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Ten Vegan Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas For Your Cruelty Free Cutie

So that cherish your loved one and dreaded single girls holiday is upon us. Valentines Day is near. And those near and dear to us, gal pals, lovers and potential somethings are ready to celebrate stupid cupid love with us.

For the kindest souls that are animal friendly and planet caring too, selecting a vegan Valentine gift for them can be challenging. Here are some sustainable sweet gift ideas for your vegan vixen.

1.) Chocolate

Nothing says I love you better than chocolate. Take a look at the vegan versions of some classics via ethically made Chomp or hand crafted Daydream Desserts.

2.) Vegan Charcuterie

Easy to prepare and so thoughtful. Making a Vegan Charcuterie will require minimal effort. A cheese lover will delight in the vast array of alternative milk cheeses. Check out Srimudolife. They offer cashew based wheels curated with wellness and familiarity. Crafted from inspiration from bries and blues to gorgeous interpretations of gorgonzola. Add almonds, berries, crackers and voila. Pair it with some vegan wine and give the gift of a hand crafted charcuterie for your animal loving beau.

3.) Vegan Wine

Speaking of Vegan Wine. Wine is not always Vegan. So be sure to check your local shop or purchase them online. You can keep the wine coming with this vegan Valentine’s gift with a vegan wine of the month purchase here.

4.) Sponsor an Animal From A Sanctuary.

There are many animal sanctuaries run by vegans with the intention of raising awareness that all animals are sentient beings and that they are friends not food. Show your Vegan loved one how much you care by sponsoring an animal on their behalf or contributing to animal care at a sanctuary. They will truly love you for it! Don’t forget to check out Farm Animal Refuge during the Puppy Bowl this year.

5.) Cook A Vegan Meal

Cooking a Vegan Meal at home is both romantic and planet friendly. There are many vegan recipes online or you could look at a meal prep service that offers vegan options.

6.) Dine at a Vegan Restaurant

Taking your lover out for a night on the town? There are many vegan restaurants to choose from. Not sure which restaurant to go to? Check out Happy Cow for local ideas or look at Yelp for guidance.

7.) Vegan At Home Spa Care

Run your loved one a soothing bath. Pamper them with essential oils and bath bombs. Sheet masks and rose petals. Look to Pacifica beauty and Lush for products that will create an at home spa to relax your cherished vegan partner.

8.) Plants Instead of Flowers

There are sustainable plants out there. Houseplants that will help the environment pair well with your Vegan partners goals. Check out the sill for options. And look for plant stores that offer online delivery of eco house plants. If you Vegan vixen likes to cook, then gifting them a rosemary or herbed plant may be the quickest way to her heart. Check out Hey Rooted.

9.) New Bed Sheets

There is nothing more luxurious than a cozy comfy bed with fresh sheets. Organic cotton bedding that has the earth in mind as well as a good nights sleep. Pair this vegan Valentine’s gift these with some cozy eco conscious pajamas and add some fun. And don’t forget breakfast in bed, unicorn!

10.) Candy

Sweets for the sweet. Vegan candy is fairly easy to find. Most of your childhood favorite candies are naturally vegan.

Conclusion

Your gal pal, or lover, friend or family member has already shown you just how big hearted they are by taking their pledge to be vegan and cruelty free. Consider these vegan Valentine’s gift ideas to show them how much you appreciate them and their compassion for all.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

What Message Your Valentine’s Gift is Sending

Valentine’s Day. Yet another holiday that affords us an opportunity to express our deepest feelings to whom we most love. If there ever was a time when we read into a gift, it must be on St. Valentine’s Day. St. Valentine himself was credited with marrying Roman soldiers on the sly against the decree of the law. Risking one’s life to perform a marriage ceremony (and to be the ones taking part in it) has to be the grandest gesture of all.

Kind of makes that heart shaped cardboard box of chocolates you picked up in line in the drug store look a little less…less.

To send the right kind of message, you need the right kind of gift. Depending on where you are in a relationship, Valentine’s Day gifts, and their appropriateness will vary. Here are 5 ideas of what to get, and what you might be saying…

Artisan Jewelry

This is a good one. Anything you purchase on Etsy can be a win-win gift. Having a personal piece of jewelry made speaks volumes; love and affection aside, it’s thoughtful and sweet. Depending on your budget (and the level of commitment) you can find lovely sterling silver bracelets for a song all the way up to a hand forged diamond ring with your fingerprints. What message is it sending? “I really care about you. I want a special, personal gift you will wear close to your heart. I want to take the extra trouble to create something that’s special and one of a kind, just like you are to me.”

Pajamas:

There are pajamas, and then there’s “pajamas.” Flannel teddy bears with hearts may be a good gift for the beginning of a relationship. They’re sweet, and a little bit suggestive. You might be sending a better message with these than cliché lingerie set. What message are they sending? “I love your funny side. I think it’s sexy.”

Chocolates:

Yes, yes, I read the introductory paragraph….I wrote it! I’m talking chocolates that are hand made. Again, use your magical Internet fairy and find chocolates in crazy flavors that are his or her favorite. There’s a bevy of chocolate and wine pairings. Salted, caramel, hot pepper, and cheese…there’s a taste for everyone. What kind of a message do these send? “I pay attention to small details about you. I know how you take your coffee. I know what you like on your pizza. I like being the person that notices these things and acts on them to make you smile.”

Poetry:

I’m serious. A beautiful edition of Sonnets from the Portuguese by Elizabeth Barrett Browning or Shakespeare’s Sonnets speaks…wait for it, volumes. Write a little sentiment inside that says something along the lines of, “This may just begin to cover how I feel…” That’s a good message.

Stuffed Animals:

Please. Raise your right hand right now. (Unless you are a sixteen-year-old boy with a paper route.) Repeat after me: “I (state your name) will not buy a stuffed animal that has a ribbon, flag or t-shirt on that says Happy Valentine’s Day.” Good. Now, that being said, you can find a sweetly sentimental little friend for your valentine. Again, go artisan. Find a small felted wool figurine, or a teeny, tiny hand jointed teddy bear. You want something grown up. If you go small, it can live in his or her bag, on the computer at work or perched on a nightstand. We truly never outgrow our affinity for little toys. Trust me. I carry a tiny little dog with me in my tote bag every day. Don’t judge. It sends a good message.

6 Ways to Avoid Being Cliche on Valentine’s Day

Roses are red. Violets are blue. You’re really cute – I wanna bang you.

Valentine’s Day is the one time a year when we all (unless you’re that crazy cat lady or that king of nerds that is #foreveralone) that involves us treating our special someone “extra special and extravagant.” For real though – why, why, WHY does February 14th have to be the only day that Cupid shoots people in the ass? What about the other 364 days? Like bruh.

So, here’s to you Cupid and the 364 days you hide your face like a little b*tch.

Valentine’s Day tends to bring out the basic b*tch in all of us. So here’s 6 ways to avoid being a cliche BB:

1. Forget the box of chocolates – buy her a steak.

Okay, maybe the box of chocolates are still on…but treat your girl like the bad b*tch that she is and buy her a steak (or whatever it is her stomach desires). She’s worth more than the little heart shaped $5 box at Wal-Mart.

2. Ladies – whip out your womanism and cook for your boo.

I get it, being taken out to a nice dinner is great but treat your man with a nice home cooked meal around a candlelit setting. What’s more romantic than a candlelit dinner at your own home with no outside distraction? Who knows – maybe he’ll treat you to dessert. *wink wink*

3. Hallmark card schmallmark card.

Why spend $10 on a card made for everyone and anyone on the planet when you can write cute little sticky notes? Wanna spice things up: place the stickies all around the house and lead the most seductive/romantic note straight to the bedroom. (C’mon – we all have that side that comes out when we’re trying to be low-key kinky). Just do it!!!

4. Red Roses or nah.

So okay yes, females love flowers…especially roses. So maybe ignore my advice on this one and still buy the damn things, but add in a twist and make a playlist for your someone.

5. Romantic movie and chill.

Guys – us girls have you figured out. “A romantic movie leads to a romantic night in the bedroom.” So what if we get “heated up,” doesn’t mean we want you…at least not yet. Calm yourself, dude. Clearly she got all up in her feels because Christian Grey. Don’t flatter yourself too much boo boo.

6. Hulu and do you?

Netflix and chill. Imax and climax. Hulu and do you. Whatever you wanna call it, it all turns into a round of chiddy chiddy bang bang. Guys – if you want to suave her and have that typical V Day sex please do something extra romantic. Throw rose petals on the bed (or kitchen counter – wherever you want to pitch the teepee), light some candles, slow dance with her, take her out and actually show her a good time before you “show her a good time.”

You got this! Don’t let Cupid get to you this Valentine’s Day. You do you boo boo.

28 Holidays to Celebrate in February When You’re Absolutely Sick of Valentine’s

At first glance, February doesn’t have a whole lot to offer. It’s short, contains an over-commercialized holiday, and was probably the most confusing month to spell as a kid Add some fun to some or all of the 28 days this month by celebrating one of these non-Valentine days.

February 1- National Get Up Day

That goal that you’re about to give up on? Give yourself a renewed sense that you can do it… and then do it. Take a good look at how successful your New Year’s resolutions have been so far and rewrite them if you have to.

February 2- National Groundhog Day

At least we still have one thing to believe in (whatever, Tooth Fairy and Santa). Whether or not he’s actually right, you know you are just a little curious to find out if he sees his shadow.

February 3- National Wear Red Day

This day was created in support of the American Heart Association. Plus, it’s a scientific fact that people are believed to be more attractive when wearing red. Win-win.

February 4- National Thank a Mail Carrier Day

They might bring your bills, but they also bring your packages and magazine subscriptions. Slip a note in your mailbox thanking them for what they do.

February 5- National Shower With a Friend Day

What happens in the shower, stays in the shower. Or maybe moves to the bedroom.

February 6- National Frozen Yogurt Day

The fro-yo trend may have died down like 2 years ago, but any excuse to load up on some of that creamy goodness with a pound of toppings is a good one.

February 7- National Send a Card to a Friend Day

It doesn’t have to be a Valentine’s Day Card. A nice little note with an inside joke or thoughtful message will make someone’s day.

February 8- National Kite-Flying Day

If it’s too cold outside where you are, channel your inner child and play a board game, or actually fly a kite if it happens to be nice enough. You could also stay inside and watch some Mary Poppins. Or read Kite Runner.

February 9- National Bagel Day AND National Pizza Day

Any excuse to eat all the carbs. Plus, some places might do free or discounted bagels and pizza!

February 10- National Cream Cheese Brownie Day

You could add cream cheese frosting to dirt and it would taste amazing. Make yourself a batch of brownies.

February 11- National Make-a-Friend Day

That seemingly cool chick who lives down the hall or sits behind you in class? Now’s the time to strike up a conversation!

February 12- National Plum Pudding Day

Do people actually eat this? Do yourself a favor and just pick up a box of instant chocolate/vanilla/pistachio pudding. Holidays are the best when you have your own traditions.

February 13- National Clean out Your Computer Day

Those old pictures of you and your high school ex? DELETE THEM ALREADY. 5,200 unopened emails? Time to get rid of them.

February 14- National Organ Donor Day

Other things happen on the 14th! If you aren’t already registered to donate your organs in case something happens, consider it! Having the ability to potentially save another person’s life is amazing.

February 15- Singles Awareness Day

AKA go out and buy all the clearance Valentines Day candy day…whether you are single or not.

February 16- National Do A Grouch a Favor Day

We all know one or two of these people.Help them out with something, and it could be just what was needed to turn their frown upside down.

February 17- National Cabbage Day

Try a veggie you haven’t tried in a while but haven’t been too fond of ever. You never know…Plus, I promise you can wash the taste out of your mouth tomorrow.

February 18- National Drink Wine Day

Not much different than any other day, really

February 19- National Mint Chocolate Day

Take it in whatever form you like it.

February 20- National Love Your Pet Day

Give some extra special attention to that pup, kitten, fish, or whatever critter you may have.

February 21- National Sticky Bun Day

Sounds like a great excuse to eat a brunch-type meal…even though it’s not the weekend.

February 22- National Margarita Day

You know what to do. This month just keeps getting better. (See February 24 and celebrate them together)

February 23- National Toast Day

The best part about this day is that you can eat the toast however you like it. Peanut butter and pomegranate seeds (personal fave), Nutella, butter, straight up dry crusty bread? The world’s your oyster…or toaster.

February 24- National Tortilla Chip Day

Perfect with some queso and those margaritas!

February 25- National Chocolate Covered Nut Day

Just don’t mistake the chocolate covered raisins for peanuts. Buzz-kill.

February 26- National Tell a Fairytale Day

Have yourself a Disney movie marathon.

February 27- National Polar Bear Day

YouTube “Baby polar bears.” No disappointment.

February 28- National Floral Design Day

Especially if you had no reason to celebrate Valentine’s Day, go pick yourself up a bouquet of pretty flowers. You deserve them.