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First off, getting creative like this is a huge bonus in your life with your partner. If you and your partner are this fun and wild, then your relationship is great, and keeping the sex and adventure is in full force.

Sex is fun, but when you spice it up and add new locations into the already adventurous cycle, it is going to be mind-blowing. There is some careful planning that needs to be worked out. You need to make sure you are carrying all the essentials! When it is “go time”, you and your partner can get freaky, and have sex – but also keep from getting caught.

1. Different Types of Beaches

When you get to the desired location, the first thing you and your loved one should do is scout out the location. Beaches are all different. Some of the beaches are going to be a bit rockier, and some might even have a nearby cliff. I used to live on a beach that was sandy, but it also had cliffs nearby that were close enough that if an ambitious couple wanted to have sex, all they had to do was go around the rocks.

Of course, those with binoculars from the condos above the cliff could get the view of a lifetime, but anyone else would not be able to see a thing. From time to time you would see couples come from that area, but no one would flat out ask them if they were having sex over there. Check the little areas that seem slightly private, and you should also check out where most of the people tend to hang out. You can check into beach tents.

You might find a beach tent that is available for rent. The larger beaches always have beach equipment that can be rented by the day or hour.

2. The Time of Day

Obviously, if you and your partner are thinking of a nighttime fuck-a-thon on the beach, then that is almost a no-brainer, but you still should watch for a few things.

This may sound silly, but paying attention to high/low tide is highly recommended. That can not only ruin the mood, but all the items you may have brought to the beach will wash away, not to mention sand in places that sand should never be found.

Once you figure out what time of the day you plan on having your sexy sand date. Planning what to bring is going to be a very important next step.

3. Sand Sex Attire

The fun part of planning this is, really there isn’t a great deal that is going into this process. The most important part of fucking in the sand is making sure sand does NOT go into your partner’s vagina. That will instantly ruin the trip. You should bring a good-sized towel or blanket.

All of the intercourse needs to be on the towel or blanket, otherwise, just think of a very uncomfortable time that might need medical attention if an infection occurs.

As sexy and hot as it sounds with waves and sand all over your partner’s body like the movies portray sex in the sand, the reality is sand will totally fuck up your sexy time. An easy outfit for your woman in the sand for sexy time is a long sun dress. She will be able to wear no panties. All you have to do is hold the dress up.

4. Sexy Sand Positions

Since sand in the vagina is the major no-no you should think of some new positions or ways to please each other. A blow job is the easiest way to have sex on the beach. All that is involved is dropping to knees and sucking. If a male is hoping for some oral fun, then there is a super-naughty way to have fun.

Bend your woman over, give her a tug on her hair, and begin licking from behind. This is very exciting and a turn-on, because you can get a great view of the hole you plan on sticking. You can lick her into bliss, then slip your cock in her vagina or ass. If you are going for a missionary style of sex, then you might consider rolling her ass up off the blanket, because you want to avoid any little bit of sand if possible.

The goal is to keep the vagina away from the sand!

Always watch for people that might be roaming the beach. Most of the time people keep to themselves, but you should always be scanning the area.

Night-time sex on the beach is going to be the easiest, but try to watch out for noise. If your partner is a screamer, you might have to shove something into her mouth to keep her quiet as she is having an orgasm. If the first time doesn’t work, try again. Hot beach sex is a super fantasy and should be tried at least once if possible.

Not all things that work the same way stay fun. Although you don’t need to worry about something unusual happening— it can be dull. Especially when we talk about sex, some of us will buy the best couples sex toys in the world just to have the most satisfying and exciting bedroom pleasures.

Many of us settle for the usual sex positions. However, there are many more of them that you can try with your partner. Afraid that they may not work for you? That’s fine. You can try all of these sex positions below until you find the most satisfying position that suits the both of you.

Legs on His Shoulders

This is something people shy away from, but it will change your game! This stance does not require crazy versatility, so if your partner supports you, it is helpful. This position is an intense one because it forces your thighs together, tightens, and convulses your vagina around the penis and thumbs.

The “G-Whiz” is nicknamed this position because it makes it too easy to hit your G-spot. Hopefully, this is top on your list to try tonight. Have your partner get as close to you as they can as a missionary, and then raise your legs and keep them up using their shoulders and chest. Indeed there’s no need to be a gymnast so that you can try this sex position.

The Famous Doggie Style

According to Dr. Jenni Skyler, Ph.D., a sex therapist, sexologist, and licensed marriage and family therapist for Adam & Eve. One of the best sex positions to try is the dog star or dog style, especially with a full-length mirror in front.

This position allows couples to oscillate back and forth from carnal energy, sometimes with eyes closed, enjoying the intensity of speed, this position enables intimate energy, with slower thrusting and eye contact in the mirror.

Oral Sex

This works for both giving and receiving oral sex. If you’re giving, have your partner lay on their side while you’re facing them. It could be at the bed’s edge or in the middle with you laying on your side as well. This could also entail every middle schooler’s favorite number, the 69 positions!

If you’re receiving, you could follow the same steps: lay on your side and have your partner come from the side.

This will look differently depending on your anatomy and the person you’re giving oral sex too, but the main focus here is switching perspectives. Hence, you’re not directly facing each other. We’re trying to change the angle to hit different parts of both the clitoris and penis, so keep that in mind as you’re trying this position. The views are also quite useful in this position, so both of you will be super turned on.

Sex on the Edge of the Bed

This position means your partner is standing next to the bed as you’re lying at the side. It is a new take on the missionary wherein the legs are at above the shoulders position. You can add here in the place of the legs-above-the-shoulders, or you can have your legs tucked into the chest, kept out in a “V” style, or whatever feels comfortable.

What’s nice about this position is that your partner is securely rooted in the field, so they can drive harder and more under control, which means quicker or slower, whichever you prefer!

Bridge

Through this position, you can achieve penetrative or oral sex. We all know what it feels like to have a glute bridge, right? Basically, in the traditional missionary situation, this position calls for holding a glute bridge. The elevation makes it easier for your lover to get deeper and place your pussy in another position.

This one also provides your mate (or you) with simple access to stimulate the clitoris, either penetrating or going down on you. All wins for everyone involved if you ask me.

Spooning

This is a lovely spot to try in the morning. Whether you’re having intercourse with a man or same-sex, you’ll want to be a tiny spoon, so whether you’re having penetrative finger sex, you might be a large or small spoon. This also makes it easy to get super close to your partner.

The penis or fingers come from a different angle, so it might feel different and more quickly touch your G-spot, woohoo on that! Also, here’s a tip: lift the top leg here as well if it’s better.

Takeaway

So there you have it! The best sex positions you can try that not only make him or her go crazy but also enhance you and your partner’s sexual pleasure. There’s nothing wrong with making a change to your boring sexual routine in bed. It will also help if you want to involve some exciting sex toys. So go ahead and try these tonight!

About The Author

Belinda is a 42-year-old married mother of three who lives in Naples, Florida. While staying at home to raise her children, she began to write articles and blogs for various outlets. She was raised in a strict, Christian home, but has since found more peace with a more spiritual approach to life and health. A strong believer in natural and alternative medicine, energy healing, and total wellness, she stumbled on the health benefits of orgasm quite by accident. Since then, she has often written pieces that help inform others about the benefits she discovered. Belinda also enjoys taking care of her home and family, and often jokes that she is a bit of a Stepford wife… with a wild side. In her free time, she loves to spend time at the beach with her family, host parties and BBQ’s, and work outside in one of her many flower gardens.

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