A Douchebag Doesn’t Have the Power to Crush Your Faith in Love

Faith Challenged

I know right now you feel broken.You think you are broken beyond repair and can’t see ever being in love again. The thought of being treated right and loved is unimaginable at the moment.

Right now, you can’t see past the pain of the present but I promise you, everything is going to be okay.

Someone broke you in the past, but that doesn’t change the present or future. You can’t keep sulking in your own sadness because a worthless guy wasn’t smart enough to see how great you are.You still have the potential to find love and have a successful life.

You cannot let some nobody lower your self-esteem and leave you feeling like you aren’t good enough. Don’t base your worth off how someone treated you in the past. You deserve better than that.

So keep your chin up, life is going to get better. You are not alone, heartbreak is a universal. We all know how much it hurts.

It Takes a Big-Hearted Man to Love a Broken-Hearted Girl

 

Let me be the first to say, loving a girl whose heart is broken, whose been torn between two worlds, it will not be easy and probably will be the hardest thing to do. 

 

Sometimes giving up seems like the best option because you feel like the fight of winning someone’s love that you don’t think you will ever get isn’t even worth all the stress that comes along.

 

Giving up should never be an option, in fact, take that thought completely out of your mind, and think of all the times she’s been given up on, all the times you and her have been let down. Do you want to be another mark in her past for the reason she’s just a little more broken, a little harder to get close to?

 

Trying to love someone with a broken heart is an extremely hard thing to do sometimes.

 

I’m Not Afraid of Falling in Love, I Just Can’t Handle Another Let Down

I Am Not Afraid Of Love

I’ve had my heart broken more times than I can count by now. I’ve been in my fair share of bad relationships, and I’ve felt the world shatter each and every time they did. That’s why when I think about starting all over again and getting back into dating, I become overwhelmed with anxiety.

My walls go up and I buy books on how to overcome being paralyzed by this overwhelming fear. I start to hyperventilate at just the thought. So how am I ever supposed to give my heart to anyone ever again? How do I even start to try?

It’s not that I’m scared of love, in fact, I would give anything to feel love again. But I’m not sure it feels the same way about me.

What I’m scared of is the heartbreak, I’m scared of the lies, I’m scared of the inevitable tears and the endless pain it’ll cause me if I do. I don’t ever want to feel that vulnerable again.

I’m scared of being just another girl who doesn’t really matter and will never a priority to anyone. And I’m scared of once again giving my heart to someone who doesn’t appreciate or even want it.

I’m tired of putting myself out there only to find more disappointment.

I’m tired of constantly giving and never getting anything in return. There has to be more than this empty feeling, but how much more do I have to suffer before I eventually find it?

I’m scared of ending up with just another selfish, self-absorbed asshole who claims to want a relationship but isn’t actually willing to make the effort to have one. Why should I have to put in all the effort when it’s only going to bite me in the ass in the end?

I don’t want to end up once again broken and crying myself to sleep every single night.

I’m tired of giving someone else the power to make me feel like garbage.

I just finally found myself again from the last time and put the pieces back together. I’m finally starting to feel whole again. Is it really worth the risk of losing all that again?

So, I’m not scared of falling in love. I’m just scared of the hurt that comes with it.

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