Guy Leaves Internet Divided After Suggesting He Ask His Pregnant Wife To ‘Move Out’

It’s well known that women sometimes act a bit different when they’re pregnant. But, can you blame them? Their entire bodies are swollen, they’re exhausted, and their hormones are completely out of whack. Many times, women can’t truly control their emotions because they’re on a level 15 out of 10 during those 9 months. However, not all men can handle the changes.

One Reddit user posted into the thread “Am I The Asshole” asking:

WIBTA if I ask my pregnant wife to move out because she and her best friend decided to “test” my loyalty?

As the story goes, his wife truly did use a bit of sneaky and manipulative work to try and test her hubby’s loyalty. He writes:

My wife is pregnant with our daughter. Initially we were really happy and excited about it. But then, she starts acting like a nut job. She gets angry and irritated for small things, insults me when she doesn’t like the food I make, starts acting insecure and accuses me of losing attraction for her.

For example, she wanted to eat chicken sandwiches for dinner last week. Well, I made chicken sandwiches. So she eats all the sandwiches, leaves me nothing and told me that they tasted like shit. I wasn’t pissed because she left me nothing. But if she didn’t like them, why did she have to eat everything? When I asked her this she told me that she was hungry. Ok fine. She does this every time. Eats everything I make andcalls it shit. I don’t argue with her because I work for more than 80 hours a week and I really want to have some peace when I’m home.

So, yesterday, a random girl starts at flirting with me after the gym and asked me if I wanted to meet up with her for some drinks. I rejected her and told her that I was married. And when I got home, my wife started to hug me and apologise. When I asked her what happened, she told me that her best friend suggested a test for my loyalty. So they asked a mutual friend to flirt with me and asked me out. And I passed. Yay!!. I’m really pissed. I’m done with her antics. WIBTA if I ask her to move out?

People online were pretty divided. Some people thought that this husband was not being considerate and empathetic that his wife is hormonal and cannot control it.

One person suggested couples therapy first:

Yikes. Might I suggest some couples therapy first? What she did was clearly an A move, though I don’t think you’d be in the right to have her move out while pregnant. –Lizlizlizzyliz

Another said not to be immature and jump the gun.

Try being an adult and discussing problems first. –bobshallprevail

Others say it was way too harsh.

You have a reason to be upset, but I think kicking her out is a little harsh. I liked a comment above mentioning couples counseling. –Datalust5

Others thought that he was 100% in the right.

One person said what if the roles were reversed.

NTA. this sub infuriates me sometimes. no not ESH. not by a fucking longshot and im curious if anyone would be justifying this if the genders were reversed. you are absolutely NTA and being pregnant doesn’t give you a blank check to turn into a fucking psycopath. Your wife shouldn’t be getting a pass on this. At the very minimum you need to separate and go into counseling. Do you really want to be dodging thirst traps and mind games for the rest of your life? –lapussymonster

Another said it was out of line and it’s abusive.

This whole “you can’t ask your pregnant wife to move out!” posturing is BS. Being pregnant doesn’t give you license to abuse and gaslight people. Asking her to leave I think should be the bare minimum here. –RidleyAteKirby

And, someone said that this could be a bigger issue than just pregnancy hormones.

Please do not listen to anyone who justifies her behavior with pregnancy hormones. She is either mentally ill or abusive. –curacaublue

In all honesty, I have to agree that asking her to move out right away is a bit much. In fact, if you’re having a child together, it would be wise to try and work it out beforehand—rather than throw her out and make matters worse before your newborn child comes into the world.

h/t: Reddit

Let This Dreamboat Help You Reject All The Gross, Thirsty Men In Your Life

Any woman on the internet knows the annoyance of a guy who just won’t leave her alone, whether on social media or in real life. And, of course, there are the worst guys—the ones who send unsolicited dick pics. It’s not cute, it’s harassment.

But, because not all guys are terrible, and allyship comes in all forms, one man made himself truly useful by tweeting what look like candid pics of himself, meant to be used to deflect unwanted male attention.

Trevor Norris (@trevor_norris0 on Twitter) included four pictures of himself in a tweet that read, “Saw there was an actual market of women that needed this… so here are some pictures y’all can use to send to guys that won’t leave you alone or keep sending you unsolicited pictures. Goodluck.”

https://twitter.com/trevor_norris0/status/1118694772074532865

The tweet went hugely viral, and Norris, being the all-around hero that he seems to be, offered to do more for anyone who wanted one.

He then provided eight more pictures after requests came flooding in.

Norris also pointed out that a woman who is being harassed on Instagram can contact the company.

And the results were fantastic. Women were thrilled that they now had realistic-looking pictures they could send to anyone bothering them to send the message “I got a man.”

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Although one problem with going so viral is that in some cases, the dudes that got the pics sent to them had already seen them on Twitter.

One mom wrote to Norris to thank him and call him a genius.

Women were so happy that he found this niche need and filled it.

And even if you don’t need them to fend off unwanted advances, you have to admit they make excellent reaction shots.

The pictures truly have so many uses.

So hey, if you need a specific one, just hit up Trevor Norris on Twitter.

h/t: Twitter: trevor_norris0, Petty Mayonnaise

These Unpopular Opinions About Best Friends Will Have You Rethinking Your Friendships

Recently, a new trend has surfaced on Twitter in which a user will suggest a topic for people to share their “unpopular opinions.” From food to music to relationships, people all over Twitter have revealed some of their most unpopular opinions—like one guy who suggested bacon isn’t “all that.” Thank you, kind sir, but, next.

The latest topic to be thrown out was from Twitter user LUSH LAVIÉ, who suggested that people on his timeline share their unpopular opinions about best friends.

https://twitter.com/Lushlaviee/status/1098749479610650626

Let’s face it, there are tons of societal expectations and stereotypes when it comes to our friendships—but, not all of them are legit or accurate. In fact, there are tons of unpopular opinions in this thread that may have you rethinking the way you look at friendships in your own life.

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This Guy Found Out His Girlfriend Was Using His Gym Socks To Wipe Herself And Um, What?

Relationships are full of surprises. The more time you spend with the same person the more you learn about them, especially once you’ve moved in together.

Living with your significant other teaches you a lot about who they really are—what their weird habits are, what annoys them, and sometimes you find out they have some very odd vices. So odd, in fact, that you seek advice from the internet.

At least, that’s what one boyfriend did after he discovered his girlfriend was wiping herself with his gym socks…

Redditor u/whattodobedroom recently shared a story with the online community about something very odd that happened with his girlfriend.

He titled the post: ‘I (28) think my girlfriend (26) has been using my gym socks to wipe after going to the bathroom.’

Feeling disgusted but curious, we continued reading and um, brace yourselves…

The post reads:

I don’t even know where to start with this. I’m dumbfounded. She just stormed out the house and I’m sitting on the bed asking myself A LOT of questions.

I live a pretty normal life, and I thought so did my girlfriend. We’ve been together for a few months and after things got serious, we moved in together. We started sharing a lot of the household responsibilities, but the one thing she was adamant on doing was the laundry. She would come home and find me in the bedroom getting the laundry together and would quickly ask me to go do something else. I’d come back to finish the laundry and she would have already started it. I always thought it was sweet and never her job to do it alone, but hey, if it makes her happy to do it all the time, I wouldn’t stop her.

This is where it takes a turn for the weird.

I keep all my socks and underwear in the bottom drawer of my dresser. I also go to the gym frequently, so I always keep a good supply of clean gym socks ready to go. I never kept count, but I know by just a visual glance I several pairs. This morning when I went to grab a fresh pair to pack for the gym, I noticed there were several dress socks, but no gym socks. Again, not weird, they must have been in the laundry. I went to check the laundry basket and it was empty, so I checked the washing machine and dryer. Both were empty. I couldn’t figure out where all of my gym socks had gone. So, I did the very natural thing of asking my girlfriend what had happened to them. After all, she is the one who does the laundry all the time. She went silent, turned red and ran out of the room. When I went after her to see if she was okay she wouldn’t talk to me. I told her I wasn’t mad, I was just looking for my socks. She kinda mumbled “I’ll don’t know.” I still wasn’t mad, of course, but I was super confused. Socks just don’t disappear. So I asked her again, even laughed about it and she just looked at me and got mad and said “I’ll buy you new ones!”

The first thought that went through my head was she had somehow managed to destroy my socks while washing them. I thought the sight of that was actually pretty funny, so I joked with her about ruining my socks. Wrong. Thing. To. Say. She started immediately crying. Like, full on sobbing. At this point I don’t care about the socks anymore, I want to know what’s wrong with my girlfriend. I sat down next to her on the bed and put my arm around her and asked her of she was okay. She just kept saying she was sorry and that she would buy me new socks. I tried assuring her again it was okay. Even went so far as to say I would buy new socks and she didn’t have to. I sat with her for a few minutes trying to calm her down and eventually had to get ready for work. I told her loved her and got my things together to leave for the day.

On my way out I grabbed the garbage to take outside. When I got outside I lifted the lid off the garbage can and I noticed a small plastic bag sitting on top of the garbage already in there. I could see through the bag (kind of the semi see through ones) there were socks in the bag. Since I was sure she had somehow managed to ruin the socks washing them, I wanted to see for myself. I opened the bag and immediately regretted my choice. There, inside the bag, were several pairs of my gym socks covered in what looked like poop. As soon as the smell hit me I knew it WAS POOP.

    1. We don’t own any pets.
    2. We don’t have any kids.
    3. WHOSE POOP WAS ON MY SOCKS?

Work could wait. I couldn’t go the rest of the day wondering why my gym socks were covered in poop and inside a plastic bag in the garbage can. I grabbed the bag and walked back inside. As soon as my girlfriend saw the bag she flipped out and started yelling at me. She said I shouldn’t be going through the garbage and that I was disgusting for bringing it back into the house.

I asked her to calm down and that I just wanted an answer as to why there was poop on my socks. I wasn’t blaming her of anything, but she started accusing me of blaming her. That’s when it clicked. I don’t know what it was that lead me to ask this, but everything leading up to this moment had just been so crazy. I asked her “Is this your poop?” She started sobbing again and ran out of the house. I didn’t go after her this time.

So, now I am sitting on my bed with a bag of poopy socks on the floor and a lot of questions in my head. The only conclusion is that she used them after going to the bathroom. Which that alone has its own set of questions above everything else. I sent her text asking her to come back. She hasn’t responded yet. I don’t even know what I’m going to say when (IF) she gets back.

We can imagine the author felt something like this:

Fortunately, it wasn’t long before he posted an update:

I had to leave for work and am now at work. Yes, I threw away the bag of poopy socks. She texted me back and she’s clearly embarrassed but felt she owed me an explanation. She said she didn’t want to talk about it in person and that we could discuss it over texting and to NOT bring it up in person. I’m condensing the conversation and filling in some gaps as best as I can. Her responses are super short, but I’m getting the idea.

I flat out asked her if it was a fetish. It is not a fetish. She confessed to using the socks after going to the bathroom. I found the reason she always does the laundry is because she was hiding the fact that she uses socks to wipe with, primarily her own. I had no reason to question the amount of socks she ever has because who pays attention to that kind of thing? She thought I would notice and think it was weird since she doesn’t own many socks. She admitted she has done this for a long time. Her reasoning, as best as I can understand, is that because she is a germaphobe (her word) and she is afraid toilet paper will tear and is afraid of getting her hands messy in ANY WAY. She uses socks because it covers her entire hand. After she’s done with them, she throws them away. She used mine because she didn’t have other socks.

So, my girlfriend has a fear of getting poop on her hands so she wipes with socks, and has done so for a lone time. It could be worse, I guess. I hope we can laugh about this later. I’m trying to find the humor in it now, but I’m still weirded out.

And people have a lot to say about his situation.  

Now, if you’ll excuse us, we need a minute to erase this from our brains.

h/t Reddit

This Viral Thread Perfectly Explains What It’s Like To Live With ADHD

Prolific Twitter user and independent journalist Yashar Ali has a knack for going viral whether he’s tweeting about politics or towels.

So when he opened up about the realities of living with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, or ADHD, people payed attention, and pretty soon everyone was talking until the topic was trending nationally on Twitter.

The entire thread can be read as a Twitter Moment here but here are some excerpts:

Ali described some common misunderstandings about the disorder.

And how it makes supposedly simple tasks complicated.

Ali also discussed how ADHD can affect relationships.

Today’s internet is a fast and vicious place dominated by scathing personal attacks and political combat, some of it justified some of it mere digital bloodsport. So people appreciated Ali’s candor and vulnerability in discussing a serious issue that affects a great number of people.

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https://twitter.com/SteveHuff/status/1100404584470769664

https://twitter.com/akhanukov/status/1100451038186950659

https://twitter.com/corgi_cookies/status/1100315069286621184

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Many readers shared their own struggles with ADHD.

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And shared tips for managing the disorder.

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https://twitter.com/LukeEasterling/status/1100265608187305984

It almost felt like a meeting of ADHD Anonymous, AKA Twitter.

https://twitter.com/invoglio/status/1100383104039116800

Again you can read the entire thread HERE.

Photo Credit: UBC Learning Commons

Twitter Thread Proves That Giving Up On A Good Girl Will Haunt You Forever

Many times in life, it so happens that we meet people at the wrong time. Even if two people are destined to be together, if it’s not the right time, things just won’t work out. Think of it this way—how many times have you dated someone that was in a completely different stage of their life (emotionally, mentally) and because of this, you could never see eye-to-eye? Maybe you wanted to move forward—get married, start a family—and your partner was too busy clubbing and bar-hopping every weekend.

Well, I hate to break it to you, but when you aren’t ready for the “right one,” the right one won’t wait around for you. So often, people think that “true love will wait,” but, that’s unrealistic and a bunch of fairy tale garbage. To prove it, I bring you Twitter user Rev Rell, who shared a story of her friend who lost a good girl forever.

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People online were applauding the thread, thanking her for being so real and honest, and sharing their own experiences that this is—indeed—facts.

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Hilarious Twitter Thread Matches Characters From ‘The Office’ To Their Perfect Dog Counterpart

I’m sure Steve Carell and NBC had no idea that years after airing The Office, it would be as wildly popular as it still is today. Thanks to Netflix and other streaming services, fans (old and new) get to fall in love with the gang at Dunder Mifflin as many times as they want without ever getting sick of Michael’s “that’s what she said” jokes.

Recently, to bring even more humor to the show, a Twitter user decided to match up characters from the show with their perfect canine counterpart—with details and explanations for each. Obviously, it’s hilarious and accurate. So, thanks to @samzsmith for giving us the laughs.

https://twitter.com/samzmith/status/946610215213920257

Michael Scott—A Beagle

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Dwight Schrute—An Alapaha Blue Blood Bulldog

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Jim Halpert—a Siberian Husky

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Pam Beesly—a Welsh Corgi

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Ryan Howard—a Dalmatian

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Darryl Philbin—a Bernese Moutain Dog

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Andy Bernard—a Golden Retriever

https://twitter.com/samzmith/status/946614262121693186

Stanely Hudson—a Shar Pei

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Phylis Vance—a Cocker Spaniel

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Angela Martin—a Lhasa Apso

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Kevin Malone—a French Bulldog

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Oscar Martinez—a mixed breed

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Meredith Palmer—a Poodle

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Creed Bratton—an English Sheepdog

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Erin Hannon—a Shetland Sheepdog

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Toby Flenderson—a Spanish Water Dog

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Kelly Kapoor—a Papillon

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Gae Lewis—a Chinese Crested

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Jan Levinson—a Yorkshire Terrier

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Nellie Bertram—a Dachsund

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Robert California—a Bloodhound

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Karen Fillipelli—a Schnauzer

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Holly Flax—a Samoyed

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David Wallace—a Border Collie

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Hank—a Great Dane

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Mose Schrute—a Brussels Griffon

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Val—a Puli

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Todd Packer—a Boxer

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Jo Bennet—a German Shepherd

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I’m so satisfied.

h/t:  @samzsmith

Doctor’s Viral Thread About Late Term Abortions Explains Why They Should Be Legal

Abortion is one of the most divisive issues in the country, and that’s saying a lot because we have plenty of divisive issues. So when New York state passed a bill allowing late-term abortions in cases where the health of the mother is endangered or strongly compromised, the backlash was quick and strong.
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This Guy’s Story Of His Haunted Ouija Board Experience Will Make You Swear Off The Game Forever

If you’ve ever used a Ouija Board, you’d know that those things can seriously be haunted. Maybe you believe in spirits, maybe you don’t—but, for many of us, Ouija Boards have given us some spooky times and haunting moments. Marcus Hitchcock shared the story of using a Ouija Board and, the story is so messed up, you will swear off every playing the game again—for real. Even Marcus himself says he will never play again.

Apparently, Marcus’ aunt was living in New Orleans during Hurricane Katrina. She didn’t evacuate and instead, she died.

But, Marcus’ aunt was also into some spooky sh*t.

Things just got weirder and weirder from there.

I’d probably poop in my pants.

Oh My God.

….what?!?

I’m sweating.

I wouldn’t go back there either! GTFO!

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Yeah, I don’t think I’ll ever touch a Quija Board…ever.

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