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5 Things No One Tells You About Moving In With Your Significant Other

From sharing expenses to always having someone who loves and supports you by your side, living with your partner can have plenty of benefits for both of your lives. And considering the financial and emotional hardships we were forced to endure during the coronavirus pandemic, more couples are now moving in together than ever. However, not everyone might be aware of all the implications of such an important step. Living with your partner represents a significant new chapter in your lives, which is why you should think about all possible aspects before finally deciding to take the leap.

 

To that end, here are some important things no one will tell you about moving in with your partner you should take into consideration:

 

1. Your reasons for moving in should be clear

Before making such a big step, it might be wise to consider your reasons for wanting to move in with your partner first. When it comes to younger couples living in larger cities, most of them decide to move in together primarily in an effort to save on rent, especially after the economic uncertainty of the pandemic, only to later realize that they weren’t quite ready to take their relationship to that level.

To prevent such an occurrence, it might be a good idea to consider your motivations, especially if you’re in quite a fresh relationship. If you know your partner, as well as their friends and family, very well, if you already have some shared routines established, if you feel fully comfortable with your significant other, and if you truly want to invest in a relationship with them, then moving in together is the only logical next step.

 

2. Your finances have to be openly discussed

Having a conversation about finances in advance is another aspect of moving in together that shouldn’t be overlooked, as it’s vital for your shared future. So, start by talking to your partner about your budget for the move itself, and then decide how you would like to pay the rent, monthly bills, as well as any other shared daily expenses.

It might also be wise to talk about combining (or not combining) your incomes, as well as possibly opting for savings together, or even investments you’d like to make in your new home. Don’t forget to have a conversation about the general way in which you budget and spend your salaries either, as coming to an agreement on spending habits might help prevent any future money issues and arguments.

 

3. Professional help will be necessary for the move

Once you’ve found an ideal place and talked things over with your partner, the next step would be to finally move in together. However, considering all the challenging aspects of moving for the first time, such as careful planning and organization, you might require the help of professionals who will take care of these stressful tasks for you, while being mindful of the safety implications of the current pandemic situation.

 

This becomes especially important when moving to a more distant location, as doing your research and hiring a reliable long distance moving service might be the only way to ensure the safe transportation of your items. What’s more, having professionals who can not only move your belongings, but also help to pack and carry any essentials, will undoubtedly relieve some of the moving day stress, allowing both you and your partner to feel more positive about the entire experience.

 

4. The overall look of your home should be talked about

After you’ve managed to seamlessly move in thanks to professional help, the next chapter of your life begins. Now is the ideal time to start talking to your partner about how you imagine the life in your home to look like, from the interior decor to the food you eat, and even the way you will celebrate future holidays.

Don’t be afraid to go into the smaller details either, such as tackling the issue of taking the shoes off at the entrance or deciding how often you will deep clean your home. Agreeing on these aspects isn’t only important for a harmonious relationship, but also for your health and wellbeing, especially during such an uncertain time as the pandemic.

 

5. You must have a conversation about future expectations

The final aspect to consider might be the most important of all, and that is the future of your relationship. Is getting married and having children one of your priorities? Do you have a good healthcare and support plan set in place in case the pandemic affects you and your partner?

 

Discussing your future expectations and a potential timeline for your relationship is incredibly important. This will allow you to make compromises, come to certain conclusions, and create a clearer picture of your future, allowing you to be on the same page when starting a new life together.

 

While the process of moving in with your partner for the first time might be filled with unexpected circumstances, the tips mentioned above will allow you to prepare ahead of time, and turn your move into a smooth and pleasant experience.

6 Unbelievably Fun Ways for Couples to Save Money

It’s no surprise that saving money isn’t easy. Unplanned expenses somehow always arise, the value of the dollar is consistently dropping, and hey, Chipotle is just always on point. How can we compete with that?

Unfortunately, saving money is a must, especially for young people in college looking to come out with a mountain of debt. (Yay us, right?) And we all know that being in a relationship means a full heart, but an empty wallet.

All the dates in an attempt to “woo” one another, the over-the-top anniversary presents, and the first vacation together – it costs A LOT to be coupled up.

But that doesn’t mean you can’t save money just as efficiently. Can you believe that it may just be fun? Here are six different ways for you and your honey to start expanding that bank account.

  1. Keep a sex jar

    The more you smash, the more you save! The sex jar works like this: every time you bang, give oral, or whatever turns you guys on (that’s just not my business), put a dollar, or whatever you choose, into your jar. The extent of your sexual activity will certainly determine the amount of your savings. However, it may just be the most fun way to hold on to a couple bucks!

  1. Go on less expensive dates

    Well, wait a second, Megan, I’m obsessed with that extremely overpriced steakhouse downtown. Are you saying I can’t go there now? Nope, I’m definitely not trying to deprive you of that porterhouse. However, it can get costly if you’re getting it more than a just a few times in a given month. Don’t get me wrong, a nice expensive treat is my favorite thing too, but I challenge you to widen your horizons and seek out some different date night ideas.

    Maybe hiking, hitting the state park, or having a picnic is the way to go sometimes. Our dinner dates get boring after a while (or is that just me?), and who doesn’t like to change it up every now and then? If it means more moolah in your pocket, why not give it a shot? The possibilities are endless!

  1. Move in together

    If you’re in a committed, long-term relationship, it may be wise to consider moving in together. It’s not only a huge step for the both of you, it could save you money in the long run! Think about how much you each are paying in rent each month. If you split the rent of one place, you’d already be saving a bunch. That’s not to mention, that you only need to pay one internet and cable bill now. *Is cable still a thing?

  1. Eat at home

    Instead of your fancy steak dinner, yeah I’m bringing that up again, trying cooking a homemade meal together! That means more bonding time for you (and finally learning how to cook), and less dough wasted. (See what I did there?) Buying food at the grocery store is so much cheaper than eating out, and it’s healthier too! Bring this idea to the table and see what you can come up with. You never know how creative you can get with your home-style dishes until you try it. Maybe there will even be a food fight.

  1. Go thrifting/DIY together

    I love buying things second hand. It gives my home some history, which I love. Know what I also love? Less cash spent on virtually the same thing at Home Goods. (It’s really not as cheap as people say.) Thrifting can become a great hobby for you and your significant other. Saturday and Sunday mornings are primetime to find great pieces (furniture, clothing, and other useful things) for next to nothing.

    If you’re not totally into the “new to me” feel, there are still other things you can DIY to save money. Pinterest has a billion and one ideas for DIY household cleaners, make-up remover wipes, and essentially everything else. At the beginning it may not seem like you’re saving money, but trust me, if you keep up with it, it will pay off!

  1. Limit your air conditioner/heater use

    I promise I’m not crazy, just hear me out. Cutting back on your electricity/gas use can save you up to a hundred dollars a month! Doesn’t that sound wonderful? I get that it’s super hot out right now. (Literally, even Maryland is a nightmare.) But, some smart bastard created fans, which suck way less energy – so crank ‘em up! If you still can’t handle the heat, who says clothes are mandatory? Walking around naked is not only super empowering, it can save you money!  Another way you can start saving at home is by going solar. Adding solar power to your home can help offset your monthly utility costs, allowing you to save thousands of dollars over the lifetime of your solar energy system.

    Flip-side, because in just a few months we are going to be frozen over again, having less heat in the house just means you have a license to cuddle 24/7. Uhm, hello?! Sign me up, already!

The fact that money rules the world sucks, but at least saving it can be made into some fun. I hope you try to incorporate one of these into your daily money saving plan, because real budgets are for adults!

(It’s going to be the sex jar one, isn’t it?)

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17 Annoying Things About Sharing A Bathroom

Having to live with other people whether it’s roommates, family, or lovers, can be an interesting experience in a good way or an incredibly annoying way.

Sharing a bathroom leans a whole lot more on the irritable side:

  1. Waiting to use it, especially when you need to get to work and the person is taking eons in there. Even more annoying is when its completely silent in there as if the bathroom has become a yoga practice room.
  2. But you can’t stay in there too long yourself because there’s always someone waiting for you. So basically, you can’t win.
  3. The toilet seat being left up and having to constantly put it down. Yes, because other people don’t happen to live here. Maybe a programmable toilet seat that shuts on its own is the only way to spare yourself from this annoyance and topic of weekly arguments!
  4. When someone forgets to flush and you have to see bodily fluids you’d rather not see. At all. Ever. It’s almost like a form of torture. The image never leaves.
  5. When there’s no toilet paper and you didn’t notice until you used the toilet. There is no greater struggle.
  6. When a new roll is left on top of the handle for the roll instead of in it and you wonder how laziness has gone this far.
  7. When someone puts water in the liquid soap bottle when it’s running out as if that’s going to make it anymore useful. Just buy a new one.
  8. When the toilet clogs…and its left like that. Who knew you were secretly a plumber on demand?
  9. When there’s enough hair in the sink to make a full wig – which is impressive when you think about it.
  10. When you sit on someone else’s piss and you don’t know what’s worse, the fact that they didn’t bother to wipe the damn toilet seat or how much they missed their target?
  11. When the floor looks like a mud pit and you can’t figure out what’s a bug and what’s a deadly bio hazard.
  12. When people don’t clean up after themselves and the mess they make causes you wonder why its legal for them to share bathrooms in the first place.
  13. Having to wash the bathroom which in itself sucks for plenty of reasons, the biggest one is knowing how quickly it’ll get dirty again.
  14. When someone leaves their dirty underwear on the floor and you have to fight the urge to pull your hair out.
  15. When the bathroom mirror is so stained, you can’t even see your own reflection. Are they using a toothbrush or a sprinkler?
  16. When the floor is an ocean after someone takes a shower and you wonder if they’re secretly a mermaid.
  17. When you find out the reason why someone is taking so long in the bathroom is because they’re on their phone while using the bathroom. I mean, why?
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