Interracial Love Is Beautiful…But Challenging….Still!

Over the years I have seen people looking at me a certain way, and most cases looked uncomfortable too.

 

Even had a guy who I talked with in high school said, “stick to your own race”, of course I didn’t listen, because I have been a strong advocate for interracial love. It is a beautiful thing. And fact is, so many who have such closed minds tend to want everything separated too when it comes to black and white… still.

 

It wasn’t acceptable to me from the get go, because growing up in a predominately white neighborhood and town in general, I found myself automatically attracted to white girls, as well as Hispanics. Although it made me feel good to know that I have always had overwhelming support from my family, it came with a price as well.

 

It was hard to tell who approved, and who was just trying to keep their mouths shut. It got a little easier since people are more open about their disapproval now than it was about 10 years ago.

 

7 Struggles of Dating Interracially

Okay guys, it’s time to talk about interracial dating. Dating is already confusing enough with the growing number of new dating apps, the hookup culture, and the constant new ways to label or not label relationships.

 

However, what happens when we throw race into the mix? Believe it or not, interracial couples can face unique obstacles that no one talks about; myself included.

Let’s dive in!

 

1. The Approach.

Like it or not, not everyone is into interracial dating.  This causes hesitation for potential partners to approach you due to fear of rejection. Just keep smiling and don’t be afraid to break the ice.

 

2. So Called “Compliments”.

Ladies and Gentlemen, saying you’re cute for a “insert race here” is not a compliment. You are basically saying, ‘Normally I don’t think other people in your race are attractive, but I guess you’re the exception.’ Not cool. Please, stop.

 

3. Stereotypes.  

“Sorry, I don’t like rap music and I don’t know how to twerk.” Yes, all cultures and ethnicities carry stereotypes and biases about other groups of people. However, instead of assuming that everyone from a culture is what we see in the media, get to know them.

Find out all of their quirks and interests. I know its cliché, but you really can’t judge a book by its cover. They may surprise you.

 

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