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12 Signs You’re A Low-Drama Person

Those who are low-drama understand the insanity that is drama. It’s not that we tolerate it, it’s that we avoid it at all costs.

You can say that it’s even a matter of life and death for us. Just kidding…not really:

  1. You’d rather smuggle drugs in your ass to Europe, than confront people. You won’t admit it out loud of course, but you’re always thinking it.
  2. When you do have to confront someone, you plan it all out in your head…instead of having to avoid it all together, potentially dragging the drama on.
  3. And if you have to cut someone from your life, it’s a code red situation…because you must cut the drama immediately before it grows.
  4. You have an escape route for when someone is rude to you…because hell hath no fury than a barista scorned.
  5. You don’t even like drama on television. Every time characters get into it on Scandal, you get mad uncomfortable. Why can’t they all just love each other?
  6. When you’re involved in drama, Armageddon has come early…because you have no idea how in the world you got into this and you can’t believe people voluntarily go through this fresh hell every day.
  7. You’re either the middle man during family fights or your the person who mysteriously vanishes. If you’re not preventing your mom from ripping your sister’s head off, you’re locked in your room wondering why we can’t all get the f*ck along.
  8. You’re the calmest drunk in your group of friends…because someone has to stop those tedious drunk fights in the club.
  9. You know the inevitable signs of incoming drama. You’re an expert on facial expressions and certain phrases such as what did you just say to me? or you ain’t gonna tell me, and the popular, bitch!
  10. You can smell drama magnet people a mile away. It’s almost like a superhero sense.
  11. Making a scene might as well be a phobia. It’s such a terrifying thing to you. All those eyes on you, all those ears hearing your business *shudders.*
  12. You’re great at keeping secrets…but you really wish people didn’t entrust you with them not because you can’t be trusted with them, but because they’re laced with drama and you’re just not about that life.

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8 Advantages of Dating the Drama-Free Girl

Find yourself a drama-free girl and you’ll have the benefit of a nice, simple relationship. Simple relationships are the best relationships. They’re chill, easygoing and so laid back they’re basically horizontal.

There’s no drama, no bickering, no reading between the lines, and this is what makes them the strongest relationships around.

1. You’re down to be boring.

You don’t always want to go out and party. Some of the best nights you have together are when you stay in, raid Netflix for something mindless and snuggle your goddamn brains out.

That’s not to say there isn’t a time and a place for body shots and beer bongs, but bad movies and makeout sessions win nine times out of ten.

2. You know when to let things slide.

Easygoing relationships are just that: easy. There’s no nagging, no bickering, no one-upmanship and no needless conflict. There’s no need to pick your battles because there are no battles to take part in.

Sure, you might not agree on certain subjects, but you respect that difference and contrasting opinions let you broaden your own horizons.

3. ‘Yes’ is your first response to basically everything.

Rock climbing in the Appalachians? Sure. Impromptu trip to Mexico? Let’s go for it. Sex seminar in a healing retreat? Fuck yeah, let’s learn some knowledge.

Even if it takes you out your comfort zone, it doesn’t faze you. Maybe it’ll tank, maybe you’ll learn you’re just not into some things, but you’re always willing to give it a go as a couple.

4. You always trust each other’s judgment.

You know they’ve got your back and they only look out for your best interests. You’re a team and if you’re both going to win at life, you’re going to win at it together.

So if they suggest something a little out of the ordinary, you go for it regardless, and vice versa, because you know they’ve never steered you wrong and they aren’t going to start now.

5. You can be your silly self.

Everyone has a silly side, but we’re all a little self conscious and embarrassed to admit that we like to crawl upstairs like a majestic Bengal tiger, or our Saturday mornings still consist of sugary cereal and Spongebob Squarepants.

With them, you can show every ridiculous side that you possess; you don’t feel awkward sharing that side of yourself, ‘cos in all honesty they usually just join in with you.

6. You’re not always trying to impress.

Of course you’re always going to big up your achievements, and they’re going to want to share your success with you, but there is no pressure to brag or flaunt. You don’t need to drop how much money you’re making or previous sexual exploits into conversation – they aren’t with you for that. They love you for who you are, not for who you pretend to be.

7. You don’t have to read between the lines.

Passive aggressiveness isn’t an issue in your relationship. You don’t have to interpret what they say or use your friends as translators to analyze a passing comment.

What is said, is said – with no confusion or hidden meaning. This keeps it simple; it keeps it easy but most importantly it keeps it honest.

8. You ask for what you want.

You don’t have to be afraid of being bold. Maybe they won’t go for the idea, but they aren’t going be offended. Your input matters just as much as theirs and any suggestions or requests are welcomed – not attacked.

This means you can riff off each other, play around with ideas, and come to a conclusion together – and that makes your relationship a helluva lot more fun.

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