3 Reasons Why Your Man Doesn’t Want to Get Intimate Anymore

 

There are many reasons why men don’t speak about their emotions. But you won’t know those reasons because they’re not vocal about them.

You ask them if everything’s alright, they’ll nod their head and say yes. However, in the coming weeks, when you’ve been asking them if they want to cuddle, they say they’re tired or not feel like it. What’s up with that?

As far as you know, you haven’t done anything wrong to tick him off, so what can you do to get rid of his cold shoulder?

You have to realize that there might be underlying reasons he’s not responding to your verbal and physical cues.

Stress at Work

You might not notice when he comes home late at night, but he might be very stressed and overwhelmed by work.

Frequent meetings with clients and managing employees can take a toll on him, and he won’t even have the time to talk about it. So he comes into the room and plunges into his bed.

Over time, this routine can affect his physical and mental health. He might avoid talking to anyone altogether and instead choose to curl in a ball of loneliness.

In such a case, it’s best to decide on a specific time and catch him on the weekend, when he’s not busy with work. This way, you can get a clear idea about his inner turmoil and help him cope with his stressors.

Weight Issues

Sometimes stress at work can impact your partner’s eating habits. One night he can come home starving for a microwave pizza. Before he knows it, this eating pattern can become a regular habit.

As his weight increases, his confidence decreases. He won’t feel comfortable being naked with you and resort to hiding himself. Especially since he looked like a Greek god before his weight gain, it would affect him significantly.

It’s crucial to point out that his weight impacts his libido, but not mock or degrade him. Hurtful words can only make matters worse, and you’ll be doing more damage than good.

You can cook some healthy meals for him or pack a few snacks and remind him to take a break and make time for eating. He needs to feel assured that there’s someone who cares about his wellbeing and who’s willing to help him attain a healthy weight to feel comfortable again.

 

Erectile Dysfunction

The last thing your partner wants to admit is how he’s unable to satisfy you in bed. Many males want to feel confident in bed and wouldn’t want something to affect their masculinity.

For them to be vulnerable is a sign of weakness. However, conditions like erectile dysfunction will interfere with his performance and cause him to avoid being intimate altogether. 

Erectile dysfunction in men can present itself through decreased arousal and trouble getting an erection. Sleep disorders, diabetes, heart disease, and tobacco use are some of the causes that lead to this health condition.

Most men won’t spill out their pecker problems to their partners. Still, they might feel a lot more comfortable talking to a health professional. To those residing in Australia, men’s healthprofessionals can help both your partner and you achieve optimal sexual wellbeing.

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OG Pro2: The Best-Selling Vibrator Just Got Better

Not all sex toys deliver as promised and become best-selling. Not all best-selling sex toys go viral. And not all best-selling sex toys that go viral live up to the hype.

Now imagine all those qualities rolled into one. The best just got better, and it’s just within your reach.

Ladies and gentlemen, meet Tracy’s Dog OG Pro2.

Last Year’s Viral Vibrator

Overly enthusiastic customer reviews had the Tracy’s Dog OG sucking vibrator go viral last year.

Comments were: “My legs went straight out like those goats who faint when scared,” “I get up to clean up and realize in my seizure-like orgasms, I hurt my hip and back,” “I’m still hobbling four hours later.”

The vibrator promised to “blow your mind,” and with those reviews alone, we’re assured it definitely did. The product reviews were often hilariously honest but generally glowing and all praises for OG’s excellence.

Take Your Pleasure to the Next Level

Tracy’s Dog OG sucking vibrator went viral and is top-selling for a good reason. The demand for it has vastly increased, and everyone who’s tried it loved it!

As expected, OG comes with high recommendations. It’s the ‘best,’ said those who’ve tried it. And once you’ve tried the best, there really is no going back. You either stick to what you know or take it a notch higher.

With the OG Pro2 sucking vibrator, you can now proceed to the next level.

It’s The Pleasure of Summer – All Year

OG Pro2 is Tracy’s Dog OG’s upgraded summer version. You know that summertime feeling when you’re hot and wild and just wanna be wet all the time? Pro2 gives you that.

OG Pro2 has OG’s fantastic qualities and more:

1. It’s beautiful.

Being OG’s summer version, it looks like a beautiful, magical contraption in hot turquoise and gold. It also comes in a discreet package, so you can bring it anywhere you please.

2. It’s a 2-in-1 vibrator.

OG Pro2 is the same dual vibrator with sucking and vibrating features that can target the clitoris or G-Spot one at a time, or both simultaneously. It’s guaranteed you’re in for a treat.

As with the original OG, you get to choose from 10 powerful suction and vibration modes! The 10 suction modes for clitoral stimulation can intensively but pleasantly stimulate the clit for a clitoral orgasm. Now, if G-spot pleasure is your goal, it also has 10 vibration patterns to stimulate the G-spot effectively.

You can give each sucking and vibrating mode a go till you find the one that best suits you and gives you utmost pleasure. Trust me, trying out the different intensity variations and pattern changes is in itself a pleasurable exercise.

3. It’s flexible and bendable.

Whether for couple or solo play, its flexible and bendable design has it tailor-made for whatever purpose it may serve. You can have a blast any way you want!

4. It’s body-safe.

While pleasure is our aim, safety is our key consideration (as it should be). It’s only right as we use it and insert it into nether parts that never see the light of day.

OG Pro2 is made of high-grade, silky smooth silicone material that is guaranteed safe for external and internal usage. It is also odorless and very easy to clean. Just clean it with water, and you’re good to go.

5. It’s waterproof.

Its high-quality material is IPX-7 100% waterproof. It can last up to 30 minutes under one meter of water depth. So yes, you can have fun with it in the shower, in the bathtub, in the swimming pool – or anywhere you dare please!

6. It’s USB rechargeable.

Its USB charging capability allows easy charging in more accessible ports such as laptop computers and power banks. It takes only 2.5 hours to fully charge, and it lasts up to 50 minutes of non-stop play. For a pleasure toy, it can even outlast you.

7. It’s remote-controlled.

For old and new OG users alike, this remote control capability is a most welcome upgrade. Experimenting with the various sucking and vibrational frequencies has become a lot more convenient and stress-free. Now you can focus more on pleasure and worry less!

With a 6- to 10-meter operation range, you can have your partner in on the fun by giving them control over the remote or vice versa. Now you can sit back, relax, and just enjoy your orgasmic ride.

8. It’s so easy to use.

For the uninitiated, taking advantage of this nifty device is no rocket science. As with most silicone sex toys, it’s best used with water-based lubricant for more pleasure.

Long press the power button to start the device. On the remote, the ‘W’ button (vibration modes) is for the insert part for G-spot stimulation, and the ‘O’ button (suction modes) is for the clit. Just navigate through the various options with the remote. It’s easy peasy!

Takeaway

OG Pro2 retains the good ol’ OG’s fantastic features that we all know and love. And with the recent upgrades, it got even better! 

Now you can bring summer everywhere you go and relive that sultry summertime feeling anytime you want. You can purchase OG Pro2 and other sex toys of your choice through Tracy’s Dog’s website.

4 Essential Rules for Having Sex on the Beach

First off, getting creative like this is a huge bonus in your life with your partner. If you and your partner are this fun and wild, then your relationship is great, and keeping the sex and adventure is in full force.

Sex is fun, but when you spice it up and add new locations into the already adventurous cycle, it is going to be mind-blowing. There is some careful planning that needs to be worked out. You need to make sure you are carrying all the essentials! When it is “go time”, you and your partner can get freaky, and have sex – but also keep from getting caught.

1. Different Types of Beaches

When you get to the desired location, the first thing you and your loved one should do is scout out the location. Beaches are all different. Some of the beaches are going to be a bit rockier, and some might even have a nearby cliff. I used to live on a beach that was sandy, but it also had cliffs nearby that were close enough that if an ambitious couple wanted to have sex, all they had to do was go around the rocks.

Of course, those with binoculars from the condos above the cliff could get the view of a lifetime, but anyone else would not be able to see a thing. From time to time you would see couples come from that area, but no one would flat out ask them if they were having sex over there. Check the little areas that seem slightly private, and you should also check out where most of the people tend to hang out. You can check into beach tents.

You might find a beach tent that is available for rent. The larger beaches always have beach equipment that can be rented by the day or hour.

2. The Time of Day

Obviously, if you and your partner are thinking of a nighttime fuck-a-thon on the beach, then that is almost a no-brainer, but you still should watch for a few things.

This may sound silly, but paying attention to high/low tide is highly recommended. That can not only ruin the mood, but all the items you may have brought to the beach will wash away, not to mention sand in places that sand should never be found.

Once you figure out what time of the day you plan on having your sexy sand date. Planning what to bring is going to be a very important next step.

3. Sand Sex Attire

The fun part of planning this is, really there isn’t a great deal that is going into this process. The most important part of fucking in the sand is making sure sand does NOT go into your partner’s vagina. That will instantly ruin the trip. You should bring a good-sized towel or blanket.

All of the intercourse needs to be on the towel or blanket, otherwise, just think of a very uncomfortable time that might need medical attention if an infection occurs.

As sexy and hot as it sounds with waves and sand all over your partner’s body like the movies portray sex in the sand, the reality is sand will totally fuck up your sexy time. An easy outfit for your woman in the sand for sexy time is a long sun dress. She will be able to wear no panties. All you have to do is hold the dress up.

4. Sexy Sand Positions

Since sand in the vagina is the major no-no you should think of some new positions or ways to please each other. A blow job is the easiest way to have sex on the beach. All that is involved is dropping to knees and sucking. If a male is hoping for some oral fun, then there is a super-naughty way to have fun.

Bend your woman over, give her a tug on her hair, and begin licking from behind. This is very exciting and a turn-on, because you can get a great view of the hole you plan on sticking. You can lick her into bliss, then slip your cock in her vagina or ass. If you are going for a missionary style of sex, then you might consider rolling her ass up off the blanket, because you want to avoid any little bit of sand if possible.

The goal is to keep the vagina away from the sand!

Always watch for people that might be roaming the beach. Most of the time people keep to themselves, but you should always be scanning the area.

Night-time sex on the beach is going to be the easiest, but try to watch out for noise. If your partner is a screamer, you might have to shove something into her mouth to keep her quiet as she is having an orgasm. If the first time doesn’t work, try again. Hot beach sex is a super fantasy and should be tried at least once if possible.

10 Signs You’re Way Too Good For The Person You’re Dating

Your friends tell you, your parents tell you—sh*t, even their friends say something to you about it. There comes a time in some relationships where everyone starts telling you that you’re way too good for the person you’re dating. While I’m never one to say that you should believe when people tell you things about your relationship when they’re not involved in it—there are some key moments in your life where people are doing you more good than harm. If you’re constantly fighting with yourself to decide if the person you are with is “good” for you, there may be a bigger picture problem that you’re ignoring completely.

 

If you’re the one who is constantly going out of your way, giving 100% when they give maybe 45%, the one reaching out, the one making plans, the one who calls/texts first – there could be a very, very big reason. You may just be too good for the person you’re currently dating.

 

1. The people who know you best think you deserve better.

While you may not want to believe everything other people say about your own, personal life – the people who know you best are only going to want what’s best for you. If they’re telling you that you deserve better, finding reasons for you to leave the person you’re with – there could be a very good reason for it. They want you to be happy and also want you to be treated the way in which you deserve. Maybe you need to wake up and smell the coffee of the reality of things, no matter how much you love someone, they may not be the best person for you.

 

 

2. The person you’re with is jealous, insecure or always picking fights.

If you’re the type of person who allows your significant other to have freedom and independence, but they don’t reciprocate, it’s a big red flag. Jealousy and insecurity at times can be something to manage and work on in a relationship, but if someone is unwilling to change, you can’t force them. You can’t be allowing someone to have their freedom but be forbidden to do things, say things or wear things that you want at someone else’s expense. Don’t let someone stomp all over you, who you are and what you bring to the table.

 

11 Times You Were Sexually Harassed And Didn’t Even Realize It

Harassment

With the recent events happening in the entertainment industry involving Harvey Weinstein, more women have found the voice and platform to come out and speak out against sexual harassment. While it has taken some time, many actresses, models and other female Hollywood stars are coming forward and speaking out against the mistreatment and sexualization of women, not only in the industry but overall as half of the global population.

 

Personally, I have experienced sexual harassment in more ways than one. But, throughout the years, it took me quite some time to realize just how often I was being sexually harassed, not only in my social life but also throughout my career in the workplace, as well as in school.

 

Why You Should Sleep With Whoever You Want Whenever You Want.

Sleeping with…..

Sex is arguably one of our favorite activities as humans, so why do we throw so much shade on it?

Down with sex negativity! Up with sex. Love your sex.  

 

1. Sex will keep you from dying.

First of all, you wouldn’t even exist if your dad wasn’t smooth enough to woo your mom during their years of young lovin’. So appreciate sex.

Lots of sex boosts your immune system, lowers your blood pressure, lowers your chance of heart attack, improves your sleep, eases stress, amongst others!  Have sex, be healthy.

 

2. Your sex is your business.

Simple as that. Some people like to tell others, others dont — pick your poison. People who get mad at you for sex are just jealous anyways. Wash your hands off of all those basics.

How To Spice Up The Bedroom By Watching Porn Together

No Spice

Need to spice up the bedroom?

I just got through a very difficult time in my relationship with my boyfriend. And I wanted to share my experience with you.

Let me just start by saying, that relationships, no matter how wonderful, are also a lot of work. That is because men and women think differently, they prioritize needs differently and are turned on sexually in entirely different ways. Maintaining a healthy sexual relationship with your partner can ease the burden and the stress of the day to day. Keeping an active and healthy sex life is an important aspect of a relationship.

When Sex Leaves The Bedroom

When my boyfriend and I hit a rough patch, I went through the usual scenarios in my head. Maybe it’s because we’ve been too busy to really enjoy each others company, and both he and I have been so busy at work. He seems so distant and angry all the time. Could he be upset with me? His behavior is really putting me off and I really don’t want him to touch me at this point. So needless to say, our sex life has not been as active recently. We definitely needed to spice up the bedroom action.

The P Word

A few weeks later, my boyfriend and I are stumbling past each other, barely saying hello and goodbye with only hand gestures, a friend reached out to me to catch up. Sarah, had recently gone on a date with a new man. I was thrilled to have her tell me the juicy story about the new suitor. Anything at this point to distract me from my sexless relationship and my need to spice up the bedroom.

Sarah, my sweet friend was thrilled with her date, then something happened. On their date, the guy had mentioned he watches porn. Well that was the beginning of the end for my friend. She did not want to see him again. No second date. Done.

Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t watch porn either. But let’s face facts, all guys watch porn. I realized that this was definitely not a good deal breaker. Sarah thought otherwise, and that was certainly up to her.

A Spicy Thought

That evening, I thought a bit more about it. I remembered when I first saw my boyfriend checking out one of those sites of hot webcam girls I remember feeling butterflies in my stomach and feeling like I was supposed to feel some sort of anger and betrayal towards him and his act of watching strangers having sex, right in the middle of our living room! But he stopped what he was doing when I came in the room, and looked happy to see me. Honestly, I dismissed the concern over it at that point.

So back to my relationship and my reality. It was clear that one of us needs to spice things up and you know how it is ladies, we have to do everything.

And now, back to the Porn.

While it is really not my thing, though neither is the violence of football or UFC, by the way, but I do watch those to enjoy the time with my man. I wondered, can porn be a similar activity, but one that gets us both really revved up and excited? Maybe? Maybe not?

Before I tell you the rest of my story, here are some tips if you decide this is the spice you want to add into your relationship.

It doesn’t have to be your thing

First, know that it doesn’t have to be your thing. If it doesn’t get you that excited, that’s ok. Just know that your man likes it and it gets him excited, and pleasing your man does excite you.

It’s just fantasy

You do know that your man really doesn’t want you to be a porn star, don’t you? So seeing two girls with one guy perks up your man. Just know that he’s not necessarily thinking about bringing in some strangers to your bed.

If this spice is Infrequent, it will be more exciting

All guys watch porn. And probably too frequently. So be sure to make this a once in a blue moon, special spice that you selectively sprinkle on as the sugary, and supportive sweet girlfriend that you are. Make this the unique spice that gets the juices flowing for a fun trip to the bedroom.

Being open and receptive

Now, back to my story. So yes, I suggested we watch porn. And not just any porn. Something that he really liked, that he really wanted to show me. My boyfriend took that task seriously, and after careful research, within twenty minutes or so, he was ready to show me his porn favorite.

What did I think? Admittedly, it did get some of my juices flowing… But most importantly, it got his! And he showed me his appreciation for my willingness to try new things by taking care of my needs.

For my friend Sarah, porn was a dealbreaker. But it does not have to be for you. Make it your own experience and see if you can impress your man at the same time by taking his watching porn a bit more seriously. Maybe you’ll even learn a little more about what your guy likes or how to do something new. Just keep it fun and have a healthy and loving sex life with your partner.

21 Naughty Coupons to Reward Your Man

To my man, I just want to say thank you.

To show you just how much I appreciate all the things you do for me, I made you a book of coupons this year. I want to try and give back even a little bit of what you’ve given to me… and what better way to do it than with sex?

Cash each one in whenever you like. They never expire!

These Coupons Are Good for:

1. One sensual full body massage

…and a happy ending.

2. One striptease

…you pick the outfit.

3. One quickie anytime, anywhere

…no questions asked.

4. One round of 69

…however long you want it.

5. One bubble bath together

…champagne included.

6. Half hour of oral

…with nothing expected in return.

7. One night of role play

…your fantasy, your choice.

8. One sexy photo shoot

…just you, me, and a camera.

9. One night of bondage

…tie me up or I’ll tie you down.

10. Wild card

…anything goes.

11. One night out

…no panties allowed.

12. Any position of your choice

…doggy style, cowgirl, you name it.

13. One blowjob

…I’ll even make sure to swallow.

14.  A home-cooked dinner

… completely naked.

15. 20 kisses

…and none on the lips.

16. Lingerie shopping

…you pick, I’ll wear.

17. Sex anywhere you want

…except for the bedroom.

18. You + me + pizza

…and sex for the entire night.

19. One night where I’m in control

…you do whatever I say.

20. Any sex act using food

…chocolate, whipped cream, fruit, you choose.

21. I’ll fulfill your kinkiest fantasy

…no judgement.

I love you baby!

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PSA To All The Guys Out There, We Like Oral Too

Picture this, you’re with the most amazing man, he’s handsome, perfect body sculpted by God himself, and he’s got you all hot and bothered. You’re thinking to yourself, this is what I’ve been waiting for, a great guy to give you the big O.

You go down on him, you put all you’ve got, showing him you appreciate all the work he’s done to get to this moment, and he stops to passionately kiss you. And you lay back expecting him to return the favor.

And he doesn’t.

Let’s face it, we’ve all been there.

I don’t care how fantastic the sex is, it’ll never be more than just eh without him going down on you too.

I’m getting really tired of these boys who just expect for me to go down without even a little bit of returning the favor.

Like first off, I just went to town on you. Slobbing on the knob. Getting lock jaw. My neck hurts. And you can’t spend 5 minutes with your face in between my legs?

It’s just frustating. Now I’m over here thinking about those soft lips on my lips (and not the ones on my face) and not even enjoying myself because this is a problem.

I shaved for this. Made myself all baby bottom smooth and this dumb boy is neglecting my nether regions. Ugh.

Nope. Not anymore. I’m going on strike. If you can’t get me off with your mouth, I refuse to participate in oral too.

Let’s see how you like it. Hint, hint you won’t.

To my beautiful ladies, if he’s not going down on you during sex, refuse him the pleasure of you going down on him. Hopefully he’ll get the message and start writing stories with his tongue.

And to my future bae or some other man reading this, give us oral and we’ll never have to hold out on you.

To All the Curvy Girls Who Think They’re ‘Too Big’ to Ride Him, You’re Definitely Not

I had a guy tell me once, “I’m tiny compared to you… I don’t want to suffocate just to get a nut.”  There were so many things wrong with this statement. We didn’t last very long, to say the least.

I’m a big girl. I know it. I got these thick thighs that could crush a watermelon and a stomach that looks like I probably ate a few watermelons and forgot to chew them first.

For a long time, I let that one guy’s comment make me feel like I would never be able to ride a man. I’d never feel the empowerment of being on top, controlling how deep he was inside me, how fast we were going.

I let one small-minded f**kboy make me feel like sh*t because I was chunky, I could only be face down or back down.

I’d always be asked to get on top, but I’d make some joke out of it, saying something along the lines of, “No, then you’d really fall in love” or “You wouldn’t be able to handle this.”

When all I was really thinking is, “what if I’m too heavy?” “What if he really does start to suffocate and I don’t notice?” “What if I’m doing it wrong?”

Then, I did.

And let me be the first to let you lovely thick ladies out there know, you are not too heavy to ride him. You ride him like he is a bull and you are the professional. You take control of that dick and make him go crazy.

You won’t regret it, I promise.

The feeling of being in control will send sensations through your body like you’ve never known before. And the look on his face when he sees how confident you are on top of him, will be worth it.

It took one guy to make me self-conscious, but only 1 guy to show me there’s nothing to be self-conscious of.

As we all know, thick thighs really do save lives 😉

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