Why The Body Stores Trauma And How To Release It 

Whenever we experience something tragic, our mind often convinces itself out of it, while the body ends up storing a record of the incident. Trauma is not essentially stored in muscles or bones in the form of pain but is instead stored in the brain as an enhanced sense of alertness against perceived dangers.

There are many holistic ways to release this trapped trauma and liberate one from the constant cycle of staying vigilant. Traditional Chinese medicine for mental health has been gaining popularity for its gradually progressing yet impactful methods of eradicating stored trauma from the body. The practice involves meditation, understanding the root cause, and providing treatment that creates room for healing.

Here’s everything to know about the body keeping a record of trauma:

What is trauma?

Trauma is a response (emotional or physical) to any life-threatening situation an individual encounters. Trauma can have a severe impact on the mental well-being and ability to function without underlying feelings of low self-esteem or anxiety. The hippocampus and amygdala are the parts of the brain that are often responsible for storing memories, where most of the trauma from tragic incidents is stored.

Why does the body store trauma?

When we encounter a life-threatening situation, the fight, flight, or freeze part of the brain (amygdala) gets overactivated, ensuring we can respond to save ourselves. Amidst all this, it becomes challenging for the brain to simultaneously process everything, resulting in unprocessed feelings, emotions, and thoughts being neglected and instead getting stored in the body. As a result, one constantly lives on the edge, even in a safe environment.

Common signs and triggers of stored trauma

Post-traumatic stress is the lasting effect of trauma that often shows up in our everyday lives; these signs include:

 

  • Experiencing sleep issues

  • Constantly feeling on the edge

  • Trouble focusing

  • Dissociation

  • Anxiety and depression

Trauma triggers can include:

  • Smells and sounds

  • Being in a specific location

  • Certain traits in people

  • Certain behavioral patterns

  • Being in situations similar to what caused the trauma

3 Effective ways to recover from trauma

  1. Talk therapy

It often involves talking about the incidents that are ingrained in your brain as a traumatic memory, their significance, and the areas they affect. Talk therapy is an excellent way to process tangled emotions and feelings while working with a professional who can help bridge the gap. Moreover, once you have released these experiences, you can work with the therapist to find constructive ways to manage other aspects of your life.

  1. Holistic approach

Holistic approaches, such as traditional Chinese medicine, have become popular because they aim to eradicate the root causes instead of alleviating the symptoms. They involve rich experiences like acupuncture and Tai Chi. These traditional practices are age-old and are known for their ability to heal from within. Moreover, as these natural treatment methods are personalized, they will more effectively address the areas of concern over generic treatments. Also, as these treatments do not involve the use of harsh medicines, they are ideal for people with sensitivities.

  1. Movement practice

Movement therapy is an incredible way to relax the body while allowing the symptoms of trauma to calm down. This allows the parasympathetic nervous system to unwind, enabling the body to process past incidents with much composure and control. However, movement practice alone might not help achieve the desired effects, and it is always best to pair it with other types of therapies to maximize the results.

Bottomline

Trauma can hamper ways in which an individual can live their life. It constantly makes them hesitant to live at their full potential and instead stay more focused on staying vigilant to avoid any life-threatening situations.

With adequate support and participation in healing practices and therapies, people can customize their healing journey to suit them best. Whether you opt for regular methods or are inclined towards traditional practices, trauma healing is meant to improve your quality of life with lasting processes and methodologies.

 

How to Handle Stressful Life Events

 

Divorce, losing a family member, changing jobs or being fired from one are just some of the most stressful life events. While some people manage to go through those phases without feeling too hurt, others end up feeling scarred without the ability to overcome the problem. If you’re worried that you won’t be able to cope well with losing a job or healing from an injury, we have a few tips that will make the transition easier.

Coping with divorce

Divorcing a spouse is among the top 5 most stressful life events. Coming to realize that you’re not going to spend the rest of your life with a person you thought you were gonna grow old with can leave permanent scars. One of the beneficial practices you can do to cope with a divorce is to have a strong support system of loyal and trustworthy friends. Spending time in nature and working out will help you de-stress and keep a clear mind. Talking to a therapist will also be beneficial if you can’t find enough comfort in your friends.

 

Moving to a new home

While moving into a new home isn’t as negative a life event such as divorce or the loss of a loved one, it’s still stressful because it disrupts your routine. From looking for a new home to packing, moving and then settling in the new home – it’s all very nerve-racking. You’ve gotten accustomed to living in one neighborhood or a city for a certain number of years, and now you have to change everything and start from scratch. Getting to know the new living area and people living next door is anything but easy. Keeping a positive mindset is one way that will help you go through an entire process as smoothly as possible. Moving to a new home is a beginning of a new chapter, rather than being the ending of something you enjoyed before. You’ll have new routines, new surroundings and a lot of future opportunities to look forward to.

 

Dealing with the loss of a loved one

Losing a parent, a grandparent, a sibling, or a child is another stressful life event that many don’t know how to deal with. When it comes to legal issues, one should always rely on will and estate lawyers to help out with anything from reading a will to making sure the heirs grant the late person’s last wish. Taking some time off work will allow you to grieve and heal enough to be able to engage in mundane activities again. Meditation, yoga and any type of physical activity can be a good outlet. Because it allows you to think of something else other than what you’re going through.

 

Losing a job

A person losing a job can often experience depression and anxiety. Having to live with a sense of humiliation day by day will put a lot of stress on a person after losing a job. That can cause numerous other health problems and potentially prevent them from looking for a new job. On top of that, it can discourage them from looking for new life opportunities. However, losing a job shouldn’t be demotivating for a person. On the contrary, you should see it as a motivation to look for a better position or an entirely new career. You’re not the first nor the last person to lose a job, and you shouldn’t perceive it as something finite. With so many opportunities out there, you should think about your skills, hobbies and interests. And look for other fields of work that may be a much better fit. A life event can easily become a blessing, rather than a curse – it all depends on a point of view.

 

Recovering from an injury

Whether you’re a professional athlete or you love to stay active to lead a healthy lifestyle, suffering an injury can cause a lot of stress on you. And that is especially true for people who have to spend months staying home. And not being able to enjoy their daily workouts. Because breaking the routine for a few days can cause a lot of stress. And even more so, if one is not able to do what they love for a month or even longer. Finding new hobbies and someone to talk to will help deal with the stress.  Find someone who’s been through the same experience and managed to cope with it well. And you’ll have a much better chance at recuperating quickly yourself.

 

Life is full of stressful events, and there’s only so much you can do to cope with them. However, as long as you keep a positive mindset and not give up, you’ll be able to go through anything.  Make sure you have a strong support system and somebody to talk to whenever you need to. Look for new hobbies. And talk to professionals and take time to enjoy new activities that will give purpose to your new life.

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Five Things I Do When My Past Trauma Makes it Hard For Me To Just BE.

Past trauma is not in the past because it seems to just linger in your life into the future. You have bad flashbacks and can’t sleep because random thoughts occur in your head about that past trauma. You try to say to yourself that it doesn’t matter, but it honestly affects the way you think and live today. We’re told to get over things, but that’s easier said than done. Life is unfair, we’re told, and yeah – it is. That is why you need ways to make life a little better when dealing with trauma that still lingers in your mind.

1. Make time for your hobbies

You’ll keep telling yourself that you don’t have time, but you have to make time. Engage in what is meaningful to you even if it’s five minutes so you can get away from thinking about something terrible. I get myself into a catch project for an hour or so and it makes me feel positively engaged in something and forget about the world for a bit.

2. You need a friend, family member, someone who will understand you and listen to you when needed

I don’t think they necessarily have to give you advice and coping mechanisms, but just someone to lean on is the greatest feeling. My boyfriend is a saint for letting me cry on his shoulder when needed.

3. Live in the now

I’m not saying you can’t think about anything traumatic in the past. I’m just saying that it doesn’t have to define you today. Just because someone may have told you bad things to your face in the past doesn’t mean you’re a bad person today and that you have to see yourself that way.

4. Try to look for good things

It’s hard not to focus on the negative – trust me I know. I’ll be eating a slice of pizza and think how bad it is for me and I don’t even deserve to have it – but we need to look for the good, even in that slice of pizza. Changing our thought process can help with this. I can say to myself that I deserve to eat this pizza because I enjoy it.

5. Changing thoughts takes practice

My past trauma included people telling me that I was fat. Today, I sometimes feel that I am fat and ugly but I know that those people didn’t know my beauty inside and out. I tell myself I am who I am and those who like me will love me for who I am on the inside and out.

We can’t change the past even when we want to sometimes. But we can try and do our best every day to make life worth living. Life is going to have its ups and downs and unfairness, but we need to look at the good to feel even the slightest bit of happiness, which is worth it to me.

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About the Author

Molly Rose lives in PA but is originally from NY. She wrote for Odyssey Online in 2017 and has now started her journey with Puckermob. Molly is getting her Master’s degree online in Human Services at Capella University. She is an advocate for individuals with disabilities. Follow her on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook.

To the guy who hugged me while I cried, my struggle with PTSD.

Dear “John”,

ok your name isn’t John but for purposes of privacy, that’s how I’m starting this.

I don’t like feeling vulnerable. I’ve felt vulnerable, too vulnerable, I used to be a victim. I lived with a monster and when we parted ways, the vulnerability I was left with, I’m sure played a part in the trauma I experienced shortly afterwards.

 

Trauma I am still recovering from, that’s managed to trap me in a prison in my own body, something most people refer to very professionally as PTSD. You know my struggles.

 

I’ve shared with you the depression, hopelessness, helplessness, and sometimes irrationalities I feel, pretty regularly. However, I never really let you see it. If I did, I would have felt vulnerable, maybe you would never talk to me again, maybe you would think I’m crazy. Whatever my reasoning has been up until yesterday, it’s a part of myself, that I let you hear, but not see.

 

I want you to think of me as beautiful, sexy and fun. I don’t want you to think of me as broken, a victim or feel sorry for me. So yesterday when I felt that familiar feeling of anxiety creeping in and I knew I wasn’t going to be able to stifle it this time, the only thought I had, was how the hell I could get out of there as fast and unnoticed as possible. I want to thank you for not letting me.

 

Thank you for noticing that something wasn’t quite right with me. Most of all, thank you for letting me cry while you held me. For not throwing your hands up when I instinctively pushed you away from me. For not judging me. I have went so long trying to battle those times alone, that I honestly forgot how good it felt to have someone present when I feel like I’m on the losing end of that battle.

I know I’m a lot to deal with….and I don’t say that lightly. I don’t know if a time will come that you decide it’s too much. If you do, then I understand but I won’t forget the kindness you’ve given me. You made my day just a little bit brighter and for this I am grateful.

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