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7 Dating Mistakes To Avoid In 2020 So Your Love Life Isn’t God Awful Again

Let’s face it—2018 wasn’t the best year for everyone when it comes to love. There are so many times we’ve made mistakes: we’ve drunk texted our ex to rekindle the flame only to be burned twice as hard, we’ve broken up with people we realized we should have never pushed out of our lives, and we’ve isolated ourselves from finding true love because we have a sour outlook on dating overall.

Whatever the reason your love life took a bad left turn this year, it doesn’t mean that you’re doomed forever. In fact, there are so many opportunities and ways to fix your broken romance cycle this coming year, and we’re here to help you out.

1. Not being honest.

This is not only for yourself, but the person you are dating as well. We all have a gut instinct when it comes to anything in life and you need to be honest with yourself when your gut is speaking to you. Stop ignoring your guy and lying to yourself that your gut isn’t trying to tell you something; because it is. Be honest with how you really feel about the person you are with. Something in a relationship things starts out great in the beginning but after a few months, it’s not the same relationship. That is okay but it is important to be honest with yourself if you are staying in a relationship you don’t want to be in.

2. Chasing love that you truly know will never be yours.

Guilty as charged. A lot of us are. It is a natural behavior to chase after something you know that you can’t have or know isn’t right for you. That is a phase that you will eventually fall out of. “Chasing after someone that is not attainable will get old fast and wasting your time doing that will prevent you from chasing someone that is meant to be yours. Yes, the chase is fun every once and a while; and no one likes it when a relationship is easy. Things are boring that way, but it is very important to make sure you are chasing after someone that is attainable in the end. Time wasted is never satisfying.

3. Showing aggressive behavior towards the other person and the relationship you are trying to build.

A.K.A. coming on too strong, forcing the relationship too quickly, stalking the person’s every move after you first meet etc….All behaviors that are unnatural and will prove that you are too crazy to be with before a real relationship can actually blossom. You also can not force a relationship to happen. It just never works out that way. By engaging in aggressive behaviors that try to force a relationship you will just push the relationship back further from ever being a serious thing.

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Guy’s Tattoo Of His Ex Gets A Glorious ‘Makeover’ After They Split

In life, one of the biggest lessons one can learn is tattooing someone else’s name on your body is a bad idea. No matter how much you love someone, and how much you want to be together, it’s not always a promise that you “love” will be forever. Over and over again we see people running to the tattoo shop, begging their artists to cover up their “poor decisions.”

Sometimes, we can fix it.

But, sometimes we try to fix them and they come out awful.

We can try to be funny.

Like, really funny.

But, we all know that they’ve left their “mark” on us.

But, there is no one who has done a better “ex” coverup than this one person who turned his ex-wife into a glorious, brilliant, wonderful devil.

Not only did he go through the pain, trouble, time, and money of sitting through this ink session (that had to be a lot of shading for that color red), but, he thought about this a lot. His ex-wife must have been a hell of a woman to deserve this. Brilliant, absolutely brilliant.

And, while we’re on the subject of stupid people doing stupid things—like getting their lovers tattooed on their bodies—enjoy these horrible/funny/brilliant coverups.

Maybe you’ve learned your lesson now?

OOPS is right.

Nice touch.

Yup, sh*t happens.

Nul.

Clearly not the biggest.

Nice try, guy.

Seems to be a trend.

Well, that’s awkward.

Woman Accidentally Wears Singing Panties To Work And It Went As Well As You Can Expect

We all make mistakes when we’re running out to work, exhausted, and just trying to make it through the day. I’ve lost track of how many times I’ve worn two different socks because I’m half asleep and struggling to get out on time. For many of us, wearing the wrong thing is as simple as “oops, these pants definitely don’t match this shirt.” But, for one woman, her wardrobe mistake was quite embarrassing when she accidentally wore singing underwear to work.

Lisa shared the story on Twitter of how at work in a dentist office, she wore a pair of underwear her ex-boyfriend, Adam, had given her years ago—not knowing they were “musical panties.”

Lisa said that the music played right out of her crotch—when her patient’s head was only inches away.

Embarrassed, she tried to blame it on her phone ringing—but, let’s be real, she definitely felt it.

She decided to completely get rid of the underwear altogether, to prevent any further “mistakes.”

Could you imagine?!?

She decided to share the hilarious story on Twitter because don’t we all love embarrassing ourselves online?

She also shared that she and Adam had broken up years ago, but threw the underwear on because—well, it’s a pair of underwear.

And, she explained she had no idea that the underwear was “singing panties” because they look like completely normal underwear.

Here’s what they look like:

Honestly, this has to be the funniest “accidental” mix-up there is. We hope Lisa threw those panties away for good.