to her soul, and she won’t even bother giving you the time a day.

She’s not cold-hearted, she’s just guarded and there’s a difference.

Her trust issues prevent her from being fully open about her emotions at first, but that doesn’t mean she won’t eventually open up and allow you to see her for who she truly is.

She’s a great listener and also highly observant, so don’t try to deceive her in any way.

She pays attention to everything around her because she knows that there’s always more than meets the eye. Remember, she’s been fooled and hurt a lot so, she’s a master at reading people.

She’s super selective with people and she will never apologize for protecting her heart.

The girl with a guarded heart takes a while to commit, but once she knows that her feelings for you are real and that they’re reciprocated, she’ll slowly become more and more trusting, open and loving.

Don’t doubt her feelings, just be honest, gentle and patient with her emotions. Her heart is in the right place and she just needs to be certain that you’re deserving of her love. She might seem tough and intimidating but she’s really a sweet soul, so be sure that once she knows that you’re the right person for her, she’ll love you with her whole being.

If You Leave, You’ll Take Away The Best Part of Me

I can feel that you’re slowly letting go of the relationship that we built. I feel it in my bones that you aren’t with me like you used to be. And I want you to know that I’m sorry I couldn’t be the one to win your heart forever.

You were once the person I turned to for everything and now I find myself alone. I am enduring this emotional turmoil on my own and I really don’t know how we went from being so in love to being like complete strangers. I reach for you but you aren’t reaching back and that breaks my heart to pieces.

Goodbye seems like a foreign word that was exchanged between others, not us. You haven’t said it yet but I can feel that what we have is no longer what your heart craves and desires.

I want you to know how much it does hurt me to come to terms with your change of heart. Knowing that I couldn’t be enough and that I somehow let you down breaks me. I wanted so badly to be your forever love.

All you’ve ever done is bring out the best in me and you deserve the same. You’ve made me the happiest version of myself and I love you so much for that. Why couldn’t I make you as happy as you made me?

I’ll change my ways if it means saving us.

Even the mere thought of losing you is enough to motivate me to change and be the person that your heart needs. But I know it’s not that simple. I can’t force love. I am who I am and even if I think that I have the power to change our reality, I know that’s not a possibility, but still…

I’m begging you to not give up on me.

Please give me one more chance to prove that maybe it’s possible to be each other’s other half. You’ve never given up on me before, so please, don’t start now.

I’m not ready to lose you. If I ever had to live a life without you, I think I’d lose part of myself in the process.

You haven’t left yet but I already miss you.

Conversations have grown short and texts are going unanswered. Tears are wept in the late hours of the night, where the only place you meet me now is in my dreams. I wake up and stare into the darkness, looking at a phone that has nothing new to say.

I’m completely heartbroken. I didn’t know someone’s absence could affect another human the way you have affected me. But I’m hurting.

It’s almost like I’m drowning, trying to come up for air but it’s being denied to me. That’s what it feels like being without you.

Everyone tries to make me feel better but there isn’t anyone who can or will ever take your place.

You are the kindest, most compassionate, most honest person I’ve had the privilege of knowing and parting ways will truly break me.

I always said that I don’t deserve you and there was always a mutual respect there because you used to say the same thing to me. But suddenly, it’s like everything has changed. I’m trying so hard to save us and I just can’t prevent you from walking away.

When I lose you, I know I’ll also be losing the best part of me.