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I Can Feel It in My Bones, That’s How I Know It’ll Always Be You

You. It’s such a complex and meaningful word. And to each individual person it can mean multitudes of things. It varies from person to person and experience to experience.

But when I think of the word you, I am overwhelmed with so much love.

Not long ago I was thoroughly convinced that love was an absolute joke and I had wasted all of my time. I was certain that happiness and contentment were so far out of my reach. And so I settled for the mundane. And then you became a part of my vocabulary.

 

At first, it was so subtle. I had no idea that you were going to change everything. I wasn’t looking for you at all, but you found me anyway.

The coincidences were too great, and so I began to believe that this was somehow fated to be.

As I poured out my soul to you, I realized it was the first time I hadn’t been scared of the truth. Looking into your eyes, I was able to own up to every mistake and stupid decision I made.

But after finding you, I’m not so sure they were mistakes. Every decision I made, no matter how big or small it seemed, lead me to this exact place. And I wholeheartedly believe that I was supposed to find you.

I had spent so many years chasing things that were not meant for me, and only now can I understand why every single one of them fell apart.

My heart is damaged, and a small part of me will always be broken. But you know that, and you choose me anyway.

You look at me as if I am a constellation, and you’ve never seen stars. And though it terrifies me, it also makes me feel whole again.

You value me, even when I don’t value myself. You tell me the honest truth, even when I don’t want to hear it. And you are constant, in an ever changing world.

You are so much more than what I could have dreamed up. I have struggled so long with finding somewhere to call home and finding somewhere that I belong. I realize now that it’s not a place. It’s you.

This unspoken peace crashes over me every time I look at you, and I know that no matter where I am, I will be coming home to you for the rest of my life.

You are the greatest blessing I have ever received, and I’ve never been so grateful for anything in my whole life.

 

A Guide to Choosing A Mattress For Couples

Choosing A Mattress Together

There are few things that are more essential to the health and well-being of a couple than sleep. If you have problems sleeping you could find that this translates into problems in your daily life and your relationship. As sleep is important for proper functioning it is important that you have a mattress which is comfortable and sturdy. To ensure that you are getting the right mattress you need to consider certain factors.

 

Things To Consider Before Buying

One of the points to consider before buying is that there is enough space. While this may seem like an obvious point, couples should be sleeping on queen or king-sized beds and not doubles. Most couples will start with a full-size mattress, but this is actually too narrow for 2 people and will result in disturbances during the night. These disturbances from movement can reduce the duration and frequency of deep sleep which is something that you need.

So, If your kiddos and your pets tend to climb into your bed leaving you no room, you may consider buying a mattress that’s larger than a king size. Yes, they do exist!

You and your partner should also have a discussion about what you both need from your new mattress. Your new mattress is one of the most important buys of your new home and both of you will need to be comfortable with it. You should consider how soft or firm the mattress needs to be. It is important that you find a common happiness before you buy the bed.

But before anything else, you need to have a budget in mind. Although crucial for your sleep health and overall well-being, a mattress shouldn’t break the bank. The best you can do is look for an affordable mattress taking into consideration the type of material, firmness, sleeping positions, etc.

If you are unable to agree then you will need to compromise. If you want a soft bed while your partner wants a firm on you will need to look at other options. It is possible to get a mattress that is plush firm, cushion firm or medium firm. There are also some mattresses that offer different firmness on the two sides. Of course, the most economical option would be to get a mattress pad for one side of the bed.

 

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