6.
He was on a 5 day bender ignoring every single one of my messages until I said “I’m leaving you” then he said he was gonna kill himself if I leave him (Something he said everytime I tried to leave). I simply said “okay” blocked him and sent an ambulance to his house. When the ambulance got there his friend sent me a tonne of abusive messages saying why the fuck would you do that ect. Turns out the paramedics walked in on her sucking his dick.
7.
Turns out my ex kept a cat locked in the attic for several years. Changed the litter boxes about once a month and gave her food/water every couple of days. He didn’t really give a shit about her. He didnt have AC so went I went up to check on her I was pouring sweat and had to leave within 5 minutes. I confronted him about her treatment and got the response “It’s just a cat.” I dont know why he even had her in the first place.
I told him the next week that I was taking her to give her a better home and he pretty much said do whatever, once again “she’s just a cat”. She’s 20 years old now and lives with me. She was hesitant of any signs of affection at first butis now the sweetest thing.
Oh, also he was seeing someone else while we were still together. I was struggling with some mental issues and he told me to “go fix myself” but that’s another story.
8.
Month after month after month, excuses why he couldn’t pay rent. And yet he would spend all his income on eating out, online gaming memberships, etc. Would also try to guilt trip me into getting him stuff constantly. 1 day we went to visit relatives in another state during the week before xmas and my uncle snapped. He told him off about how he’s manipulative and can see that what he does has dragged me down as a serious burden. I didn’t attempt to intervene, he was absolutely right. And after we left, ex bitched me out for not stepping up for him. We broke up the day after and suddenly I felt like I could breathe again.
9.
We had been together for 5 years. She started dating someone else for the last 5 months of our relationship. I work night shift as a police officer and I only found out because I realized I left something at home when I left for work and went home to get it around midnight and this random guy was sleeping in my bed and my girlfriend was no where to be found (she was making a run to Walgreens).