How You Know You’ve Met Your Twin Flame

The twin flame, also called the mirror soul, is one of the most unique types of connections someone can find. Meeting your twin flame is like meeting another part of your soul. This is based on the idea that one soul can be split into two bodies, which makes meeting your twin flame overwhelmingly special and sometimes a little scary.

I’ve met my twin flame. Prior to it, I didn’t really believe in anything more than a relationship soul mate and a friend soul mate. The thought of the same soul in different people seemed a little unrealistic. When I really think about it logically, it still doesn’t really make sense. But, after finding my twin flame, I can say that that kind of connection is 100% real. Here’s how I knew, and how you can know, too.

You’ll feel like you’re home.

This is usually a feeling you develop over time, the more you feel comfortable with the person. But, with your twin flame, you’ll be able to look at them and know that you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be in that moment – and that’s with them.

You’ll feel overwhelmingly comfortable.

What would take weeks or even months of “getting-to-know-you’s” is diminished and you’ll find that there’s an instant comfortability that can only be achieved by being connected on a different level. Since you’re part of the same soul, you already know each other, in a way.

You’ll have insane similarities.

My twin flame and I have the same hobbies, personality traits, senses of humor, career goals… We have the same ways of dealing with conflict, trying to understand others, and letting feelings dictate how we live our lives. It’s truly like looking in a mirror.

You’ll complement each other.

Your personalities will go hand-in-hand perfectly. You’ll understand each others’ senses of humor instantly. The way you work through problems and find solutions will help each other immensely since you’re already on the same wavelength.

You’ll keep coming back to each other.

Like two magnets, the connection you have will always bring you back together over and over and over again. Whether it’s for short periods or long lengths, you’ll pop in and out of each others’ lives exactly when you need them. And, the times you are apart, you can rest assured knowing that there’s another part of you out there in the universe, and you’ve found them.

You’ll be able to read each others’ minds and feelings.

Like a supernatural feeling, you’ll be able to look at your twin flame and know exactly what they’re feeling and why – probably because you’re feeling the same thing, too. With other people that aren’t your twin flame, that ability can take a long time. But, with your twin flame, the feeling and understanding are already there.

The whole idea of finding a twin flame doesn’t make sense until it’s happened to you. You may sound crazy to other people when you try to describe it, and that’s understandable. Unless you’ve met your mirror soul or twin flame, it’s impossible to understand. But, if you have found your twin flame, you know what it’s like to meet another part of yourself – the same soul, just in a different person. It’s a little spooky and definitely confusing, but the feeling is unmatched.

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All The Ways That He Makes Me Feel Special

With Valentine’s Day looming, it got me thinking about all the ways he makes me feel special all year long. 

He tells me he loves me

I am so lucky to get endless messages telling me how proud he is of me. That he has made it safe to wherever he is going and that he loves me. He tells me that I work so hard, and that he is in awe of that. He talks about all the things I do and I see that he is proud. I have heard him talk about me when I’m not in the room and I can hear the love coming from his voice. 

His surprises

It’s not everyday but he shows me that he’s thinking of me in so many ways. He brings me lunch when he knows I have had a hard day and the last thing that I wanna do is make food. He sees little things like my refills for my Burt’s bee pop socket. He finds gifs that make me smile. He know how to make me slow down and bring me back to reality.  

Date Night

He is always down for a date night. He’s always down for my ideas for date night. Whether it’s a family date where we all go for a walk in the park, or we are having date night in he is down to go get our favorite dinner and snuggle up on the couch. He is even willing to get dressed and head out with me if that’s what I want. He still puts the effort in and that’s all that matters. It’s one of the many ways he shows me how much he cares. 

He’s willing to make my store runs for me

Having a busy girlfriend isn’t easy. It means that there are times that I have to relay on him to make my store runs for me. Whether I’m at work and he has to make a Target run for tampons or I need him to hit the grocery store because I just cannot go back out again and we need chicken he’s right there. 

Snuggle time

Snuggling with no strings. Which usually leads to me falling asleep. Let’s be real sometimes we just need to cuddle and feel safe. I have to say my man is amazing in this department. He usually knows that I need him, and he is happy to oblige. He turns a movie on and wraps his arms around me and before you know it I’m asleep. I usually wake up to him smiling down at me. It’s the best feeling in the world. 

None of these things are earth shattering. None of these things are life changing, except that they are. These are the things he does mostly on a daily basis to show me that he loves me. Maybe that is why I don’t need a holiday to celebrate our love! 

Happy Valentine’s Day C, I love you. But don’t get me anything! Let’s celebrate our love everyday instead! 

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7 Ways To Tell You’ve Finally Found That ‘Forever’ Kind Of Love

When we fall in love with someone, we always want them to be the “end all, be all” of our life. We don’t want to think about every playing the field again, we never want to think about the “dating scene” again–we just want this to be the “forever” kind of love. How do you know, though? How are you able to realize that the person you are with is the person you should be with forever? It’s hard to say. Everyone’s life is incredibly different (in many ways), but there are some universal feelings, lessons, and realizations that you can have while falling in love that makes you stop and realize–”wow, I can truly see myself spending the rest of my life with this person.”

 

1. You completely trust them, with no strings attached.

When you fall in love with someone, you’re allowing yourself to be vulnerable and open to someone. We’re allowing ourselves to risk being hurt, heartbroken, and devastated if things don’t go as planned. We’re essentially putting our emotional wellbeing and souls into another person’s hands. That’s truly an action that requires the utmost trust and value. If you’re unsure whether or not you can trust your partner, there’s no reason to even picture a future together. You should feel comfortable and at ease when it comes to your life together.

You should never wonder what they’re doing when they’re out if they’re talking to someone else, if they’re texting someone they shouldn’t be. If you ever feel the inclination you should go through their phone, texts, emails, social media–you’re not with the person you deserve to be with. The person you are meant to be with will never, ever give you a reason not to trust them. They will always be honest with you, open with you, and give you every single solitary reason to trust them. If you are uneasy about your love now, think about feeling this way as you get older–with kids involved. You should never live your life on the edge with someone.

 

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