5 Signs You’re a Unicorn Person Who Everybody Loves

Ok, so not everyone in the world is actually going to like you, we all know that. But there are people out there whose luminous hearts attract others like magnets.

We don’t try to, it just happens. And if you’re reading this, I’m guessing you’re one of us and:

1. You don’t have a mean bone in your body, honestly.

If people have a problem with you, it’s probably because of a mistake you made rather than you being a terrible person.

2. You try to dislike those who aren’t on good terms with your besties, but you can’t get past the fact that “they haven’t done me wrong.”

3. You’re not acting nice because you’re afraid people won’t like you otherwise.

This is just who you are.

4. You’re constantly being told you’re easy to talk to.

Sometimes people are thrown off by how easily they let you in. You listen well and are incredibly trustworthy, and it shows.

5. People tell you that you’re different from most people they’ve met but they can’t quite figure out why.

6. You can make friends anywhere!

In an elevator, a bar bathroom, a grocery store, you name it.

7. You feel humbled by your ability to accept people for who they are and not their past.

8. Your intuitive instinct helps you uncover the real person behind the masks people tend to put on.

9. You have high emotional intelligence.

You watch and listen intently and are able to detect a person’s emotional state fairly easily. If you really know someone, you can tell when something is off and you know how to use that information appropriately.

10. You know how to fake your way through small talk like the pro you are.

11. Others constantly confuse your kindness with a romantic interest.

“No, I don’t want to go home with you – I was just being nice. I know that’s hard to find these days but c’mon.”

12. When someone gets close enough to open up to you but doesn’t stick around long enough to create any sort of friendship, you feel hurt and used.

13. When heavy stuff is dropped on you, you take a while to process it.

14. You can be a little naive about others and their motives.

15. No matter what, you love who you are.

You love being open, letting people in, and making an impact on their lives because you know they won’t forget about you.

12 Realities of Having a Kind Heart in a Cruel World

“And that’s the thing about people who mean everything they say. They think everyone else does too.” –Khaled Hosseini 

Having a kind heart in a cruel world, is both a blessing and a curse. It’s something that comes very natural to people, who have bigger hearts, than the rest of the world. Most people will look to the world and say what will the world do to benefit me? People with a kind heart, see things differently. They think what can I  do for the world to make it a better place? They truly believe they can make a difference.

They’re people who rarely utter an unkind word. They’re the types of people, who apologize for getting under someone’s foot when stepped on. They’re the people who randomly perform acts of kindness. These are the people, who live by the motto: character is who you are, when no one is watching.They are the people who make you look bad, without even trying to.

But it isn’t an easy way to live, but it’s the only thing they know.

First, people first reject you…

Most people don’t like you right off the bat. People reject the unfamiliar. And most the people who are like this, are rare to come across. Naturally, everyone rejects the person who is selfless, over the person who is selfish.

But in time, they come to accept you.

With enough time people accept this is how you are. Although it is something that is different, it’s a good kind of different, that people will come to realize.

First, some people are really mean to you…

And when someone doesn’t understand you, they’re unkind. The nicest people in the world get treated the worst sometimes. It comes with the territory.

Then people feel really guilty about it.

People, who have big hearts, know the power of words, because people have used unkind words to take you down. You don’t treat people the way people have treated you.

It’s what makes them so rare.

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